The Perfect Collar

My my. So many different collars ^^ - I think a good example of how I feel is as an echo to Chattel, not because I have an anklet, but because her collar was molded to her needs. It shows consideration, I feel, and it gives the whole business a different depth for me.

My fantasy collar I guess would... be hand crocheted lace. I'm not precise on the color, prolly black or white. I'd like it in a choker fit with a pendant chosen by my one and only.

The collar I have was picked so that I could wear it on an everyday basis, and I really enjoy having it.
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Well, since there are restrictions on the the threads i can post in, and the length of my posts...i've found myself browsing through more of the fourms and thought i would offer up my opinion on the perfect collar.

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Originally Posted by wingsofanangel

I know you'd be happy with whatever your Master gave you.. but come on.. lets live in a fantasy :) for a bit... if you could choose what would it look like?

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i know some might not agree with this statement, but i do. i would be ecstatic with whatever collar he chose to give me. for me, it's not so much how the collar looks around my neck (ankle or wrist)...but more about the meaning behind it. hell, it could be a piece of string tied around my wrist and i would be grateful for it...just knowing i am his.

that being said, of course a girl fantasizes about having a really pretty collar. and i am no exception! i always picture something small...black leather (cuz leather makes me soooo....~clearing my throat~ well...ya know)...nothing really fancy, but maybe some type of meaninful pendant dangling from the front. the one time in real life that i was collared, my collar was a pretty silver necklace with a medium-sized dragon pendant in the middle. the dragon was his chinese astrological sign. ~smiles~ i still have that collar to this day...even though i don't wear it. i also have just a plain black collar that i use for play...nothing really symbolic about that one.

even though i say i would like something simple, and i do!!! i once found this picture of a collar and thought it was so pretty, i saved it on my computer just to look at. it's black suede w/locking buckle and the studs all the way around. anyways...here it is. :)

This is the pubic collar that she wears. I made this using European 4 in 1 chain-mail weave. The charm we bought at a Sci-fi con because it reminds me of the BDSM symbol. It also has a lock and key clasp in the back, but i don't have any photos of it.

My training Pet has said that it means more to her because i made it, and i have to agree. It may not be the "Perfect Collar" but it is the perfect public one.

Haven, that is truly exquisite.

Thank you, i must admit i am somewhat a professional. i used to make and sell chain-mail and leather works for a living back in my younger days. Now i do it as a stress reliever or for fun. Everything from chokers, earing's, bracelets, and just about anything i can think of. Even done some custom intimate stuff.

But thank you, knowing that an artist's work is appreciated is what can keep us going.

Havensov - the collar is magnificant! She must be so proud to wear it!

Yes, she is. So much so that she has taken to wearing it more and there for increasing her "collar" time. Quick note, due to kids and life, we use the collar to represent when she is being fully submissive.

The fact that she has been voluntarily wearing it more has pleased me to no end. This one is made out of standard 6mm jump rings with some gold plated ones in the middle. Once she has completed her training and fully collared i will make her one that is out of silver. Needless to say, it will be allot more expensive, but she is worth it.

I did one a few years back the same as this one, but added a triangle of rings coming down from the sides leaving an open triangle in the middle. It was very nice, maybe i make another one for my next project. Currently i am working on a chain-mail and lace thong for her, but we will have to see how it comes out.

Oo how fun.

My dream collar would be.. dark brown leather, old silver buckle to close, adorned with a single pendant, an old fashioned silver heart- not a flat pendant, but one i could roll between my fingers and feel the slight engravements from its design..

Next to the buckle, in tiny script.. "Owned by.."

Mmm I also had the same concept in mind with the collar, and studded with a single but spaced line of diamonds. Yummy.

I do enjoy wearing that collar very much. It means a great deal to me. Especially since my Master made it for me. I take my collar as serious as I do my wedding ring. I could not think of a day that I wouldn't want my Masters collar around my neck.

i wanted to reply to this thread but have no idea what to say. small smile.
I really love the idea of a collar. :hubba: the whole idea really flips my switches.
add in a leash and i'm not sure if i'm master or what as i tend to melt and let go of feelings. :am:

I agree with you WolfScout, the site of a sub in nothing but collar and leash, on all fours.... Is a sight to behold. i will admit there have been times that when faced with this site that my whole brain shuts down....

Oh well...

yes it's happened to me a couple times since i came here.
I thought i was at a good site till i was invited here. doh me.
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I wish i could place the collar on my Pet. even if only for a moment.
Distance is an issue.

Well, USP, a well written note, a web cam, and an imagination will take you far. I have seen lots of ways to have fun with someone from a distance.

Yes, i'm working on something along those lines soon i hope.

I have a nice thin black leather collar that I like a lot but what I would really like is something fancy for very formal dressy occasions that is indicative of a collar, like a onyx choker. I think it would be so beautiful and simple.

I have thought about what my perfect collar would look like, thin, silver, black, leather, etc etc etc. I'm going the cheesey route tonight, think about this...

Forget what it looks like, forget the subtle nuances of different materials and close your eyes, (not yet silly!) and imagine, kneeling, your head is bowed in your submission to your partner as they come close. A familiar hand brushes gently against your cheek as they reache around your head, drawing the collar closed around your throat. This collar encircles your neck, not too tight, not too loose, just right. You hear the buckle jingle shut, perhaps the snap of a lock for the first time. That collar, in that moment, in all of its glory is the perfect collar.

My old Master, who I was with for 17 months...gave me instructions and I purchased a collar that was specified by Him. The fun part was that he turned it into a task, it was my looking around at all the jewellary shops to find one that matched his orders.

It was a wonderful experience. That collar lasted for our first year together, then he organised for me to choose my own collar to commemorate our year together...i've worn it ever since...even though I am not with Him anymore.

Since in my line of work I can't show visible signs of my submission, he chose a bracelet as my collar.

The first one was a sterling silver bracelet with His initials on it, and had an encraved heart.

The one I chose for our year together was a sterling silver bracelet that has three diamonds seperated by a silver chain, so it's like 'o' being the diamonds and '=' being the sterling silver chain. ooo=ooo=ooo= nine sets of three diamonds, make up the bracelet.

I've come to realise that we need three collars. No collar is always perfect. One big and obvious one used at home or in a place we feel our lifestyle is welcome. One she can sleep in, (I've made sure the big one is too uncomforable for that). And one small discreet one that only is obvious to people who know what to look for. My slave is a pretty high-life bussiness woman so she needs a collar that goes with bussiness clothes and doesn't steal attention away from her message. I've chosen to respect her needs in this respect.

edit: that reminds me. Anybody know where I can buy a rhinestone dog collar? Classy classy sassy sassy and subby subby. something a bit like this.

Black leather colllar, lined in fur prolly black, small spikes and holes lined up all around, a D ring in the center, and a belt loop to hold it in the back of my neck.

I guess I'm part of the trendy group. I don't know. I actually just enjoy simple things.


I've been pushing my Dom to get me a collar made. He says he alreday has the idea for it but we know people who can actually make it. They're supposed to make me a small ball gag too soon. (I have TMJ - issue in the joints of jaw. I wake up with my jaw dislocated (popped out) several times a week especially when I sleep on one particular side. It hurts to have my mouth stay open wide even with help for even short periods of time. We're aiming for my resting point. :) )

BabyGirlBlue- I knew a sub with TMJ as well. She found the simple bite gags worked for her and didn't hurt allowing her to keep it for much longer periods of time.

Also, she had a gag that was thin leather, but had a piece that went into the mouth and held the tongue down. This she could keep in for hours as it didn't keep her mouth open that much at all, it just kept her from using her tongue.

Hope this helps.

I have been bugging D for one lately. :) I saw one once that was very simple, black leather with a little jingle bell like on a cat's collar. Very cute and not too much hardwear, plus I like the symbolism -- putting a bell on a cat is making the cat dependent on the owner, meaning that the owner both has control over the pet and the responsibility to keep it safe.

I also really like this one, though:

:)


Sorry Hime, although I know your intent was only to show us a collar you admired, I have had to edit that link out since it goes to a commercial site. cariad.

This is going to be the only clothes my slave wears at home from now on. I just picked it up from the leather store today. Simple and practical. It's very soft on the inside. She will sleep in it so it had to be very functional. I'm going to attach a metal leash so I can chain her to stuff or just walk around with her.

That makes me horny and i'm only reading it!
J

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This is going to be the only clothes my slave wears at home from now on. I just picked it up from the leather store today. Simple and practical. It's very soft on the inside. She will sleep in it so it had to be very functional. I'm going to attach a metal leash so I can chain her to stuff or just walk around with her.

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These two are my top choices for collars i would love to earn. I would wear either one in public, and the collar i would wear in private is completely up to my master.
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The website i got these from were

http://www.bondagecollars.com/mainpage.htm

I hadn't given much thought to the idea of a collar until Hiro mentioned the possibility to me a few weeks ago. He wants to make something discrete but meaningful. I know that he is playing with the idea of using rope. I'll post a pic when I know what he has decided.

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Originally Posted by Lamb2005

I hadn't given much thought to the idea of a collar until Hiro mentioned the possibility to me a few weeks ago. He wants to make something discrete but meaningful. I know that he is playing with the idea of using rope. I'll post a pic when I know what he has decided.

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There's a pretty big hint posted already in another thread. I've picked the fiber, I just need the perfect color.

Be patient dear.... ;)

My Dom has given me two different collars so far that we've known each other over the last ten months...the first is crystal studded around the front half, leather and about one inch high, the other is braded leather with sterling metal stations and a short chain at the end....this is more of a collar/leash combination...this is brown/silver and hand made....he's gotten me a third collar he's going to give me when he arrives to move in next week (6/19/08)...which Im very excited about....

Thick black leather with a steel core, locked in a way that does not allow its removal without getting rid of my head first...

sweet Arria just sweet, gotta love those kinda collars

Hi would you please help me if you can.I need help to find a dominant lady. :bondage:one which i dont want to be but will be if im not kept on a short leash please wb if you can help dog25 xxxxx tnx.

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Originally Posted by dog25

Hi would you please help me if you can.I need help to find a dominant lady. :bondage:one which i dont want to be but will be if im not kept on a short leash please wb if you can help dog25 xxxxx tnx.

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You seem to have posted in the wrong area dog and should put this in the Personals section to get a more effective response :)

Ok, here ya go, here's mine, i have one for summer and one for winter at this pont. Winter is more dressy (and pretty well worn lol now looking at it), and i like the humble look and feel of the summer one. They basically match whatever i wish to wear.

The summer one is of course what i'm wearing now...

And with some editing, i've gone ahead and posted em to my album, just figured out how to do that and make it less of a job for the mods.

You can see them there!

stripey i love you're winter collar , i'm jealous

i dont have an actual collar
but i have a chain that i double around my neck
and it still holds the same meaning, its just not as obvious

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My Dom has given me two different collars so far that we've known each other over the last ten months...the first is crystal studded around the front half, leather and about one inch high, the other is braded leather with sterling metal stations and a short chain at the end....this is more of a collar/leash combination...this is brown/silver and hand made....he's gotten me a third collar he's going to give me when he arrives to move in next week (6/19/08)...which Im very excited about....

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Could you take pictures of them and show me. I'm very curious how they look. It would be helpful. Since I'm looking for something classy to wear for BDSM-parties. It should be as obvious as possible, but pretty and not necessarily comfortable.

I have three collars...the first is for when my Shifu and I "play". This one is thick, black and crystal studded. The second is for general public and hand made. this one is metal flower motif stations with braded leather and a small chain at the end. My last collar is for special occasions. This one is a medium link chain with charms haning from the loop. It is adjustable...and on the end are two basket textured "locks".

My collar is just a simple dog collar I picked up at a local Pet Store I use to work at.. and I wouldn't change a thing about it <3

-DP

As for my collar, I'd enjoy some thing simple, made from black leather with a sheepskin lining, as for decoration, a simple clasp and silver O-ring would be nice for me. Subtle, yet effective.

SBBE: i really liked both your collars...



as for mine.. i would love just a plain one with an O ring in the front and a lock in the back, until it came time for a premanate one, He should know me well enough and or if he didnt ask questions as to what i would like. Something i could wear everyday, all the time, and everytime i see it, or touch it i would know i was His and His only.

just for now that is just a dream..