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Never thought it would happen to me, I even told my Master that I was not able to get there. Two weeks ago, when on vacation, when i was rested and relaxed he did show me that i can indeed squirt :pray:
Only took me 42 years and the right guy to find out :p
Just my 2 cents :)
Your uterus does contract during orgasm. When you're pregnant, during the last few weeks you're due, I've read and had it confirmed by my doctor that having a really good orgasm will cause the uterus to contract and can stimulate child birth (as well as the oxytocin) and also recommended a a good orgasm after the 6 wks thing stay to help contract the uterus to help it go back to its normal size.
And I am gusher but can squirt, squirting takes more work. I have frequent vaginal orgasms. In fact I am really the only girl I've ever met that can have multiple vaginal orgasms pretty much every time I have sex.
And that didn't actually occur until after I had my son. *shrug* no foreplay involved, nothing, and I have to really control it or I gush all over the bed...its rather icky sometimes and I get sick of washing the sheets so I have an "orgasm" towel lol.
I have heard that every anatomy is a bit different and so not every woman as a g*spot or the ability to have it properly stimulated to produce a great orgasm...I however can have g*spot orgasms, vaginal orgasms and clitoral orgasms and each one has its own sensation and seems to stimulate different responses in the muscles.
It happens that way for me, usually during oral or manual stimulation, getting very wet and at the moment before orgasm I will gush. We do have to have a towel handy because of the "wet spot."
The whole area between my clit to just inside the vaginal opening is very sensitive to touch, all it takes, really, is a light, tickling strokes to start it happening. I even masturbated in front of a mirror once, to see how it works. Just before I orgasmed there was a flood of liquid that came from my vagina.
Have also heard it referred to as female ejaculate or female semen in older texts.
Squirting is thankfully very real and I actually didn't realize until the past couple of months that not only can I do so, I have many times before but just didn't know it.
I became sexually active at 16 but due to a psychological block I didn't have my first orgasm until I was 19. But the really good orgasms didn't come until after I had my daughter. I think that's because pregnancy helped me to really tune into my body and when you know your body well, good sex usually follows.
But the squirting or gushing orgasm was still very tricky for me to come by. At first I could only have them during intercourse when I was on top and with a LOT of clitoral stimulation. Usually I would tire out before I even came close to gushing. But oh my Goddess, I don't think I'll ever forget the first time I did. It felt as though the entire lower half of my body just plain melted. I've been addicted ever since.
In my attempts to produce more squirting and gushing (yes, I have done both though not at the same time) I have noticed a few consistencies for me.
I have to have clitoral stimulation. Period. I have to successfully squirt or gush without it, and trust me, I've tried. ;)
I have to hold out for it. I guess the easiest way to describe it would be that I can't allow myself to orgasm, I have to wait until it just takes me. It's quite a mental and physical struggle to do so, especially the physical. As I get closer to climaxing my vaginal muscles go a little insane, no really. I've sent dildos flying a foot before and honestly, it's really hard to orgasm after that. :(
I've also noticed that the most impressive squirting orgasms I've had are typically when using my rabbit vibrator. Especially in combination with a clit clamp.
Anyway, that's what works for me that I've discovered thus far and I'm certainly open to any advice. :)
From what I have read on the topic of the G spot, I think the problem is that the glands vary in size and position and are sometimes close to the top of the vagina and sometimes far away. If close then it is easy to stimulate it and so cause an ejaculate. If far away, it is harder to stiimulate - imagine wrapping your clitoris or penis in layers of bubblewrap before trying to bring yourself off. Its much harder to achieve an orgasm this way. Some women may have only one layer of bubblewrap between the vagina and the glands, others may have many more.
This means that, while most women do have these glands, not every woman has them in an 'accessible' location for intercourse. So, it is hard to test the existence of the G spot because there is not a consistent response from all women. The only way to prove that this gland is the g spot and responsible for female ejaculate is to perform some form of surgery and manipulate the gland directly and note the effect and I am not sure there are many women who would volunteer for that procedure :)
Clitoral and vaginal orgasm are linked to the same organ. The clitoris is a large area of erectile tissue that surrounds the vagina. The sensation you get when the vagina is engorged and a penis (or hand or tongue or whatever) is inserted is stimulation of this erectile tissue. What we call 'the clitoris' is actually a small protrusion of that tissue poking through the muscle layer. Around the vagina it is buried in more, less sensitive tissue but here it is more exposed. Therefore, stimulation of the clitoris is more acute and intense.
I have had them in the past through both clit stimulation and penetration at the same time. But they are soooo random! I've had around 5 or 6 in total in as many years.
I dont actually enjoy them, purely because they make me so sensitive afterwards play time is over and i have to lie still for a while. They are very intense!
my .02 It is real and can (maybe not always) be taught. I taught my wife how to do so. Much of it had to do with working up to that 'peeing' feeling that many women shy away from. A lot had to do with where and how to apply pressure. Some side notes - be sure she is hydrated.. We've had poor results when dehydrated (alcohol lol) Duhh... go figure.
Okay, trying not to totally blush at this conversation. But Yes it is possible as others have said. I do it from time to time depending on things. (I am not going into those things). But I also Know there is a lady, i believe from the east coast that teaches classes on how to squirt and other things about suirting. I think that most everything else has been covered.
~RK~
^ wow, there are people who teach squirting classes?
i've had this happen irregularly several times in the past, most recently during a task set for me, where it took me totally by surprise and the whole orgasm was entirely overwhelming. had to go for a lie down.
squirting orgasms..i like them! i think they're good!
*grin*
I'm reading this and I can say that when my master rubs (well call it my g-spot for all intents and purposes) that I do have the feeling of needing to pee, this can go on for ten minutes but nothing comes of it. I've tried relaxing to see if that would help and I just can't seem to squirt or puddle. Its frustrating because I can feel it but I don't know how to release, I no some people say about the sendation but none say about how to release itor if you even have to do anything or just wait .
I can, I do often not all the time, sometimes a little, sometimes A LOT, and I love it!!!!
I know I started squirting a lot more frequently and copiously, not always as part of a full orgasm, but sometimes as a pre-orgasm response to stimulation. I used to be embarrassed but now I know my husband really likes it, so I learned to do it more.
Recent research I have seen indicate that all women "squirt" when they orgasm....but most have a retrograde ejaculation - it goes into the bladder, not out of the vagina. Bladder specimens taken before and after orgasm indicate the presence of the orgasmic fluid. Which may explain the urge to pee when squirting is eminent. Males also can experience retrograde emissions which contributes to difficulty in conception.
I too can squirt.I never knew what it was until last year,I saw it and was like "Oh my God"!!! I do that?!?!
really...? they need to come and explain this to my ceiling, LOL!Quote:
The G-spot remains controversial, with a study by Kings College claiming to have disproved it.
I've also heard that it can help with period pains, though that might just be that after coming enough you don't care :-)Quote:
Originally Posted by darkfae
I guess you never had period pains or you wouldn't say that. They're either gone, or you care.Quote:
Originally Posted by leo9
Joking aside: Sex indeed helps with period cramps, for me it doesn't even have to include an orgasm. Although I obviously very much prefer if it does. ;)
Sex/orgasm really does help with cramps, at least for mild ones. Once they get past mild though, forget it. Ibuprofen also helps, but is not as fun.
I think sex helps even more than the orgasm. It's like a massage on the inside to get rid of those pains. LOL
Mmm..Thanks to a little device...(the inventor should recieve a medal, in my opinion ;)) i havent had period pains in years....But a good excuse to have sex...
A question: I am certainly able to cum on command... and do squirt...now... Has anybody ever done 'squirting on command?' I heard about the idea yesterday for the first time and I'm not sure I'm a believer yet...
Maybe I just haven't had enough practise... (now... there is another excuse to have sex ;) Maybe we should start a list.....)
I think it would be really convenient to have two different commands- one for orgasm with squirt and one for orgasm, no squirt. So far they are randomly mixed up for me. Which is not the greatest if we are out in public and he tells me to cum.
Exactly..... It would be convenient. Added to that, imagine the level of control it would potentially give the Dom.....
It may be worth investigiting.
And all that practise would be in the name of science....;)
skittish doe haven't heard from you for a while.....Sir RobertQuote:
Originally Posted by symphony
It exists and you can go online and see women do it. my only question is " what are they squirting" is it cum or is it something else like pee. I have had an experience in Hong Kpng where we were covered in the same goo at the end and it from tits to waist. good luck.
dear confused.
The female body have many g spots, there is one just inside the vagina below the clitorus squeeze the two together and you will know.