That's too bad... that they're sooooooooooo tame you'd fear I'd be dismissive... ;^DQuote:
Originally Posted by ami_r90
But it does sound as though you've found a potential playmate, at the least, and perhaps more.
Congrats
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That's too bad... that they're sooooooooooo tame you'd fear I'd be dismissive... ;^DQuote:
Originally Posted by ami_r90
But it does sound as though you've found a potential playmate, at the least, and perhaps more.
Congrats
Now now, don't reduce yourself to subtle techniques such as this in an attempt to make me divulge all! ;-)Quote:
Originally Posted by Ozme52
Hmm, it does, but this the first time I've ever done anything 'casual' with someone and I'm not sure how I feel about it. Of course if we're both having fun then that's great, and yeah in no way does it have to be serious, but I wouldn't be comfortable with being just one of a number of playmates. Guess we already need to have a talk lol! Any advice?Quote:
Originally Posted by Ozme52
Depends on your relationship requirements. Just be open and communicative. Answers you don't "like" do not necessitate a change, merely introspection as to whether or not they're reasonable or consistant with your requirements as an interim step, or if more than you want, explorable. Make not snap decisions but ponder first. Don't throw any proverbial babies out with the bathwater.
PS. Subtlety wasn't my intention. I thought I was being very obvious!
Best answer there is. I guess when it comes down to it, if I'm "too" open and communicative, and end up saying things that he might not want to hear (like I can't just see someone for sex, it has to be more than that even if it's not a proper relationship) then I'm probably better off without anyway. And I overanalyse everything way too much - for all I know he could be having exactly the same worries about me as I am about him. Although that might be 90% wishful thinking...Quote:
Originally Posted by Ozme52