aligning your will to His

Thanks, sinfulsex. I'm not searching out the counterculture in this thread but I am so appreciative of the wonderful women of all ages on here.

Wow, that was inspirational, Pearlgem!

You've said it better than I could. Your Dom may help you to be happy and to learn about yourself, but S/He is NOT RESPONSIBLE for your happiness, safety and well-being. Only YOU can be responsible for that.

And only YOU can prevent forest fires, but I digress.... ;)

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Originally Posted by Pearlgem

First of all I have to apologise for raising the idea that I felt us subs were all in competition here to have the best sub credentials. I personally didn't get that impression, but when I raised the point of competition I think I was really expressing my own insecurities, wondering if I should be different from how I am because I didn't see anyone just like me.

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You mean we aren't? ;)

Lol, Oh God Pearlgem don't apologize about that because it does exist, but my Husband says that is to be expected because women always do that (sort of like a female version of "mine's bigger") no matter what we are talking about, (and if the Wise one says so, it must be true :cool: lol).

As for insecurities - we all have them, and this is the place we come to air them out. :)

Beautiful thread Pearlgem, and even if I can't relate to on the older submissive thing, you have hit so many truths with it that just ring true - it is always a pleasure to read your thoughts.