Yep. :cool:
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Can't we just establish that we are smarter, better and cooler than all the rest? :) I agree that IQ tests are a insufficient means to measure ones intelligence...especially as there are so many different types of intelligence that those tests completely ignore (emotional or social intelligence, for example). It strikes me, however, that BDSM people seem to be rather well educated, smart and in general thinking and reflecting a lot...I do believe that there is some kind of connection between intelligence (in its widest sense) and an inclination towards BDSM...but that might just be my vanity ;)
I guess, whether we are more intelligent than average, average, or below average, we understand ourselves and what makes us tick a bit better than those who have never had to think about it.
I don't buy that intelligence is involved.
I've seen some Doms and some subs make some pretty unintelligent moves, big mistakes in judgement; Not very good for showing their intelligence level.
The artistic and creative idea seems logical though.
I think it's more of a taste as in what one likes.
and I think the use of the term "Lifestyle" is so overused and overrated.
How many lifestyles can one have? chuckles.
spiritual lifestyle. BDSM lifestyle, Gorean Lifestyle, laidbackkissmyass lifestyle, my Dark lifestyle on and on....
I think you wrote what I meant but mine came out wrong somehow.
IQ tests shows how good you are at answering a particular type of questions in a particular way and I dont normally do well under those circumstances.
I am not that interested in knowing how intelligent I am either cause I know that I am smart enough. Guess that is down to self confidence though.
sorry i wasnt done writing yet. i was trying to preveiw, not post. oops! see below.....
i hope this wont sound bad somehow but looking at this general conversation as a whole... looking at all the thought that went into these answers (or more likely was done long before), people taking into account the human want to be the best of the best, etc, adding that into the equasion to come up with a balanced answer before saying anything.. *L*.. ask this question at a website for vanillas and see what kind of answers you get *smile*. i think this answers the question on it's own.
i seem to recall there has been a study done and it found that BDSM people are often smarter than average. which makes perfect sense to me- BDSM/DS is about the mind. gotta have one in order to enjoy stimulating it.
i do agree about people tending to want to prove their niche is the best and the coolest, etc, but wanting to believe it doesnt change what is or isnt true. the tendancy to slant that way doesnt make it false. i think our lot is smarter as a whole (though that's gone down a bit as we've become more main stream). but then who says being the smartest is the same as being the best? there are quirks and disadvantages that can come with being smarter than most. and to be smarter than the average person is not to say that the average person is worse or stupid or perhaps even superior in some other way.
anyways, my disability is not in my intelligence but my good days and bad days effect the overall functionality of my brain as an organ... so where that leaves me on a given day IQ wise is anybody's guess *wry smile*. ive had a whole range of test scores, most of them unofficial. i was mildly horrified to get 100 once, but i was very unwell that day *L*. on my most recent casual one i think i got 129. ive not had the proper administered by the shrink sort that i recall (i have memory problems so who knows. maybe when i was a kid?) but i did take a test that was purchased and i believe that was the same test as the written part of official one it just didnt count without the official to give it. i got a 140 on that one. i got a 160 on one once, which i think was the official one too but i cant remember the circumstances for that one, so... *shrug*.
so im not sure how to answer the poll in that case as mine werent given by mensa or a shrink which i believe are the only fully official ones so... pass, but theres my ramblings anyways *Smile*
Well us doms could spell if we fucking cared about it go on waste time learning how to spell correctly i will be busy work on my flogging,caning,spanking,clamping,humilation,and torture techniques
An interesting question to say the least...
Being as I have an honorary degree of ThD (Doctor of Thinkology) from the Universitartus Committiartum E Pluribus Unum
Let me think....e = mc squared...The sum of the square roots of any two sides of an isosceles triangle is equal to the square root of the remaining side...rate times time = distance...1 inch = 2.54 centimeters...divide by pi...OK, I think I got it now
After I split a few atoms and speed read War & Peace (What is it Good for? Absolutely Nothing) THEN break for lunch, I will have some free time to do the poll....~lol~
OK, does it matter? As long as there are hot little slaves and sluts crawling to Me...I am a happy Dom, so the fact I have an IQ roughly equal to Shaq's shoe size doesn't really bother Me.
But seriously (or ah, but I digress), love the question and the comments members have made...good job!
Man Bragi.. you could run for gorvernment and win...!!!
You have the lets talk people around in circles til theya re totally confuse on the off topic lingo and then say one thing nice in the middle and one at the end to makes us all belive we are right.... hehehehehheeh
Or the talent of a Dom who wants you to count of each spanking and thank you for it .. but find other things to do and talk about so we lose track... giggle
Joking with ya hun...
But you are right there are some pretty good replies in this post.. and the point is being made you do have to be smart to be good at BDSM...
Writes down never let Bragi get you too count out your spanks .. you are sure to lose count..
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snow
I think I love you...
and don't you worry, if you lose count of the number of times My hand firmly lands on your sexy ass cheeks, I am a genius with figures...especially figures like 40DD-24-36 and 36-24-34 and and measuring by the mouthful and converting inches to centimeters (makes My 2" cock sound much bigger when I answer "a little over 5" to the "how big is your cock" question)...so I will be certain to keep an accurate count for each SMACK...it is a simple equation
total smacks = the number of heart beats per minute divided by the number erotic moans times the square root of the number of desperate whimpers divided by pi multiplied by the number of droplets of juice seeping from swollen wet pussy lips and trickling down the inner thighs...
so snowy, sit back...relax...and enjoy the ride...I got ya covered
Blushes Sir how kind of you to hsve that all sorted out in preparation for me...
Feeles so special {scratches her head wondering how many that actually is}
i am sitting back and waiting Sir...giggles
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snowflake
lol
Love your calculations Bragi :)
Well, I just took a couple online for the sake of this survey....
They seem consistant with the ones I took in high school.