Yeah. Like I said, you get to pick and choose how you orgasm. Unfair!! :rolleyes:Quote:
Originally Posted by Lillypad
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Yeah. Like I said, you get to pick and choose how you orgasm. Unfair!! :rolleyes:Quote:
Originally Posted by Lillypad
Is that why we love exerting control through O-denial?
*evil grin*
nice Ozme.....lol
i've never done the squirting thing but my Trainer is into it.......it sounds really hot though....i wanna try it......i guess i'll be doing some research...:D
ooo and again if any of you ladies would like to umm *ahem* volunteer to show me this process.....please let me know ;)
*giggles*
:icon176: :icon176: :icon176: :icon176: It hasn't happened very often but four different women that I have been with each ejaculated when I was licking and sucking their clit and cunt. The first time it happened was huge surprise and I was then somewhat surprised because she never mentioned it after. She really came all over my face. It didn't bother me all all, nor did the others. It actually was exciting. I have tried to get my current girl friend to do it but she is too inhibited.Quote:
Originally Posted by Widget
*grins* I want some of that tongue...:D
Good luck with helping your girlfriend over her inhibitions...it'll be a revelation for her, I'm sure. Just keep in mind that some girls are not wired that way, Charlie...it's not all psychological obviously from what I've learned in this thread. :)
Ah yes...I remember the first time I had sex with Caitling *second girl I ever did it with* she did that, and being the young clueless kid I was extremely cofused.
Of course, now it seems awesome to me, god knows that if I get a girl to do that again, I would make sure to clean it afterwards. :)
Ooooh! this just makes me Hungry all over. :icon176:
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Originally Posted by Curious George
I did that today!
Startled the hell out of me. HAs never happened before, but today, I had a fairly intense scene where I spent an hour or so tied to a chair with earplugs blndfold and gag getting whacked in a totally unpredictable pattern.
I had a whole string of mind-blowing orgasms, totally lost it, spasming all as much as I could, considering I was very firmly tied down, and then all of a sudden, liquid.
They were very intense orgasms, but I'm not sure I'd say the squirt added anything to it, except a bit of a puddle on the chair. Do most women find that the squirting just goes along with more intense orgasms? I've gotten the impression before that ejaculation itself is pleasurable, and I didn't find it to be. It actually distracted me. although I guess I can blame that on this being the first time it's ever happened.
The guy was quite pleased with himself.
I can't say about the intensity... not being female... but the ladies I've been with all seem to get more and more comfortable with the idea of an ejaculation and as they do... they find them all the more exciting.
And yes, we tend to be quite pleased with ourselves when we help you discover a new trick. weg*
Well, Vistana, I certainly hope you're going to be posting to your other thread!
I have only consciously ejaculated once, just recently, during an Academy task, as it happens. I don't know if I have done so before and just not noticed - I felt it to be a reaction to the intensity of the orgasm I was having, rather than it making the orgasm more intense, and I think I only noticed because this time it happened when it was just me playing. I think, if I'm cumming through a partner's ministrations, I'm just too damn busy to notice whether I squirt or not. But that recent one certainly was extremely intense - can't say I noticed getting weak afterwards though.
But now I am aware of it, I want to make sure I don't prevent myself from doing it (through embarrasement etc.) when with a partner, because certainly I would then be stopping myself from reaching that real high.
when I first started masterbating i would ejaculate, but i got so embarassed by it I trained my body not to. Now I wish I hadn't. I had it happen once with outwarning the first time I was take doggie style, and I have been trying to get myself to be able to do it again for a few years now, but it hasn't happened again...
I can only if the guy is hunting for my g-spot with his finger.
Ooooh, I forgot about this thread.
I always figured ejaculation only occured with G-Spot stimulation. However, my recent, first, and only experience was clitoral only.
After a few multiple orgasms with my vibe (as in bam bam bam...pause...bam bam bam.....pause.....bam bam bam....) it just happened. The orgasm was extremely intense, but the ejaculation itself didn't feel like anything special. I did feel it, but it was the orgasm that felt amazing...not the ejaculate.
It was a huge surprise....certainly wasn't expecting it to happen. But I am certainly glad it did.
Well, not being the squirter, but the lucky receipient of one, I can truly say it adds many incredibly satisfiing explosive moments to Oour Dungeon time.
As a Dom, it gives Me incredible fulfillment coaxing handfuls, mouthfuls, upper body showers, and many many bedclothes sent to the washer amounts of cum from Mine.
And I assure you with some practice, shots 4-6 feet away occur regularly.
I was soo surprised the first time it happened, but fell love with that feeling of flooding, over the years, its only gotten more intense.
so it is not really peeing then? The only way I have been able to stop is to not orgasm at all. I was told I was not experiencing a true orgasm (she said clittoral orgasm) and that it was only pee and anyone can do this? Going to sites do not really clear this up. How would one know the difference between peeing and squirting?
Empty your bladder before hand. Then you'll know.Quote:
Originally Posted by Echoes
...or taste it. :icon176:
And if you can cam it... notice that it comes from within the vagina and not from the urethra. The so-called G-spot is on the vaginal wall and presumably becomes engorged when stimulated. The ejaculation occurs because of intense muscle spasms in the vaginal walls... especially the kegal muscles...
You use the kegals to cut off urine flow, so it is unlikely that you are peeing during an actual orgasm....
Definitely not urinating.
And it doesnt always need to be a direct stimulation of the G-Spot. Although, imo, it does need the G-Spot to be stimulated when just learning, or discovering the ability to squirt.
These contractions, that promote the forceful cums, are from deeper within the body, as you feel your O building, try and resist cumming, then bear down from your abdominal muscles, push out from within the vagina, and use your abdominal muscles to generate the force behind the squirting.
Some are happy with flooding, some find the whole thing gross, although I cant imagine why, Me I love the absolute force that shoots the fluid out, it is a type of high, so girls, practice this, and make someone in your life wet and happy...:D
ohhhhhh! I wanna learn! Reading all this I've been torn between being grossed out and wanting to try. But seeing how most men seem to find this a turn on and Master telling me he likes it...welll....I gotta try it! Damn, I can't wait until he's done with all these hours at so we can play. :rolleyes:Quote:
Originally Posted by ObeyMe
Oh and you should, trust me its awesome. I bet your master makes you feel so hot about doing it that your gonna get even more turned on. The first time i was able to see myself squirt and hit my partner in the chest was ....wow...hot.Quote:
Originally Posted by Talia
The right person can keep you gushing and squirting for a shocking amount of time. Tip; drink a lot of water the day of and before. After all the ejuaculate is made mostly of water and if you are dehydrated you're not goona do it.
I agree that this is something that can be "learned" or "taught." It's a matter of becoming comfortable with your body and learning to read its signs...and of letting go, both mentally and physically. The first time I did this it really freaked me out; I was being coached while I masturbated, so I really had to concentrate and feel what was going on with my body. I agree that it feels like peeing at first, but OMG it's so freaking hott. And water intake does have a lot to do with it, not just the intensity of the orgasm.
MMMMMMMMMMM...agreed tainted, and how wonderful to have shared this, and that with someOne......;)
There are a few who really do have that much pressure, and that much liquid, and can squirt that far, that high, and that much, and it is really really really messy and embarrassing some of the time, even worse when filming for comparrision (Afterwards because I never much think about it while doing) the funniest part is when it happens durring any vaginal because it comes out with enough pressure to expel most anything (Which is one of the main reasons I avoid standard penitrations, that is the real embarrassing part for me and the guy)Quote:
Originally Posted by Blue_Monday
ok, thank you everyone...and hesitatingly adding another question.
There is another kind of squirting or gushing from deep inside and this too is copious amounts, not stimulated by the g spot or clitorus but from somewhere by the cervix I think...what is this?
This has happened to me only once but whatever it was oozed out of me. It was a completely different orgasm than any other I had felt.
There is supposed to be another spot simalar to the g spot near the area you have described. I have felt that before too. Hell anything that makes me feel that good is ok with me hahaha.
The area you discribed is the A spotQuote:
Originally Posted by Echoes
Thank you Talia, I will go look this up and read on it.Quote:
Originally Posted by Talia
I love orally pleasing a woman. When she's squirts and fills my mouth full of her, I know oh ya you did it right!! Then you get to clean her up and have more fun hearing her giggle.
I remember reading this thread with interest when I first joined the site as I was initially a non-believer, thinking that female ejaculation was urinating as I had only seen it in pornos when it had either seemed over exaggerated or fake but reading through everyones posts I was very interested to find so many people who had experienced it and some who believed that you could train yourself to do it... can you see where this is leading yet?
So, as I share everything with my beloved Master I had told him of my interest in wanting to experience this and as I had guessed he would he took the challenge upon himself whole heartedly! We started will manual stimulation of my g-spot, god has given this man extremely gifted fingers, and before long I was experiencing multiple orgasms unlike anything I have ever had before. I am lucky that I know he delights in holding me firmly in place, to stop me squirming away, as he pulls yet another orgasm from me!
The last couple of times, before today, that we had these wonderfully prolonged cumming sessions I had started to truly ejaculate. I have become relaxed enough to allow it to happen, to allow my body to react naturally to the sensations its feeling and gush with my cum. Master was delighted that he could feel the flooding against his fingers and loved to show me the wet spot I had made, telling me what a clever girl I was, but the challenge was only partly fulfilled for him... you see, he wanted to make me squirt and to do so he enlisted some help.
Our box of new toys arrived on Monday and in it, amongst other things, was a g-spot vibe, perfectly contoured to stimulate that hidden area. I knew what todays goal was and I didn't want to disappoint him in anyway so I made sure I was mentally prepared and relaxed enough to let what may happen happen. He lay me down on the bed and spread me wide before slipping the blindfold on and plugging my ears. We had already had a warm up session by now, with some clitoral orgasms so i was ready and receptive and when he started to work me with the vibe I knew it wouldn't take long before I would be gushing and flooding for him. I'm not sure exactly how long it lasted for, it seemed like an age but I came over and over and over again, crying out and squirming against the vibe, feeling my cum pour from me, feeling the wet patch underneath me growing as he kept on pulling me back towards him and working me hard, until eventually I had to admit defeat.
He quickly pulled me to him and removed my blindfold, kissing me and asking if I was ok, I giggled that I was amazing but to give me a sec. As I looked down at the bed I was amazed at the size of the puddle and asked him "Did I do that?" and he told me yes I had and not only that but out of the numerous times I had come I had squirted 3 times. I could see for myself that it was the truth from the spray pattern on the sheets. I was delighted as I had hoped I would as at the times I had felt myself cumming I had pushed, hoping to force it from myself but unfortunately as I was blindfolded I never saw it happen or even knew at the time that I had managed it.
So there we go, thats our story from another wonderful Wednesday session and I have to say that it was even more special as we were having a day of pre-birthday celebration for Master as we cant be together on the day next week. I am so happy that I gave him this as an extra special gift, though you might have been mistaken to think it was my special day after the pleasure he gave me, but to me every day I have known him has been special.
:pray:Master, did the squirting beat Lego Batman to your favourite gift spot?
Let me get this straight, he trained you to ejaculate?Quote:
Originally Posted by slave327-834-200
The reason I am asking is I once had a girlfriend who ejaculated all the time, and I mean intensly. She warned me about it the first time, and I thought she meant that there would be a little bit, as I had experienced that before.
If I had a cup to catch her ejaculation, I swear there would have been at least 3 ounces, and that was a small one. If she had made porno mivies she would have been world famous, let me tell you. We always used a towel, other wise that infamous wet spot would have made us both sleep somewhere else.
Anyway, I go so I enjoyed the sensation, and I would like to experience it again. If your master would not mind posting some pointers, I for one, would appreciate it.
I can't answer for anyone but myself, but I see a profound difference between getting very wet after great sex and what happens when I "squirt". When I actually ejaculate, it is just like that. I am stimulated to a point were fluid literally gushes from me, and not the calmer oozing of lubricating fluids. Had Master (who was the first to ever find the right way to make this occur, TY Master <weg>) not explained to me what could happen, I would have just assumed I had urinated or broken something! It is the most amazing sexual experience I have ever had.Quote:
Originally Posted by arwcuw
FYI: For the most part, I "squirt" best and hardest when I am kneeling upright and Master is pleasuring me with his hand. That works best for us, and he doesn't have to worry about drowning. :-) "Peace" ~blizz~
Good god!! i got exhausted reading that (among other things).Quote:
Originally Posted by slave327-834-200
*goes in search of a cold shower*
I suppose that I am saying that he trained me to ejaculate. I had never experienced it before and it took quite a long time to get to the point we are now at.Quote:
Originally Posted by Rhabbi
I'm not sure what words of wisdom Master would impart to you about being able to do this but I will put in what my thoughts on it are.
The most important thing that we share, apart from unfaltering love, is trust and with that we are 100% comfortable with one another and this goes a long way to being able to experiment.
Like a lot of women I had a tendency to pull away when I orgasmed but to achieve the level of heightened arousal I needed to ejaculate I had to stop doing this and to allow Master to push me further and further. Initially he would have to hold me in place to stop me squirming away but now I know I can achieve mind-blowing climaxes if i breath deeply, relax and let him persevere, that is a key factor here - perseverence!
We have only achieved these ejaculatory orgasms through stimulation of the g-spot either from his fingers or our new favourite toy (smiling just think about it) and as I said in my previous post I wasn't sure I had squirted until he told me but when I felt myself cumming I pushed it from me in the hope that I would.
I'm not sure if I'm just lucky to be able to experience these types of orgasms or if all women have the potential and with some it is locked away further than in others but with a lot of care and attention we managed to unleash it.
Yes Blizzard, there is a great deal of difference between the two. There is no chance of confusing them either.Quote:
Originally Posted by His_blizzard
What slave and I experienced yesterday was the culmination of much loving play over many weeks and a very memorable day for many reasons. I have always known this was possible with my darling slave but I am not sure that it will be possible for every woman to achieve, but heck it will be great fun trying even if you don't succeed though it takes a lot of patience and you will need a very giving lover.
What can I say except you are a very special girl and I love you dearly.Quote:
Originally Posted by slave327-834-200
For you darling
I am sure it's different in many ways for all, but here is my experience with female ejaculation.
The first time it happened, I was by myself, playing. I thought I had tinkled. So for a few years after that, I'd tense up during orgasm, holding my muscles in tight so I wouldn't "wet the bed" as I thought I was doing. It really did bother me quite a bit. Then along came the magic of the internet. I found out that there is such a thing as female ejaculation. I was pretty damn happy, let me say. Nice to find out you aren't a bed-wetter!
So I started utilizing this new information. Initially, it was all from clitoral stimulation. I found out that if I just let go and pushed out with my muscles at the onset of orgasm, I would squirt. The amount depended on how hydrated I was. Then, one fantabulous day, I discovered my g-spot. Orgasms without clitoral stimulation?!? But YAY!! And I found out at that point that I would gush even more fluids if my g-spot was stimulated for a time before orgasm. A win-win for me, to be sure!
Since then, I have learned more about how all this works for me. I can't gush with a toy or cock filling my cunt. BUT, if I have a couple clitoral orgasms while filled, then when I have that next g-spot or clitoral Oh, I will gush like a geyser! My husband has the towels ready to cover in case it's a sky-high one. It can be a serious mess to clean up, but well worth the effort in my opinion. ~laughs~ I just heard the choruses of "well, duh!!" from around the Forums after making that last comment.
Hope that helps you out some, Rhabbi. :)
After actually having sex now... I know that I can do it without just clitoral stimulation.
Being on top and kind of laying forward and grinding back and forth does it... yes there is some clit stim there... but the motion of his cock feeling likes its going to break through me.. is great. I came after moving back and forth just 5 times.... it was literally about 20 seconds.. I was spent! He kept going.. wouldn't let me stop... and then flipped me and got on top.. I came 3 times that night and was sobbing at the end it was soooooo intense...
I looooove ejac! But yes.. for me I have to be mentally prepared for it because it is sooo intense for me.
Also . I'd like to point out... to those who are scared of being EJacked on. Its pretty much clear, odorless, tasteless..... unlike cum which has a ... thicker texture... more color.. and can have odor or taste.. ( not always bad, but some)
I can't do this :( Hubby would love it if I could. I do get that sensation like I am going to wet myself but nothing ever comes of it just a regular orgasm. I want to be able to do this but I think it is a mixture of a few things 1 I can't let go yet and just let it happen and 2 I NEVER drink water ever lol that could be an issue. I figure I am lucky with the orgasm alone. I do not orgasm easily at all. We can play for hours and I will orgasm only one or two times no matter what he does to me. He knows exactly where my g spot is knows how to stimulate it I just don't orgasm. The other thing I've noticed is I am only able to orgasm from either oral or when I'm on top no other position we've found does it for me either. I don't get it I feel like we are doing something wrong??
Is this some kind of a sign? This just happened to me for the first time, TODAY!!! Fortunately, I had read this thread before along with a few other resources. However, I honestly believed that women were just "fooling" themselves. Really they were only "wetting the bed", I thought, as did Tessa. I stand corrected!
When it happened, I felt the warm gush over my hand and was surprised because I had a dildo in. After I recovered, I looked on the bed and saw that I had squirted almost 12 inches away from where I was seated. It was clear and odorless, but a bit thicker than water. I was so shaky that I couldn't stand for a few minutes.
I've been doing more intense Kegel exercises, and I'm inclined to believe that helped to not only achieve this, but in the distance I ejaculated as well. I'm thinking this might be an Olympic event! LOL Guess I'll just have to practice, practice, practice!! Yay!
LOL..........as it have said it the past..*wink*
It gives a whole new meaning to the the words "wet spot"........
i've done it once, by myself using a vibe. i just happened to have a mirror positioned so i could watch, having no idea i was gonna squirt, so that was kinda a bonus. my Man wants me to do it so bad & he gets me right there but i've never been able to get all the way. But i'm kinda like naughtylittleme. i have trouble having an orgasm at all. i can w/ a vibe on my clit almost any time but hardly ever w/ any other stimulation. He gives the best oral i've ever had & He works magic on my g-spot. He & i have the most open communication & i'm not embarassed or anything so i dunno why "it" eludes me. i'm mid 40's & have been around in my day so you woulda thought i'd figured out how it works by now.