Originally Posted by
Mistress Annabelle
@ Arria:
"If a person cannot handle his/her own life, he/she should not even begin to think about having a relationship. "
Exactly! That particular sentiment should be told to every single person, ever. As I think thats where the basis of a lot of problems are in BDSM community at large - a few people haven't been able to manage their lives well, and are looking for someone to do it for them. I think this can actually be applied to some dom(me)s too - people really need to be in control of their lives before they look to hand over that control, or gain more.
