hey have u please me yet jffvnny@yahoo.ca southrn ontario
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hey have u please me yet jffvnny@yahoo.ca southrn ontario
having caught a fascianation to rubber before age 5, taking up scuba before age 13 , becoming mesmerized by the females who looked AFTER me then too,it was fate.if you read" cardinal of the kremlin" , also like sailing, and hiking and ayhuasca,kooking and living languid taking it in and slowly expanding awareness.
Welcome lalia. :)
Hiya lalia and :wel to the forums! Enjoy! :)
:welcomebo lalia hope you enjoy. Thanks for introducing yourself.
I'm Maddie, and I've been experimenting with being a sub for a few years. I'm here for two reasons: 1) I'm looking for ideas about how to get my husband more interested in this and give him ideas of what he can do to me, and 2) to help me feel like I'm not some weird, twisted looney tune, just because I like to be tied up and told what to do on occasion.
Being here for the past few days has already helped. I've been able to bring up a couple of things with my husband that I hadn't thought about or really had the nerve to talk about, which has helped.
here is a silly question for you .. i would like my wife to get her nipples pierced ..
but she is reluctant to do so .. she is a very good sub in many ways .. and i would rather enjoy seeing her enhance her breasts with the piercing ..
do you have any thoughts of why she would be reluctant to do so ..
thanks ..
Because it hurts?
I don't mean to sound flippant, but I remember how it hurt when I got my ears pierced. I can't imagine doing that to a part of my body that's more sensitive.
Some people like pain, others don't.
Maddie, good luck with it!
I don't know how you could introduce it - perhaps if you see a film where the heroine is tied up, you could give him a hard rub on the inner thigh?
If he's smart, he'd realise what was making you hot (even if it's only pretend), and if you're lucky, he'll be off buying ropes that very day.
Q x
We're going away for the weekend and I'm taking my computer, which has a DVD player and "Secretary". He's smart. He'll get the idea.
It's not so much that he's not interested in this. It's just that I'd like him to be more interested. I'm trying to take it slowly so he doesn't get frustrated.
Hi, my name is pinkpetals23. I am a 23 year old new sub. I have been actively involved in the lifestyle for about 6 months. I have had one r/l dom whom I cared for very much. I don't know that much, I'll probably be asking more questions than answering, but if anyone does have a question I will try my best to answer it.
Hiya pinkpetals23...thanks for your intro and :wel to the forums! Questions...answers...just jump right into the fun & enjoy! :)
Jim, a male friend of mine has his left nipple pierced. The reason both aren't done is that, in his own words, "It hurt so fucking much I decided one was enough." I agree with Maddie—pain isn't for everyone. Have you considered those fake ones?Quote:
Originally Posted by jim
Welcome pinkpetals 23 hope you enjoy...ask any questions you want..
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Originally Posted by maddie
Good answer!!! Hell, I'm a big baby when he brings a clamp near my nipples, let alone a needle. Just not that good of a girl!!
Hi I am a 35 year old BBW submissive looking for a master to serve. He must be close to me though. I live in Toronto, Ontario Canada. I am not looking for an online or telephone dom I want to meet him in person and have a possible relationship.
Hiya BBW Submissive...you might want to put this up as a Personal since you're looking for a Master. Just let me know if you want me to move your post and I'll be glad to help out - either send me a private message or email on SilkeMod@gmail.com :)
Silke
Actually Silke she has one already there.
Good luck in your search for a Master BBW Submissive. I feel for your plight and hope everything works out for you. Welcome to the forums I hope you continue to enjoy.
subwife
Darn...really wanted to put all that practice into something useful...use those new gadgets! lolQuote:
Actually Silke she has one already there.
Ah well...guess you're way ahead of me, BBW Submissive. ;)
heya...Never been in a D/s relationship but have always found the subject interesting. I'd deffinatley be a sumbissive and me an my boyfriend are currently discussing our relationship as to where we stand with bdsm {its obvious that he dominate our relationship as it is).
so Hi from me.
xx
Hiya and :wel to the forums, CuriosityKills. Good luck for you and your boyfriend. :)
Thank you :D
:wel Curiosity hope you enjoy yourself here.
I thought I should properly introduce myself, since I have been poking around alot lately. :p
My name is Weena, and I have been with my Master/boyfriend Brandon for seven years.
We recently found out that what we were doing actually had a name and there were other people who enjoyed the same things. We have been having fun exploring the other aspects of BDSM that we have found, and so far are enjoying ourselves. A few things we enjoy are... forced orgasm and denial, breath play, large object play, vaginal fisting, rope, clamps, blindfold, restraints, spanking, breast bondage, light humiliation.
I really like this forum and plan on staying here. Everyone is very nice and informative. Thanks for making us newbies feel welcome!:ty
Well, basically everyone knows me. but I will tell of my submissive history.
I have always been submissive.... really in everyday things. Not really timid or just afraid to speak up, but timid. I have always enjoyed making other people happy in whatever ways I could. Rather that was cleaning the house for my mom or making dinner for my dad if mom couldn't... helping with my sister.. etc....
then I moved when the summer I turned 15.. shortly after I started to role-play characters in chats on AOL... and stuff.. I met a lovely boy there... yes a boy. though he wouldn't be considered that by anything else than his age. We started a greally great story line and slowly bdsm and stuff crept in. I always played a submissive character and stuff but this was a whole new world. Of course I played out some of my emotions.. and then I realized I was a submissive myself... When I was 16 I think.... is when he and I really started to play around with it more R/L.... on-line though. We did talk on the phone and stuff... but anyway.. thats where I got my introduction. I have been a subbie since and wouldn't change it for the world. I know my place in the world... and its on my knees.
Anya
Welcome! Glad you found someone that really cherishes you and takes care of you. You absolutley deserve it!!!
Anya
I am a 31 y.o. corporate attorney, who is 5'0", 103 lbs., having Auburn (Natural) hair and Green eyes! As the male response to my appearance seems to dictate that I am quite femininely attractive, my only fault seems to be in my inability to attract feminine Domme women in the real world! It was only 4 years ago that I passed the Bar Associations' requirements but prior to that, I was the complete, worshipful submissive to a lovely Jewish woman for a period of 7 1/2 years who happened to be 9 years my senior! She intuitively detected my underlying, latent lesbian desires, as well as my deep-seated masochistic tendencies! It took her hardly no real time at all to mold me, and manipulate me to the slavish individual I am still, today! If it had not been that just prior to our intiial meeting, my Grandfather had passed on leaving me a sizeable legacy, I would never ever been able, or capable of totally adhering to her insatiable demands for ONLY the very finest materialistic things that she required of me! She often complimented me on my amazing capacity for pain/suffering at her hands and for the unfathomable ability for rapid-healing. As I was still schooling at that time in my life, she was always cognizant of the fact that I should not carry injury of any type on my face or publicly visible parts of myself! Our sex life was immensely one-sided; i.e. mainly, MY pleasuring HER orally! In the beginning, I thought this to be very unfair, but as fate would have it, it was not long at all until I astoundingly discovered that I was able to reach an orgasm at the same exact moment I was able to bring her to hers without her even as much as caressingly touching me, with the exception that she came to use my ears as handles for her convenience! Sadly, 1 year ago, she left me for a very wealthy man (of all things) and is now married to him! Now all I do is yearn to find a like facsimile of her so that I could again have the best of two worlds; assertive and aggresive in my business life, but the complete opposite after office hours!
Wow, thank you for that thorough intro, ms2bused. :wel to our cosy home and hope you'll share more in time. Enjoy and good luck on your search! :)
ms2bused,
:wel to the forums. Hope you find what you're looking for.
:wel again hope you enjoy
My name is frankee and have just recently ventured into the lifestyle with my online Domme and also the Love of my life.
She has help to mold me and embrace my submissive side. Although we have yet to play in r/t, we have done so via email and on the phone. W/we meet in August for the first time *grinning like an idiot*, W/we have B/both discussed what kind of playing W/we would like to participate in.
W/we both have a tendency towards the rougher side of things, so i'm convinced that W/we are B/both compatible.
i am confident that my training is in the very capable hands of my Mistress.
frankee
Proud sub of Mistress Cindy :rose:
Hi every one, I am raj. I always wanted to be an obedient slave to a dominant and loving mistress. I am a masochist. I often put clamps to my nipples and lie below burning candles. I enjoy the pain on my nipples while the dripping wax is burning through my body where ever it falls. Even though I am not a slave of anyone , I would love to have an e-relationship.
Hiya raj...thanks for the intro :) If you're looking for an online relationship you might consider posting an ad in the Personals, too.
Mmmmm...wax....*smiles*
Hi, I'm Evelyn from germany. I'm new in this forum, but since more then 9 years in alternate life style, now always in 24/7 together with my lover, husband, master, slave holder, key holder....
Always interested in good talks and new ideas, I'm very curiouse about this forum. But please forgive me (or punish me :-) for my typos and mistakes I'll make here, because english is not my mother language.
Eve :rose:
Oh my...another fellow German girl - :wel Evelyn. :) I'm sure you'll find a willing domly one to punish any and all typos - existant or non-existant - if you so wish. ;) Good to have you on board - enjoy!
I am known as Raven to my Dom.. I am a newbbie, to this lifestyle offically.. My Dom introduced me to this world little by little ( I guess he was testing the waters) and he has found that Im willing to do anyting to and for him.. I love to please him oH so well and at times I like to be bad just to see what he will do to me...
I love the fact that I was actually able to find someone that really understood my wants and needs.. As he was doing his research on me, he was able to understand my body and all of it's reactions to his touch.. he was able and willing to take all control away from me ( well I gave it up, willingly) so I could finally let go...
But as a the new kid on the block I still have alot to learn, so I will asking alot of questions... I have done some research and have a better understanding of this lifestyle, but I know that there's a lot more to learn...
Hi everyone,
I feel like I'm doing the intro rounds here; first the regular intro thread, then the personals, now here. I suppose you'll all know who I am, though, right? Anyway, since this is the submissive section, I guess I should spend a little time telling you all about my experiences as a sub.
I had my first real time experience as a submissive when I was 16. It was with one of my father's friends, and it was completely consensual. I was first able to put a name to what I'd been feeling all my life when I was a year or so younger. I stumbled on a website that depicted a woman tied up in a spread eagle in front of a group of people, and it was eerie. That was the exact same thing I'd been fantasizing about since I first started masturbating (I'm not sure if I'm allowed to say how old I was because of child issues?) and, like most people, it made me feel immesurably better to know I wasn't insane or sick, merely a smidgen deviant and a lot of fun.
Since then, I've had to hide many of my lifestyle choices from my parents and my vanilla friends, but I've had a small circle of supportive, kink-friendly friends, playmates, Dominants, subs, etc. I normally play with other females, but have had the pleasure to play with a male or two as well in my travels. Unfortunately, people follow different paths in their lives, and many of my real life friends have travelled paths that took them out of driving distance, but Skype is a person's best friend these days. :)
Anyway, that's me, in my submissive nutshell!
I've always felt a submissive nature in myself, well before I was sexually active. I used to dream and have fantasies of being tied down and teased, whipped, sensually tortured by someone while I was growing up. I still have some of these dreams.
I really became interested in the lifestyle when I stumbled across a chatroom and realised that this is a lot more widespread that I'd previously thought. My research led me as far back as the Bible in matters of submissiveness, and I remember the profound relief I felt when I realised that this wasn't something I should be ashamed of, afraid of.
My first submissive experience was when I lost my virginity... I don't know how to say this correctly, to put across the intense FEAR I felt at the actions that accompanied my 'deflowering'. Its not something I am proud of, its something I wish deeply had never happened with Him. There was no pleasure for me in this first action of submissiveness on my part, and I am surprised I am still interested and not afraid of the BDSM scene because of Him. It was consensual, and He knew of my submissive nature, He had figured that out long ago. Because of this, I believe He thought that He would be able to pull off a dominant role in the bedroom, He was dominant, but He successfully inflicted nothing but pain, fear and humiliation in me as I gave Him my virginity.
I think it necessary to tell you now that it is not something that stops me being who I am. The event itself changed me deeply, but I would not swap the experience for the world. It made me who I am today, and on some level I am thankful for that. I am now happily in a relationship with someone, the first someone that has ever actually cared about what I feel. I feel honoured that I am lucky enough to be with him.
- poetic_justice
Poetic....sometimes, it's our submissive side that gets us through our bad experiences....I'm not sure what happened, but glad you have the outlook you have about it. It's great to see that you have found a dom that is great to you.....good luck in your adventures....
subwife
Hi,
I've been a submissive ever since I've been sexual, but I've never been able to sustain my submissiveness in a relationship that didn't implode almost right away.
There's few things that give me more pleasure than the idea of being ordered around and verbally degraded. I guess I've decided to really take the plunge on this one and see where putting this out to the public forum will get to.