OK... so there's this Dom...

I found my sub online and we've been together now for 2 years. You will know if it's the right one for you.And when you do let your fantasy just roll out of ya.
Good luck

Well, we met. Met for coffee and that went well. He is polite with an aire about him. Gives that auora that he knows where he belongs (if that makes any sense). We agreed to meet for a couple hours, but next thing we knew they were kicking us out to close shop! :eek: We talked just as easily in person as we did online, which is always nice. He's handsome and carrys himself with pride and authority. (also hard to describe)

The second meeting was also at a coffee shack.. lol. (call me chicken, but have helpped way to manygirls after bad meeting experiences). We chatted and chatted, and yes, he DOES have "the look".. I got that out of him on that meeting with one lil "pfffht". ;) Since it was early, I invited him to the munch I was planning to go to that evening, and he agreed to go. We drove seperatly, and met up there. I watched closley how he interacted with the other lifestylers that I knew, and was pretty proud of him actually. Most of them know me and my experiences in the past and asked questions I about died when I heard them! But, he never even flinched and answered every one in detail. :) They all told me later that he seems a decent, well learned (lifestyle-wise) and appeared to be a "good catch"... to which I replied.."I haven't let him catch me yet". ;)

Our third meeting was a bit .... ummm... more for my own mind than anything... we went horsebackriding and then when we came back, I was saying bye and how we had so much fun, but had chores to do etc... and he asked if I would mind if he stayed to help! (I about fainted at that) I chuckled and explained that I was cleaning the hog pen, and that he "really" wouldn't enjoy that. He really floored me when he smiled and said that there's a lot we may not like, but are good things to do together. So, I handed him a pitchfork and some old barncoat, boots etc... and off we went to clean the hog pen.. (my LEAST favorite job!). When that was done, we just sorta kept going till the goat, horse and chicken pens were all clean. omg how we laughed! I invited him to stay for dinner, was the least I could do for all the help ya know ;). Over dinner I teased him that he had arrived all nicley dressed and a "city boy" and now look at him... all grubbed out and sweaty. We said our goodbyes and he....
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.... kissed my hand, smiled and left! ACKKKK!!! that falls under the "romance" catagory!!! RED, RED, RED!!!!!
My gf says that's something ALL girls crave, and that I was lucky he was like that... but honestly, it made me want to bolt.

So, he and I talked about it (a lot) and how I felt about it etc... and he simply said that it was the way he was, and I'd either get used to it, or have my ass warmed one day. :eek: Now, before ya'll start saying he had no right to say that... it weakened my knees to hear those words from him. :yeah:

So, last time I saw him, we had dinner, talked and basically started to feel the ground of a "relationship" and where the boundries were... in a weird way. He pushed me a tad, I replied with a lil more submission... I nudged him, and he recripricated with "the look" etc...

Yeah, so far, so good.... :hubba:

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Seriously. He seems like a really nice guy who does his best to make a good impression. If he's such a good catch as you make it sound, I suggest you don't make his work any harder. Maybe it's a cultural thing, but me personally in his shoes, would have allready given up. Having to make an effort is one thing, but you're really stringing him along.

And with the kiss on the hand thing. Could it be that you're doing your best in finding faults in him? If he's suposed to be a Dom, I'm pretty sure he'll be less romantic when you have sex with him.

I think he proved he has feelings for you when he helped out with the hog pen. Yuck.

Enough back-seat driving for one day. I'm sure there's a million reasons why you've done what you've done that you didn't write. Opening up your heart is a big step, but if you don't nothing will happen.

Good luck, take care and please keep us posted.