Quote SilverWulf
My favorite is learning the mind of My girl.
I spend countless hours talking with her, asking questions and posing scenarios; most of which is done in seemingly innocent every day conversation. Over time I learn her mind in ways that benefit me greatly. I learn every dark fantasy she has, every desire, all her wants, needs, and everything that makes her tick. I learn her limits, not only what they are but the specific reasoning behind each of them. I learn her reaction patterns and all her behaviors in detail.
By learning all of this I can now do anything I want and get the reaction I am looking for, which is to have her enjoy every single thing I do to or with her. I can allow her an orgasm not only with a specific touch, but a word, a gesture, or even a look. I can make her the happiest girl on earth with a few simple words that are carefully chosen. I can use a certain tone of voice and one sentence to punish her more severely than a week worth of beating ever could.
Her enjoyment and happiness is returned to Me 100 times over.
The possibilities are virtually endless and the rewards are indescribable.
No, not by brainwashing, not at all. I don't 'plant' ideas or suggestions. I don't change her mind, though I do change negative thought patterns and behaviors that we as Dominants should help our girls do anyway.
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**applause**