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sorry about that. i dint know. u can delete this acount.
my first experience was an over-the-knee spanking with a ping pong paddle. Dang did that sting, and i loved it!
The first D/s thing I did was to tie The Girl to the bed fully clothed; push up her skirt, undo her blouse, roll up her sleeves and blindfold her; then use a combination of fingertips, tongue and periods of not touching her at all to drive her into a frenzy. I didn't even touch her genitalia for an hour.
*sigh* And I used to be so innocent...
My first recollection that I was "different" came in Junior High School. We had this dean of students who was the biggest man I had ever seen. He was African American and was so tall and muscular. During 8th grade I worked in the office as an assistant for one semester. My desk was close to his office and I could hear every time he disciplined a student. I used to sneak looks at his desk when I walked by to try and catch a glimpse of the paddle. One day, after an especially long paddling, I felt myself growing wet and daydreamy. Out came Coach Swift with the paddle still in his hand. I must have had some strange look on my face because when our eyes met he looked at me and chuckled, "Girl, you want no part of this." He then went back into his office and I made a hasty retreat to the restroom. Looking back now, I think he must have known what I was thinking . . . even if I didn't at the time.
*giggles* That is too much! I love it! I can easily imagine that scene. Thank you for posting about it. :DQuote:
Originally Posted by Alaric's pet
Nothing quite so glorious or fun as playing. My first true submissive act was being made to talk about my submissive desires.
For me it started around 12 - 14 I guess. We had one of those long dog chains. I used to wrap myself up in it. It just felt right to wrap my hands or feet up in that chain.
Years later, I took my 16 year old girlfriend (I was 17 at the time) to the Spring Semi-formal. I remember I had a tie on. We left the dance early and headed back to her place where we knew her parents were out.
At this moment in time we were both virgins. As we made love, I removed the tie and tied her hands togather above her head to the frame of the bed. I slipped into her a few minutes later.
Afterword she easily slipped out of the bonds. A few days later she said "tie me up again" and we were off to the races.
One night I threatened to beat her if she didn't behave. "Could be fun." she said. :D
To this day I wonder what ever happened to her. I still dream of her sometimes.
Well, I've always been such a self-confident, forceful, take-charge kind of gal....but, remembering back to childhood, my friends and I would tie each other up, and I should have known, when I was mature enough to start masturbating, those were the moments I would fantasize about....it confused me, because I always thought of myself as Dominant.....but those Sub moments would just rocket me into orbit! Now, years later, (and being married 7 years!) I finally have the courage to admit my truest desires! I only told my Hubby about my fantasies @ 4 months ago, and WOW! He wants to be a Dom, and "the game is afoot!"
I had always been very timid when it came to thinking of anything sexual. So I was pretty hard to crack. Needless to say a few guys have tried & failed miserably. But my BF had been working (& failing more than once) to get together with me.
Again, he had his chance as I was coming into town to go to a friends wedding & needed to stay at his place (which wasnt a rare thing, I had always done it, even after I knew he wanted me). But I was also bring a friend of mine who needed a place to stay. That was my downfall. She & him talked, he told her how much he wanted me, blah, blah, blah... & she worked for 2 days on coercing me into truth or dare. That night, I was sold hook line & sinker. He started off by getting me to perform my first ever BJ, then he had me kiss my friend & it worked up form there. I still remember that first night, he had fucked me once & I had Nicole straddled over my face, tied to the bed & we werent even playing the game anymore. It was just those two doing as they wished with me. From that night on, I went from naive goody-goody, to sub addicted fucktoy. If that night hadnt happened, I would still probably be a single virgin having a miserable existence on this planet.
Nothing like bringing an old thread alive.... :p
I would have to say the very first thing I did that was submissive happened when I was 16. I was spending the night over at my best friend’s house who was 2 years older then me. We snuck some of her parents wine and were sitting in bed talking and drinking, catching a major buzz. We started talking sex. I had told her that I had listen to her and her bf making love the last time I spent the night. (he was always sneaking in her window) She asked me how it made me feel. I told her that it made me feel warm and fuzzy laying there listening to their lovemaking. That I was jealous because I was still a virgin and never been touched by anyone but myself. Well before I knew it, she was straddled on top of me, pinning my arms down to the bed with her hands. She scared me at first as she started kissing me and sticking her tongue in my mouth. I finally relaxed and let her kiss me, realizing how much all this was turning me on. She told me to lay perfectly still as she laid my arms above me. I did what she told me as she ravished and explored my body. By the time it was all over she had taken my virginity but left me with a memory I will never forget. :D ;) :eek:
Its kinda weird that my first submissive actions were with another female, when it is being ruled by a Master that I have prefer and have always fantasized about.
angelpet
hi, my first entrance to bdsm was from reading stories in forum magazine, i then started reading stories to my girlfriend who told me the idea of me dominating her was a hell of a turn on so we bought some bondage tape from a shop and i tied her to the bed with it on several occasions, the first time i just made love to her while she was tied up, the second time i teased her mercilesly with ice cubes and bit her nipples. the third time was the best as i not only blindfolded her but i also used my fingers, a coke bottle and some ice to make her cum time and time again, i think we stopped after she had 25 orgasms and the sheet beneath her was saturated with her cum. she was so tender afterwards she could hardly walk the next day. we did discuss many things we would like to try with me being dominant and her being sub, including me letting other guys use her for sex while she was tied up (her idea) but unfortunately she left me shortly afterwards saying she couldnt cope with a long distance relationship anymore (we were only 160 miles apart).
The very first submissive thing I did with my first Master was allow him to tie me up.
I spent 7 1/2 years married to a very vanilla woman who I honestly don't think enjoyed any kind of sex. I don't think I was anywhere experienced enought to help her work through her repression and as a result even the vanilla was boring. During that time I started to get inklings that there was something else out there... I bought handcuffs and got her to use them once or twice, but she wasn't into that either and I wasn't even sure why I wanted them!
My next serious gf was great in bed and very experimental, so together we explored and I became enlightened. I wouldn't say I was submissive at the time though but the scening-and sex-was great.
The next woman to enter my life found clothespins in my bedroom before we were even dating! It didn't take her long to figure me out and well, you can imagine the rest. Needless to say we live together now and plan to marry.
So for me, my first "submissive" experiences don't actually coincide with my first BDSM experiences, if that makes any sense.
I was about 12 and on a week-long church outing in NH. I was horsing around with a girl named Cheryl in the girls room. It had about four mattresses pushed together on the floor. Cheryl was able to twist her way to on top of me and I slipped between two mattresses with her firmly in control on top. She went to kiss me while I struggled to get loose, but she was sitting on my chest and had my arms pinned above my head. When Cheryl's lips got close to mine I relaxed and let it happened. My first kiss and not another one has ever been close to it in the feelings it stirred in me.
On the other side of the coin:
I was working in Vegas and trying to go out with this co-worker, without much success, when I said the magic words one night "I got pot" We were getting high and talking about alot of stuff. She was getting divorced. One of the reasons was she really had to work to get her husband to spank her. The other reason was he was fucking her best friend.
We were seeing each other every night after work as friends, but that was as far as it went. After many nights of talking about her spanking fantasies(I was not to quick on the uptake then), I took her to a dirty bookstore and she went thru the racks of books and found one that interested her.
When we got back to my place, I gave her a highlighter pen and asked her to highlight those passages and words that spun her wheels. After about an hour, she handed it back and I flipped thru the book and found a few pages that she had really marked up. I read the passages to her and when I had finished I asked her how it made her feel. To this point we had never even kissed, but she took my hand and put it down her pants and into her panties. She was soaked. She looked at me and asked "Do you think you could spank me?" Without missing a beat, "Why yes I can", I replied. She got up and went and took a shower. While she was doing that I was frantically thumbing thru the book looking for phrases that turned her on. At the same time, I'm trying to come to grips with my reluctance to strike anyone else(a childhood thing). I realized from talking with her for many weeks that she was frustrated about never finding anyone that enjoyed spanking her. Although it looked good for sex tonight no matter how things turned out, if I didn't really get into her kink that it would unlikely go little farther than that.
She stepped out of the bathroom naked. I told her sternly(OK, I did my best at this) "You had been very naughty and needed to be punished" "Yes, sir" When she got close to me I took her hand and pulled her over my lap, but before she was face down she looked at me and squeaked "But I promise to be good" I never really thought about my reply which was "Well, that will not help you now young lady" I roughly pulled her over my lap, but at the last instant saw this glazed faraway look in her eyes. To be honest, up until this point my vanilla sex life and my feeble attempts at foreplay, never really got the girls that worked up before sex(maybe even during sex), but that was not the case after this spanking. She was totally mine then and it felt incredible.
We were married about six months later and have been together for 13 years since. She has taken a recent interest in BDSM, which has some problems for us, since she looks on me as too a nice guy to be her Dom.
TJ
That's a wonderful story TJ, I guess you'll just have to change her mind on the nice guy bit, I'm sure you can think of numerous ways of doing that! ( assuming that is what you want? )
i had to post to this thread, as it hit sooooo close to home. i had totally discounted by husband to be my Dom. After being married for 17 years, i was completely convinced that he could never be an effective Dom for me. However, i was proven wrong, which he thoroughly enjoys reminding me of every chance he gets! :p
When I was about 7 years old, a teenage boy and girl in our apartment complex teased me a good deal. At one point, they said they had a club that I couldn't join. This got me very upset and I said I would do anything to join their club. Well, they talked among themselves for a few minutes and then said for me to follow them.
The three of us went behind some bushes in the complex and the girl said I had to suck the boys cock to be in the club. I had never even heard of anything like this, but immediatley said OK. He dropped his pants and I got on my knees and sucked his cock until he came on my face. What was most interesting is that she watched the entire time and even directed me a little bit.
It really didnt' mean much to me at the time, but now when I think back on it, it's a real turn on.
very basic and simple in nature, but i have always, since i was a child and especially since i started dating, been one to sit on the floor next to my s.o. while watching tv or movies curled around their legs...or if sitting up on the couch, i am usually laying with my head in their lap :)
Well i am just getting into the lifestyle and i would not even bother trying with none of my vanilla ex-girlfriends. But a couple of years ago when i was working at Dunkin Donuts in highschool there was this older girl i worked with who i was friendly with but she always had an attitude. i think she knew i was submissive before i did because she would always yell at me or insult me. Even sometimes calling me a fagot or insulting me in front of customers or other employees. I never really understood why i liked it so much but now that i do i wish i still had her number.... :rolleyes:
Shaved my pussy. It still itches.
LOL...I remember that feeling well Jadetiger! Just keep it up and eventually, it's not as noticeable...the itching that is!Quote:
Originally Posted by Jadetiger
Btw...a big welcome from me...I've sorta been wallowing in my own despair lately and have not taken the time to say hello!!
Hello!!
let's see here....the first submissive thing i ever did was letting myself be tied up and held at my lovers mercy by Him and another woman and They were exceptionally fun ;) which is why i married Him and still call Her *laffs*
i had done some online stuff, but the first serious submissive action i took when we were finally together in person was to strip, get on my knees, present a riding crop to Him and ask permission to be His slave. That was more than five years ago. :)Quote:
Originally Posted by LadyAmanda
I was a child. Way too young to masturbate. I found a pair of metal play handcuffs for kids and sneaked around to the side of the house where no one could see me. Then I bound my wrists behind my back. I just sat there for a long time enjoying the feeling of being bound...
We have been married for 13 years and it is only in the last 12 months that I have allowed my desire for subsmission to surface - too much Story of O at an impressionable age! - but I'm not sure that my husband is in to it as much as me. I can only do submissive when I have had too much to drink - i guess that the real test of my dedication is when I can do it sober. And we have nipple clamps (which I love!) and vibrators and apparantly a paddle (I can't wait). It is all very new to us and I wish that my husband could get some guidance as to what it takes to be dominant (as this is not his natural position - up until now) it is causing real conflict.
When I was younger living at home , older woman nextdoor introduced Me to D/s I would go to her house to cut grass and do trees and other odd jobs, Went over one day and she was sunning self in back yard in bikini, did the work and was called over afterwards to her , started talking as we always did and she asked if I had ever felt the urge to tie a woman up and have my way with her, what boy in his right mind hasnt, guess all started before then with cartoons and herion being tied up remember Dudley Dooright and penelope.
Hi sirken & welcome,
Aaah, the handsome lad in the garden... :) If you would like to elaborate, or if you have some more interesting memories to share, here are a couple of threads that might interest you:
What was the first age?
Early fantasies
Enjoy!
The first submissive thing I did was to (at the time, not now!) mastubate over the phone for my Dom as he told me what to do and where to touch, etc! I must say it was quite a powerful orgasm! I still think it was his voice! :dunno: But whatever it was...it was goooood!! :D
~ltp~
be carefull, personaly i will not do bdsm when drunk.Quote:
Originally Posted by learner
My first and only submissive thing ive done was allow my gf to tie me up, and of course to follow her commands for an evening (same scene). was actually rather funny, i still consider myself a dom though ;) Oh allmost forgot, it was rather recent, only a month or so ago. I might do it again, if she forces me to it :D
Master has always been of the Dominant nature.. and i have always known i was submissive deep down. We've been married for 14 years, and we did a lot of talking about this lifestyle and our dark secrets and fantasies, a lot of research, and a lot more talking before we eased our way into it... that was over 6 years ago.
We started out with a small flogger and servitude (and that was all i need to know that i wanted to be His collared one).... and then onto bondage.. and then onto everything else... i couldn't image any other lifestyle, nor could He ;)
Well.... I was in high school in the Communications and Technology 10 class, the class was separated into five groups where each was put into a station. I was with a group who was doing video at the time - I forget what the other group was doing, possibly photography. Anyways, the teacher left us in the classroom (there was the class room, the printing lab and the silkscreen lab) so were all together. We were admittedly slacking on our assignments and out of our boredom I was ordered to sit on a chair. On the teacher's desk there was a few rolls of masking tape. They tied me up until I moved and taped my mouth shut leaving me to be laughed at in our mischief. The best part was when they pulled off the tape before the teacher came back to check on us. They were totally freaked that I was going to scream when they pulled the tape off of my mouth and neck, concerned about the pain they were putting me under.
It was fun - it would actually take a while before I realised that I would like it more in bed than anything.
I have a friend who went to one of those new painless up and coming hair removal places. First she got her legs and underarms done, then her nether regions. Although she was embarrassed at the time about her privates and had to come back five times before it was gone forever, she told me it's the best money she ever spent.
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Originally Posted by Jadetiger
I may have to spend the money. I still get razor burn.Quote:
Originally Posted by alura
I know your post is a year old but...me, too, albear. Never had actually done it, but I have fantasized about it since I was 6 years old.
Why haven't I done anything about it yet, you may ask? Wellll...because my ex was/is vanilla and although it's been a year and a half, I'm still to terrified to even date, much less get intimate with someone.
But someday, my Vibrating Prince will come......
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Originally Posted by albear
You should. It's literally painless these days.
I know that this sounds disgusting, but I'm growing my leg hair out long even as we speak, so that I can get my legs AND *that* done. It's not as expensive as you would think. And alot of times, they offer payment options.
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Originally Posted by Jadetiger
just a lil' thread revival...
Originally Posted by LadyAmanda
When you first decided to follow the d/s lifestyle, what was the first thing you did, or had done to you?
Was it a little bit of light bondage? Or a spanking? Or maybe you were ordered to please your dom. with no pleasure for you?
There seem to be some people here that are fairly new to this, and I just thought we could give them some ideas ...
i've had fantasies of being spanked and dominated by girls ever since i was 12. i searched our secondary school library for literature on spanking and during the internet boom, spent countless hours browsing through sites such as corpun.com and spankingarchives.com. but no one ever knew i was into it. i guess was scared that i had feelings and stirrings of this kind. it was only as i browsed through the net did i realize that it was normal to have these fantasies. but still it was a closely kept secret of mine. until i met my girlfriend.
as our relationship grew, we started opening up to each other and it wasn't long till she found me out. the first thing i did after telling her my secrets was to ask her to spank me. i gave her a leather belt, dropped my pants and underpants and bent over the bed. but she was so concerned about hurting me that she ended up in tears. i assured her that it was ok, and little by little she started enjoying it as well. she just became my mistress a couple of months ago and is really seriouys about her dominating me. what used to be hesitant taps with the belt on my bottom are now searing strokes of the cane that bruises my buttocks real good. and she makes me wear a collar too and sometimes, doesn't allow me to wear clothes. i can just say that i'm really happy to oblige. we plan to marry soon. ;)
Hello Everyone, i am very new to this forum, infact this is my first post.
To answer the question, i guess the first submisive thing i did was not wear panties to work for the first time.
i was always conscious about it and had a difficult time keeping a straight face at work.
love,
deepti sinha
>>>I have a confession to make. I used to get in trouble on purpose, just to get a spanking. *sigh....boy that felt good!*<<<<Quote:
Originally Posted by Slave Speak
LOL! so i'm not the only one, allura. hehe. :D