*grinning* how sweet was it? :DQuote:
Originally Posted by mythicat
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*grinning* how sweet was it? :DQuote:
Originally Posted by mythicat
I fed him a big ol' yummy dinner when he got home and now he ain't good for nuthin. Some thanks that is!
I'll have to get back to ya on it. :cool:
Wow, Allyslittleone, just wow. I am extremely impressed and jealous. You almost make me long for a Y chromosome. I am, however, most inspired. ;)
I tried it and asked how it was.Quote:
Originally Posted by redEva
He reported "a little painful."
So of course I then asked, "But did you like it?" :[
His reply was a hesitant/grudging, "a little."
So I tried it again, this time a bit softer.
He said it still hurt, and when asked did not want me to keep doing it.
His bouncy bits are not overly sensitive at all. I wonder if I'm doing it right? Or in the right place? I was directly on a testis...
You said it mythicat! When those knees start going it's too late to keep your dignity. The handful of hair is sufficent domination. A guy should sit down. Can't the person in charge be comfortable? :)Quote:
Originally Posted by mythicat
Spike
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Originally Posted by spike
But...but...the pirate in my fantasy wasn't sitting! Now put the eye patch back on and get off your duff! lol :p
I agree that the one in charge should be however they're most comfortable (at least usually). I would much rather my partner be able to relax than take forEVER to cum. Because that's just going to wind up making me uncomfortable. lol
You have to admit tho...a guy sprawled out in his easy chair isn't as visually intimidating. :rolleyes:
It's not that kind of Spike. :cool:Quote:
Originally Posted by mythicat
It depends what you most recently remember him doing to you. :D Intimidation first. Blowjob to follow. Always the best plan. And keep the crop somewhere very handy in case she starts blowing raspberries!Quote:
You have to admit tho...a guy sprawled out in his easy chair isn't as visually intimidating. :rolleyes:
Spike
Let's see... deepthroat is unneccessary, but you should be able to get half of it in; very, very, very wet; alternating licking with sucking (alternating more quickly as you near the climax); use one hand to grip the bottom half, and keep the skin pulled taut at all times; with the other hand, keep tension on my scrotum (your whole hand will fit between my balls and my body); licking and sucking my balls would be a winner, but not near the climax (unless you were trying to draw things out); eye contact (though not every second) and obvious enthusiasm are hugely important; swallowing isn't neccessary in a casual relationship, but makes a guy who already is serious about you feel all warm and protective (I think it's an act of submission); if your knees can stand it (try a pillow), kneeling in front of me, topless and with conveniently long hair to hold is just icing on the cake (while you're kneeling like that, you can rub my wet cock over your neck and breasts, if you want to slow things down -- and the feeling of your nipples against my thighs...); and rubbing my perinium in time to the contractions when I cum wraps thing up nicely, though it would certainly require lots of practice to get the timing down.
Thank you for starting this thread, Eva!
hehe , you most welcome , and thank you for picturesque description :DQuote:
Originally Posted by Curtis
ohh goodie, next to breat bondage my favorite topic!
well I don't have a "technique" and my prefrance varies greatly by the intensity of the evening or on the other then of the spectrum how calm my days been. If's I've had a really long stressful day, most often not in a throat raping face fucking pounding BJ mood. Nice slow even steady. What RedEva said about using your skin (breast nipples etc) works very well espcaiily if your going for a more pleasent or oh dare I say "romantic"? BJ. But then again if it was a pissy day or one of my employee's pissed me off yea it may be a throat pounder.
One thing I greatly enjoy is I love scraping teeth, forget folding those lips I want to feel those pearlly whites! One other technique that work extremely well if you can't deepthroat (more on this topic in a sec) is drool it up girls, I know its reflex not to but let it go and don't just use your hand to hold, add it to the motion it, if you can get your timing down and drool enough, the sensation is very very simular to being deepthroated. The favorite technique my girl uses is she take her hand off or down to 1-2 fingers on her down stroke and adds the rest of her hand on the up stroke. The pressure has to be matched to the mount of tongue pressure as well.
Now on the deepthroat topic yet again. First off I am not an "average" size I'm not gonna sound like a lame braggert or wanna be and spout off numbers, so lets just say above average. Let me say I've had it done more then once it CAN be done.
as a second form of proofm I'm actually going to point to a porn:
this isn't some stupid trick of the camera or faking or anything. I know cause I was there holding the camera :)
Hey, you're right, I just tried this (two minutes ago) on my hubby and he came like there ain't no tomorrow!! Thanks for the tip!!!Quote:
Originally Posted by Curtis
*beaming with pride* tis my baby (this thread) and is growing so nicely, and even giving back to society! You see!
Joke aside good advices, Im glad they are getting use!
On the other note impressive swallowing on some of those pics but that dark haired one did not seem to happy having full throat!
What I really like to see is girl taking it deep and seeing her throat gets thick with the rod. *drooling*
:-[Got a chance to read all the other posts first. My two cents on this topic is that deep throat is not that necessary. Hitting the places where the nerve endings reside has the greatest affect.Quote:
Originally Posted by redEva
For deep throating: The sub who swallowed swords has the right idea. Practice practice practice. I would recommend starting with a banana. It has the right shape and is also stiff. Should it go into places where is should not be (causes a gag response), it will not be so stiff and hard that it will cause damage.
The gag reflex is a safe guard to protect you from having foreign substances enter the lungs. Nothing goes in if everything is going out. The banana can be slowly pushed down the throat yet removed when the gag response start or if you suddenly find a need to breathe :yuck: With practice the throat can become accustomed to having something like a banana or other similar item :rolleyes: placed in the immediate area.
As a male, I like the idea of having a sub paying such close attenting to that area. The Crown has the most nerve ending and thus can give the greatest response. The perineum is another excellent place to stroke. Consider that this area is used by most animals to induce responses, mostly research from mothers cleaning their newborn. Whether it goes all the way down or not does not increase my responses. Whether the sub is paying attention and playing appropriately gains a greater positive response. Best BJ is one that comes from both partners wanting and enjoying.
We may not have poprocks over here, but we do have Sparx Magic Popping Candy, which is not quite as good but it does change colour ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by slavelucy
Kelli, everything you have described fits in with the very best I have experienced. Your partner is a very lucky man!Quote:
Originally Posted by Kelli
There is one suggestion I can make that is not in your description, although you might be doing it anyway! One very sensitive area is the groove on either side between the scrotum and the anus. With your fingers in a vee, reach underneath from behind, and run your parted fingers in very lightly on both sides of the groove simultaneously. Talk about going from hard to solid rock! The feel of a woman's fingers doing that is indescribable, and combined with the rest of what you are doing with your mouth, I'm sure it will be fantastic.
There's one general comment I would make to all of you women who want to make a big impression on us men. Perhaps the most common mistake a woman makes is to presume that ejaculation = male orgasm. Not so. As I'm sure you all know, you can cause a man to ejaculate very quickly with all kinds of techniques, but there is very little, if any pleasure involved. In fact, there are two different processes going on and they happen at very different speeds. If you get it wrong, the ejaculation occurs long before he is anywhere near a real orgasm.
As many people have said in here many times, the most erogenous zone is the mind. I would add that the second most erogenous zone a man has is a woman, the third is anywhere except where you think it is, and the fourth is exactly where you think it is. For a man to achieve maximum pleasure there needs to be a slow buildup, so his mind becomes focused on all those visual, tactile and other erotic sensations. During this buildup remember the order of those erogenous zones. He needs to be in the mood, then he needs to be able to touch and feel you, then he needs to feel your touch, arousing his whole body, focusing his mind so that he is fully aroused and ready and desperately wanting you to touch him in those very obvious places. Use techniques like those described by Kelli but take your time, let him stay hard for a while while he feels the intense sensations that he can only enjoy in that state of arousal, and then, when you sense that he is ready, tip him over the edge and you will get an ejaculation that fully justifies being described as a male orgasm. Those special sensations of pleasure come from all parts of the genitalia, especially the most sensitive areas like around and beneath the scrotum.
Some men may like it when you close your thumb and forefinger around his ball sack and pull his balls gently away from the body while you do all those wonderful things with your mouth.
some times a picture is worth a 1,000 words.
But to me - I need to fee the woman's breasts between my thighs and pushed up at my balls -- that is a sensual feeling for me.
I have only cum once from receiving head. My wife thinks that my cock might not be as sensative as most men. Is there a possibility that when I was having my cercumsision when I was a boy -that some nerve endings were cut? I have no problem keeping my erection - but it takes me being "inside" to have me cum.
My own thoughts on this is that it might be a control thing with me. I feel like when I am receiving head - I am the one receiving - not doing - and by not "doing" I am not in control -- as a Dom - I like to be in control.
anyway - those are some of my thoughts.
John
John...I am not positive about the nerve endings being cut during circumcision, but it makes sense. I have read and heard that men w/o circumcisions have more feeling...so I guess it is possible.Quote:
Originally Posted by JohnZ
As for never having cum but once from receiving head....Max was sort of like that. The first time I gave him a bj....nothing...nada...so I'm thinking to myself....well, I suck at this and not in a good way!:p But he explained that it is very difficult for him to cum while getting a bj. But on my next visit, he had abstained from masturbating for about three days...plus he gave me incentive...I couldn't cum until I made him cum! Btw...he told me this after he already had me squirming from oral! So I proceeded to give him the best bj I had ever given. Ya know how sometimes...the rhythm of your hands and your mouth just come together perfectly?? Well the ladies probably get this! :p So anyway....it worked! And I got two rewards that day!
I am sure that you may have already tried this...but I thought I would throw in my 2 cents!:)
Not that the title of this post has anything to do with the subject, butt, it triggered the thought of circular thinking. John, both your statements point to personal 'head games'. (That phrase wasn't intentional, but hey, it worked out that way.:p )Quote:
Posted by JohnZ: My own thoughts on this is that it might be a control thing with me. I feel like when I am receiving head - I am the one receiving - not doing - and by not "doing" I am not in control -- as a Dom - I like to be in control.
And that is what orgasm is anyway, a head game. Women have that same inner dialogue that eventually leads them to give up or die trying to cum. But their dialogue runs along the lines of "if I enjoy this, he'll think I'm a slut" or the usual "good girls don't cum from oral sex." Most of the soccer moms I know look like they gave up. I NEVER give up...:D and glad I still don't!
(Anyway, thought I'd give you a little insight into thinking of women in the Bible Belt);)
See! It is a head game with yourself. Personally, I don't believe in your theory of 'not being in control,' as a possible reason for not reaching orgasm with a bj. The silent way you do orgasm has to do with your mind.Quote:
I have no problem keeping my erection - but it takes me being "inside" to have me cum.
I'm with LTP, whose 2 cents is worth 4 bits, then 6 bits, and finally, a whole dollar. She wisely hinted that a little abstention accompanied frustration will quickly cure you of any hesitancy about cumming from a bj on that special person's lips.:eek:
Nikita
Well I will agree that it is most likely a "head game" - it is all in my head (though do not discount the control thing - since that is a head game in itself - for who is ever in control really?)Quote:
Originally Posted by nikita
As for the abstention - that theory has been tested to no avail. -- But I will say - the one time that I did come from a BJ - it was from my lovely wife, when she was determined to make me cum. She kept at it -- to take me over the threshold. Unfortuantly I get to the point normally- but do not crest. (so it can be done, I just have not have had the patient partner, though my wife's jaw did hurt from the time she spent on me that time, and has not rallied that kind of desire again - I guess it was something to check off her list - and then - not worry about it any more.)
Thanks for the feedback -
John
I have a spare moment or two so I thought I'd add my thoughts to this discussion, trying to address various points I've picked up in the other threads.
First-up, on the subject of deepthroating. I agree that for men it is not the be-all and end-all of blow job sensations - it is good, but it is not the best that can be done. However, as we all know, the mind is the main erogenous zone and I can't held but be turned on by the knowledge that a girl is close to choking on my cock which is filling her mouth. :o
Jaeangel - five inches isn't that small - I imagine it's still hard to get it all in. Between the regular blow-jobs, the handcuffs for the purpose, and your offer of anal, you get high marks from me!
Anyway, mouth plus hand covering the rest of the shaft is a good way to go, combined movement of the two. It is quite rare that I come from only contact with her mouth - I need the firm grip of a hand as well to finish me off, might just be me though! However, if I'm being dom and go for a long face-fucking, that can turn me on enough to do the trick.
Continuing with the all-important-mind theme, there are two accompaniments to a blow-job that really do it for me (especially when I'm sub and tied up). One is teasing; tempting me with the promise of a blow job at first, but then making me wait, and beginning slowly. The other is facesitting - with or without blindfold and/or gag, the smell (and perhaps sight and taste) of a woman that I cannot escape from is all the extra arousal I could ever need. Do the other guys agree on the last point, or am I isolated in that view?
Guy walks into a bar and orders a shot of Jack Daniels. He follows it up with another and another until his 6th.
The bartender finally walks over to the customer and asks "Are you celebrating something???"
The guy replies "My first blow job."
Bartender says, "OH!!! Congradulations, let me buy your next shot!"
The man thinks for a second and says, "Nah...if the first 6 didn't get that taste out of my mouth nothing will."
ROFLMAO!! Thanks MrJerseyGuy! I needed that! :D
Nerve ending cut!? No, as far as I know, Supposedy the nerve endinging get desensitized on exposed glans - possiby a myth too.Quote:
Originally Posted by JohnZ
I will go with the control factor - very powerfull. I can cum :D but tend to shy away from it. I see it more as a reward I like to give for great effort.:cool:
Deepthoating is for me more metnal dominat thing then great plasur - at last I haven't receved one yet that was pure pleasure ... hmmm
uncut Pej
I am soooo NOT going there!! But man do I wanna!:DQuote:
Originally Posted by pejanon
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Originally Posted by learningtopleez
wanna?
there are ways of making pipe dreams come true...
Then - there are OTHER ways.... of making it treu
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"pipe dreams?" -- maybe this is what i should call it when i close my eyes, and visualize a beautiful woman wrapping her lips around my cock, as i inevitably have to resort to getting myself off. :pQuote:
Originally Posted by pejanon
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Originally Posted by Driveslikeagirl
Preface: Everyone is different. I speak in generalitys for the masses but in specifics for me.
Why do we like women to swallow? I think the majority will agree that the most intense form of pleasure for a man is a well performed blow job. The climax is just that, the epitome of the intense feelings. Imagine that at the magic moment when you are feeling the best feelings possilbe they stop! Any interruption is magnified at that moment. A man's orgasam doesn't last that long in the first place. Even if it is substituted by a hand, or lips on the side of the shaft. Nothing can replace that engulfed feeling of a warm, wet, flexible, mouth that conforms to the exact surface of your penis. If the pressure is perfect (a little suction causes the sides of the mouth to come in contact with the shaft, extending the feeling over more of the lenght} as well, it is heaven! I for one do not care if the woman swallows. Just as long as she doesn't pull off or stop until I am completely expended. Spit, drool, swallow, gargle, while I enjoy the descent to the present, I don't care. I might not even notice. If the lady is talented enough to be doing the BJ handless and uses one hand to stimulate the balls while using a finger of the other hand to massage the prostrate, she is a keeper. I would make her my sub regardless of any less than perfect redeeming qualities.
Deep throating is a worthy goal ladies so keep trying. I am lucky/unlucky in that most women can deep throat me. Not right away, if they are not at least somewhat skilled, but with a minimal amount of effort. It is the one benefit of an "average" cock.
This may sound funny, but when I wanted to really learn how to eat pussy, I watched and studied lesbian porn flicks and later real lebians in action. I learned a lot. So, watch gay flicks and if you can observe them in action, go for it.
Return comments welcomed.
Domtotrain
A novel idea.
For the guys who have trouble getting there during oral: are you in the habit of, um, going commando? While sexy as hell (IMHO), it can have effects on sensitivity.
Commando? LOL. This modern era. Back in my day, it was called going regimental.
BTW, nothing quite so nice as wearing a kilt, regimental. The women love checking out your sporan...
oh well MJG how you doing been awhile since we chatted. I agree with my friend again from no actual experience on my part but I have coached a few ladies and it helps to swallow and to swallow before the gag starts. This is not a total quick cure but when practiced on a regular basis it works.
I would also say that mmmmmmm is right that licking is very good and hastens along the final mmmm out cum. Try taking your tongue out the side of your mouth the run it across your lips, and the cock, to the other side. This technique is best for me when done from the same side to the same side not back and forth, but that may just be me.
I find deep throating so unbelievably horny, but have one question.
There's been the repeated mention of swallowing before hitting the gag reflex... but how does one swallow without teeth closing? :confused:
Practice. :rolleyes:Quote:
Originally Posted by orchidsoul
stick your finger in your mouth and close your lips around it...kinda suck a little bit and then see if you can swallow. i don't know if others can do this, but i can swallow without my teeth biting down hard on whatever is in my mouth.Quote:
Originally Posted by orchidsoul
Well admittedly I have not given blowjobs, only have I been on the receiving end. My former girl friend was great and she swallowed too. She had the ability to take my cock all the way to the base and when I would cum she just sucked it down. At the end she would pull out and then jack my cock up and down to extract the every last drop. She is great. :icon176:
This technique was described in a show on Norwegian TV3 a while back. They called it "Lighting the Fire"Quote:
Originally Posted by Kelli
Well, a study I read about a few years back said that un-circumcised men have 8 layers of skin on the tip of the cock, in general. While circumsised men have 14 layers of skin in general. Your cock-head isn't anatomically much different from your fingers and what happens when you do something too much? You get calluses. That's what happens. So, no cut nerve-endings, just a bit more skin to get through to those nerves.Quote:
Originally Posted by JohnZ
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Originally Posted by ~hellish one~
Ooh Hellish- thank you for this. I didn't succeed so well at first, but with Ozme's suggestion of practice, I think this is a great way of practicing to not bite when swallowing.
just started reading this thread but... now must run to read the aformentioned story............. sounds delicious!Quote:
Originally Posted by Jones, Nikka
*just bumping this one because it seems to hold a wealth of useful talk and advice, and waiting for the A-Z alphabet to reach "O" ;)