I love being call good girl. It really mean so much to me.
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I love being call good girl. It really mean so much to me.
I love being told I am a "good girl" it kind of makes me feel more secure and that I am pleasing him. Being told "good girl" after a command makes me really want to please more and it makes me even hornier if that is possible
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Originally Posted by rachel06
It is actually something that my Master says when I have done a good job with something. We are rl and online. When I say something that is the correct response or a good idea then he tell me 'good girl'. One of my names is also Pet even though we do not do animal play.
I just found out last night that my Master is getting me a cuff and collar set! I am very excited.
Since my Sir & i are so far apart. I like to hear it and see it in texts. I also like good sub, good pet. It just makes me feel so good knowing i made him happy.
His name for me is pet and i like it.
Now if anyone else in my "everyday" life were to say it I would be very upset and would say something about it. It would feel patronizing and degrading coming from anyone else but Sir.
I love it when Mistress calls me that.
Frankly I hate the phrase. It does take me back to being a kid- which I love. I am a big kid and I act like one whenever I can get away with it. However, I was aways in trouble as a kid. So when I hear the phrase Good Girl I dont think of it as praise, I think of it as acknowledgement that I have given in to something. I am not offended, I'll be a "girl" till I'm 100, but hearing Good Girl distracts me from what is going on to the point my instincts kick in to do the opposite of what I just got praised for. I give a heads up. Otherwise, they're bringing out the brat in me unknowingly... I'm new at this though. Maybe I need to work on that.
I love to be called pet, sweet, baby, anything else... bring it all on! :)
so far, i appreciate it in an affirming effect. For me I like to please my Master/DOM, so it reaffirms that i have done that.
that is were i stand on it. But in some ways it also feels like a himiliation connotation to. Which i appreciate as well. it puts me in place and tells me that i need to be a good girl and keep pleasing her as my DOM. even though its just online.
I love it! It lets me know that my Master is pleased with me.
Although he doesnt say it often, it is special to me when he does :)
That's really awesome...but I have a thing for accents...:)Quote:
Originally Posted by SubmissiveDoll
I completely understand...and it seems like even when they aren't trying, they figure out the buttons that work the quickest...*sigh* what do you do? I think it's really one of the reasons we love them.Quote:
Originally Posted by jezabel {ukMC}
Yes, my Dom does say it to me, and I hate it. I am not a girl, I do not like the implication that slaves/subs are like children. It just bothers me!Quote:
Originally Posted by rachel06
My Dom calls me his good girl when I have done something well and I always try to get him to call me "his good girl". It invokes an feeling of utter happiness that i never got with any of my vanilla relationships. However at my job i have had people call me a good girl or sweetie and it drives me crazy, like i see red...lol. I only like it when he calls me good girl ;-)
Yep, love hearing Him tell me I'm a good girl.
It's the highest form of praise to me.
I think if it really bothers you, you should respectfully let him know. My Daddy Dom calls me his little girl or his baby girl which I love. He also used to call me "little baby". For some reason that hits my buttons and feels like something a bully on a play ground would say. I explained that to him and told him the terms I do like. He has stopped using it. We are just on line, so the way it is said and the intonation are entirely in my head. If it were real life where I had other visual or verbal clues I might react differently.
its wonderful to hear "good girl" from Him it makes me feel great and happy.. !
i really enjoy being called 'good girl' my bf/Dom also calls me his angel, there are many things that make me feel good about making him happy and many things he says to me are just that much mre rewarding.
Basically, it gives me the creeps to be called "girl" in real life, partly because I look younger than I am anyway, and I feel not being taken seriously/belittled/looked down upon...
My Dom is not into calling me that, either, and I never wanted it, anyway.
However, there are a very small number of the Dommish folk on here who have called me that... "good girl" or "little one"... and I found it made me feel all pleased and warm and fuzzy inside... coming from them, I like it a HUGE lot...
But I have found that there is pretty much nothing one really does not like or is not willing to do, granted one is with the right partner... so I have to say it really depends on the person who speaks to me.
i luv it. it means i am pleasing Him in every possible way. i don't see anything humiliating in it at all. if i disliked it, i would not say anything because i know He meant it with love and tenderness. to me it is a very special endearment and urges me on to do even more things to please Him. i have found that accepting words as they are given is the wisest choice because sometimes i read things into words that are simply not there, to the detriment of our experience together.Quote:
Originally Posted by rachel06
When He calls me His 'good girl' my heart swells and it drives me crazy. I love it!
Sexually and emotionally a positively awesome statement...
i am Master's girl, He refers to me as such, so to be His good girl is a GOOD thing!
Perhaps if you just try to focus on the fact your Dom is pleased with you enough to let you know might make it easier to hear.
Yes, in fact that's what happened. I had enough trouble with some other things that were required of me that I chose not to address this particular issue, and you're right, I stopped hearing the patronizing part of it, or perhaps I learned to like that. In any event, it certainly pleased me to please him.Quote:
Originally Posted by SirLs_leenie
He's long gone, but the lessons remain.
MMMmm those two words - either spoken softly or sent in email or text can make me tingle with pride for hours
Unless my husband says it at home - he does it to wind me up and it makes me want to scream at him. But when my Master says it the joy I feel is so intense, I smile for ages afterwards.
Mmmm........ I loooooooooooooooooooove being called a good girl. I love it when my master calls me that :)
Okay, i my humble opinion, the words that your Dom uses for you are only as good as your reaction to them. I personally love it when i've done something to please him and he tells me that i'm such a good girl. However, if hearing this does nothing for you then you should be open with your Dom and tell him that. If you are having a negative reaction to his words of praise then it is also bringing you out of sub space when he uses them, it takes away from your pleasure and no Dom worthy of having the title would want something like that for you. It would be a simple matter for him to find the right word that just makes you feel all warm and happy when you hear it. Communication is the key here, he is trusting you to tell him when something isn't right. Good luck.
i love being called "good girl" it makes me feel that i have been VERY pleasing... There is a Dom that i play with by phone sometimes and i love it when he says it
i love it when my Master calls me a "good girl" it means i really please him. and i usually get a kiss out of it tooXD
but when he says "good kitten" it melts me into his arms*floats to memory....* He's only said it once....
people here have mentioned "good slut", i enjoy being told that to a degree, espically in fornt of other people.
I've always strived to be a "good little girl" "sweet girl" pretty little doll etc. The only term that I've ever had an issue with was being called "cunt" My former Master only called me that one time and when it made me cry he never called me that again. I'm not sure why it made me cry it just did and it wasn't crying in a good way either it was "don't touch me" crying. So I always strive to be good except when I'm being bad...
*giggles*
mollydoll
I love being called a good girl. Its the ultimate form of praise in my book.
Just love hearing Him tell me that, I just beam with pride knowing that He is pleased with me.
i love being called good girl... its rarely used so i know when he Does use it he Means it and he's pleased with me
If I REALLY disliked any term that my Dom gave me I would say so after the scene and when I could say it in a way that was not charged with the negative emotion that was attached to the name - no point in ruining a perfectly wonderful scene for one phrase that has no power other than what I choose to give it...Quote:
Originally Posted by rachel06
I personally love 'good girl' when he says it to me inside and outside of the b'room....but would recoil if most other people used this term to describe or address me as it does have some obvious patronising connotations...but it does all depend on the tone. But I may not be the best judge...in Australia, sometimes the most horrible epithets are used to refer to each other ("How's it going ya old bat / cunt / bastard?!" are some of the cheery greetings that can be heard in any normal pub on a Friday night as old friends greet each other.....we all know that these names show us that you are loved and most of all accepted (we delight in teasing each other and giving the worst most degrading nicknames) but it ALL depends on the tone and delivery...if someone other than a close friend called us that, well....its WAR! ;)
But if you don't like it, say so...end of. Gently provide him with an alternative name he can use that does do the right things to you (after all its meant as a reward) instead of making you feel uncomfortable....he wants to know your triggers (good and bad), and communication is the only way to do that....as I can see from most posts here, 95% of the subs here love the term 'good girl' when delivered by their Dom, so he may have no reason to believe this could cause you any conflict based on prior experience with other subs...
Life's too short to feel bad about 2 simple words...you can change it :)
xxx
PS but be prepared for him to bring it out when you do something wrong!!! hehehe
Just read back through the rest of the posts and realised he is no longer in your life...but my thought remains the same, submissive does not mean that you cannot express a preference or communicate your wishes to a Dom....if you don't like it, and it has overtones you find uncomfortable (child abuse / degradation when you do not enjoy being degraded etc) then let him know...
xxx
well done for still wanting to explore the issues of the past, its the only way to move forward
this girl agrees that any praise is good praise- she likes knowing that she has pleased and done her job well. she feels that 'good girl' is affectionate and enjoys hearing it.
if she did not like it, she supposes that she would find some way to say so, although it may be difficult to bring up! its much better to share things in her opinion, rewards and punishment should work as intended.
I know I'm new to the forum, but when my Master calls me a 'good girl' it's extremely rewarding. I feel like He's pleased with me and my action.
On the flip side, I had a problem in the beginning of O/our relationship with Him calling me slave, just as a pet name. For me the word seemed very cold and demeaning. I thought of a few alternatives I could live with or would like better and talked to Him about using those instead of slave (He now calls me pet). And W/we decided that He would use 'slave' when he was displeased with me or punishing me since it bothered me anyway.
Hope this helps!
Sana
i love being called good girl by Daddy :)
if it really bothered me i think He wouldn't call me that though
I like a lot of ladies here am far from a girl (that was a long time ago)
when Mr B*****d calls me a good girl, its normally after bearing a length spank, usually im in such a state it registers and im hugely comforted.
its later when i replay it all in my head it bristles and prickles a bit.
i would never swap it.
Usually it bothers me yet makes me smile. My last dom used to say it to me when i did well but, being stubborn as i am, he knew it to push my buttons. It kept up with our very playful relationship of my no-I'm-strong-and-tough-...please-take-me
Well I am a guy so I would be called good boy.
I don't know. I don't dislike it but I much prefer being told I am bad or naughty.
If my dom is pleasing me I behave. If he does something I don't like I call him Mom. Just so he knows I don't like it. I don't pretend that this solves any problems but I think it lets him know where I stand. It's also a terribly immature way of dealing with it as it doesn't foster the communication between you and you have to be ready to accept the consequences.
i really need to check the forums more often lol...anyway back on topic.
I love to be called a good girl, i grin like a silly fool after hearing it. even in the vanilla setting, i still love being called a good girl. Its a term of endearment for me, something that should that he cares enough to show his graditude to me...by calling me his good girl.
I give him the same reaction, a gentle smile and/or a silly grin.