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Leave it to sbbe to start a quiet rant on state law.
Russell
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Leave it to sbbe to start a quiet rant on state law.
Russell
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Because, no matter how well trained, people want to know their opinions have been considered. Do you act/appear to have listened and considered their opinions? Do you explain why you went with the choice you made? That may be all that's required...Quote:
Originally Posted by Sir_Russell
But if you proceed, "appearing" to not have considered their input... well, that's the road to discontent... regardless of whether you're dealing with 'nillas, doms, and even subs.
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I once had an employee come in to tell me their idea. He had no sooner gotten about 7 words out of his mouth that I realized he was absolutely right. (Intuitive leaps are one of my fortes.) So I told him "You're absolutely right. Go do it that way."
He got really upset. I asked if realized I was agreeing with him and yes he did... but more important than that... he had just wanted to tell me his idea and have me listen. It was the telling and interaction and for some reason my listening that was important... regardless of whether or not I had agreed.
I learned a big lesson about human nature... after all, that's what I expect of others when I have something to say. So I have since always had very happy staffs... because I listen, consider, and then do what I want to do anyway.
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Ozme52
I agree and I listen better then most, part of my professional training as a problem solver requires it, but mine probably formerly mine hears what she wants to hear and then what she wanted to hear becomes fact. Leaving me with the choice of punishment or release. This has been an ongoing issue with her so release may be the only way out and save my sanity.
I listen to her know her as well as anyone has ever known her according to her, but her trust issues may just be too much for my love and desire to overcome. She doesn't realize that each time she goes off on one of these tangents based on a misunderstanding that when I explain things to her that her rejection of it is an affront to me and all I hold dear. My honor, her respect of me/us and her pride in me.
A year of training and explanations haven't really changed the way she responds when stressed. I wish it was different
Russell
Some truly are not suited to being submissive... regardless of their stated desires. Ususally, in those cases, the one they deceive the most is themself.
Good luck to you Russell.
Oz
Sir Russel... i had a very similiar problem twice in the last three years with " friends " .
Sometimes the answer is that 'release' for your own sanity as you put it.
otherwise you'll be no use to the other person down the road. Or you could become resentful. I did that with one.
Sir Russell
It's hard when you have to make these big decisions. I hope it all works of for the right.
Smiles about the quiet rant. I went on and saw how many states have this silly law. I am so aggrivated, you'd think people would have better things to do with their time.
Sbbe
Your rants are almost as nice as your legs sbbe.
I agree it is sad that in today's world that this country is marching backwards in allowing people to live their own lives their own way as long as it doesn't affect the public in general.
Russell
Some extra pictures in honor of sbbe legs
There is no doubt in my mind that the people have lost rights and freedoms during the last 40+ years.Quote:
Originally Posted by Sir_Russell
Most of them are too uneducated to notice it.
I agree with your point Wolfscout,The sad thing to me is all the time wasted in passing a bill through a state assembly or legislature,then once signed into law the tax money wasted on defending such a law in the various courts in the states concerned.I have no doubt that the sponsors of such bills as this sex toy law,upon passage ,use this passage as a reelection feather in their cap in their home district ,appealing to the conservative element in such a district.Meanwhile that state's far larger problems often go largely unsolved as little of substance gets through the legislature .Ok so the prisons are overcrowded and schools are crumbling from disrepair,but no matter our town is safe from sex toys!Quote:
Originally Posted by Wolfscout
Sir_Russell I love the pictures of the Oriental girls. It amazes me because I used to have every on that I have seen you publish and then I decided to get rid of them before anyone in my home found them. I must have had at least 1800 of them that I destroyed. There is one I wonder if you have and it shows an Oriental lady all bound with a very large and heavy rock laying on top of her tied and crossed legs while her head is tied in a bent over position to the stone.
Ummm have you guys read the patriot act. Now that is one scary peice of legislation. It says you will give up you constitutional rights to allow the governmant to protect you from "terrorism".Quote:
Originally Posted by Wolfscout
They're doing it to us here in Australia and the sad thing is we don't have your constitution (to protect us) and the precious freedoms that your founding fathers granted each citizen as a matter of birthright or being an American citizen.
This is just my point of view and not meant to be an attack. I feel it here and I know you will eventually if not already.
Respectfully
G
fantazmaster, Warbaby1943 and Sir_G
Your all right. The patriot act was one of the worst thing ever done to this country. That at the time no one seemed to blow whistle or scream bloody murder just goes to show why we are in such decline here. They have ruined our school so that we would have more controlable people, then they brainwashed us through tv and our vaulted news reporters didn't do their jobs.
Now we are in a mess that will take decades to get out of.
I am proud of what my country stands for but I am not proud of how we have behaved.
Warbaby I have a ton of asian photos if I find that one I will post it.
Russell
Sir Russell, :ty for sharing so many interesting pix and your histories. i've only been away for 2 weeks and come back to find so many new pix. Lovely!!!Quote:
Originally Posted by Sir_Russell
Your hard work is deeply appreciated. Please (pretty please) don't stop. :-)
Patriot act? i completely agree with you all. that's why CNN is no longer my choice... how does one brainwash American citizens about the terrorists? how about broadcasting what other citizens feel about the things done by the US government to their countries?
it's sad, really!
Without disrespecting you all, i would like to go back to fun topics and looking at mmmm pix. :p
~polarbear
Love the pictures. So agree with the words.
Here's a link to the Fishnet stockings you asked for.
Giggle,
Sbbe
Very Very nice sbbe. I think we will all agree to that.
Russell
wow!
after a recent reformat, i have finally had the time and the extreme pleasure of revisiting this thread from the beginning. Sir Russell, your photos and your histories are simply amazing.
thank you again for sharing both
respectfully,
orchid
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Originally Posted by Sir_Russell
I think even good subs at times feel overwhelmed by the enormity of their submissiveness.Maybe when other stresses are too high,they tend to take it out on the one relationshp that is most dear to them,and that seems to the dom as insubordination...of course it's true that some are just deceiving themselves but hard to say what's what in such cases.I prefer to withdraw a little,and see what develops. A true sub always come back all the more penitent and you can punish her/him as you see fit...
I agree with himind on this. If the sub is having allot of outside pressures that are affecting his/her behavior in the D/s relationship. Letting them lose to blow off steam, not reacting to these action, and to a point ignoring them until the realize what they have done and come crawling back. Then deal with it rationally as a Dom.
just my 2 cents.
Today's Post
Yes, it worked and I hope it will stick, I do love her a lot.
Funny she assumes that I have subs falling all over me here. I guess I could but I don't want them I want morgan. Everyone keep their fingers crossed till I can finsih mom's affairs here and move to Colorado.
Russell
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You asked for some themes.How about a wedding one?
Another theme... Bondage and Cars...
Love the wax work, Haven't done that in awhile. I think i will be getting out the candles when I get home.
Thanks himind and Havensov
I have some wedding shots in my collection most of which came curtesy of Ironwulf and my thanks to him. Bondage and cars isn't really one of my things but I do have some.
morgan is behaving well again and is full of surprises these past few days, I doubt that I would have talked with her again without the advice and support from you two and the others, so thanks.
Russell
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Sir Russell, delicious pix. Thank you very much for sharing.
i keep my fingers (and toes) crossed. *smiles*
Sincerely,
polarbear
Now that's how to train a wife.
Lol no more wives for me unless it is the only way to get her health insurance.
Sir_Rusell,the question of who will wear the pants in that relationship is certainly well ansewered in these first five pictures!Thanks for sharing these.Quote:
Originally Posted by Sir_Russell
Those are great, Really like the Jeeps ones. Two unrelated Passions in one pic!
Just for kicks... How about food and bondage?
........of a British cult film from the 60s which contained a number of fantaasies that passed through the thoughts of a woman being taken to prison ? In one fantasy sequence she was raped on the hood of a jeep. It was one of the better films of that era I recall. Another was Love Camp 7. :rolleyes:Quote:
Originally Posted by Havensov
Havensov
I have some but I can't seem to find them as soon as I do I will post them.
Russell
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This is off topic Sir_Russell, but it may be one more little thing to help put your loss behind you:
I question not God's means or ways,
Or how He uses time or days,
To answer every callor prayer-
I know He will, somehow, somewhere.
(Whitney)
Thanks for the wedding pics, sir_russel.They're great.
himind
I just posted what Ironwolf sent me so really he should be the one you thank.
I am grateful for the advice you all gave me to get me through a bad time with morgan
Russell
Oh my word Sir Russell
Those pictures and those words in my other thread. Giggle. What a nice bit to come on for. I'm sharing a computer for a bit while mine is in the shop. I can't wait to get back and really look at all these pictures.
Sbbe
Well thanks to Ironwolf for them too.I was really searching for this series
Today's Post
I am interested in what your house wear rules are either for you submissive or that your Dominant set for you and how you feel about them.
Russell
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morgan gave the okay for me to put this in the thread. She wrote it for me. What a slave she is and goregous too. Any of you that saw her photo knows I am not lieing.
Russell
ALL THAT YOU ARE
Your wondrous light shines brightly my love,
Guiding my path with it’s glow.
With magickal splendor You take me to flight,
Lend freedom and life to my soul.
For You are my Master, mentor and friend,
My lover, teacher and guide.
It is all that You are and allow me to be,
Which leaves me captive in bliss at Your side.
You awaken my senses, send my spirit to soar,
As Master I bend to Your will.
You create me anew to surrender my all,
Obedient in love and fulfilled.
It is You who brings serenity, security and strength,
My hero who protects and defends.
Nurturing with love, firmness and care,
And devotion without any end.
As friends, sharing all, through the pleasure and pain,
Free of all barriers and walls.
No words need be spoken, no vows to be said,
Just the outstretched hand if we fall.
Our love knows no limits or boundaries of earth,
In ecstasy we venture to fly.
Hearts filled with passion as fires rage within,
While cascades of brilliance fill the skies.
These gifts You give freely, they bring life and complete me,
Your soft, loving chains set me free.
For all that You are lives in my heart, mind and soul,
Your love is the air that I breathe.
I live to serve and please You, submitting to Your will,
Without You I’d whither and die.
I love You, want You and need Your touch,
Take me, I’m Yours for all time.
I love you Master!
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To all of you that merely visit here at least stop and say hi.
Russell
oh wow - love the red collar and cuffs on post 915!
i am just on my way out for errands with Master but i do want to come back to comment about your question on house rules
orchid
zzzzzzzuttttttzzzzzzz !!!!! I can almost hear the buzzing and the scream as the current curses.........some fine electro fantasy photos. Thankyou.
How shocking!!! I love it, thanks.