Thank you so much for these suggestions! They are greatly appreciated. =)
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Thank you so much for these suggestions! They are greatly appreciated. =)
Just remember when doing anything online bdsm or otherwise: setting something on "private" doesnt mean it stays that way or that those you dont wish to access it cannot gain said access with just a little work on their part.
Be aware, pics, cam sessions, what you type into an email or forum or in chat (yes even a private chat) or unto an instant message system such as yim etc, is there online forever in one form or another (even when you think you have deleted it) and may become general public domain one day weather you want it to or not.
Also good advice, I had no idea that even IM'ing could be seen. Thank you denuseri
Yes, if you record the logs (which I think most IM systems do on default) it records the conversations on your PC so you can review them later. This means they are potentially available to acquire from one of your PCs. And that is not including the potential for a record on the server...
Just think of anything you send out on the internet as permanent, because you can never know when/if it will ever get deleted from the server.
Of course, if you're trying to retrieve information that you want, think of it as gone forever, lol.
One of the new "Iron Laws of Life"Quote:
Originally Posted by Jennifer Williams
Like:
The person at the back of the crowded elevator will be the next one who needs to get off.
Perforated paper will tear anywhere but the at the perforations.
Your private information on the net will be available to anyone anywhere anytime, except you when you've lost it on your own hard drive.
:D
there is good keyed encryption software out there, though its a bit of a pain to admin.
I'm not techno savvy, lol. Tho I did turn off archiving on my messenger. Thanks for everyones suggestions!
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recently I came to this site as a sub and I have found my Master and I am very happy. Along with finding my Master I also received the opportunity to have my own sub. I took up the offer and have found a sub of my own. However, I have spent so much time as a sub and have greatly enjoyed it I do now know how to be a Mistress. I need the assistance and advice of other Domme either experienced or new! thank you all!!
Hey - I just searched for BDSM on Amazon and found a bunch of books I never knew existed. Two of them caught my eye:Quote:
I'm glad I stumbled onto this thread. I'm new as well and have an online sub. I'm doing lots of reading right now, trying to find ideas that suit us best. Any advice would be appreciated.
Creating a Personal Protocol by Shannon Reilly
Protocols: Handbook for the female slave
One of these is a workbook that makes you list behaviors you admire in a sub and behaviors you want to discourage. The idea is to present the sub with the protocols right away to give them a guideline. The author claims it really speeds things up and gives new subs a lot of structure they can rely on rather than taking days/weeks to make it up as you go along.
One of them is available as an ebook...
Always looking to chat with other Dommes and exchange ideas, thoughts and experiences. I am a real time Domme, and live the lifestyle 24/7.
I have very few experiences, but love chatting with like minded ladies myself! =)