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Just wanted to put my own introductions in. I'm doing a swell job lurking right now, but will get my courage up soon.
I'm a sub with little experience... looking for someone/somethings to broaden my experience and teach me a little bit more about myself.
I'm excited that this seems like such a welcoming forum.
Hi everyone! Glad to find another bdsm forum site!
I've been married nearly 23 years. Although My husband is My sub occasionally, most of My bdsm fun is done online.
My "kinks" include cbt, orgasm control, heel...pussy...ass worship, instructional stroking, using My strap on, and teasing to distraction. I ADORE a boy in silky panties!
I'm always on the lookout for fresh ideas, and ways to torment My pets. Looking forward to sharing experiences in this wonderful journey!
Hi,
I just joined a couple of days ago and I've already made a few posts because some of the subjects seemed so interesting.
I'm Hawaiian/Japanese/French mix and I have been into bdsm thinking since I was a little girl really but I've been playing for real for a few years now. I've written a few stories though the earlier ones really suck now that I've read them over again. I did submit one a couple of days ago but when I re-read that one I saw some problems and so I hope if I revise it that I'm allowed to submit a revision. I'm also working on some other new stuff too so I hope that isn't too bad too. I'm always open to getting other opinions on my work because I get kind of blind about stuff.
I'm generally a submissive but I have been known to switch under the right circumstances. When I write anything, especially a post or email it tends to be very long, I have no control and I type really fast too, about as fast as I can talk which is usually a lot slower than my brain.
I have my own website that I've been running for a few years now and in addition to stories I also put photos and videos of me doing bdsm play. I'm not shy have another problem to be associated with it, so I don't mind people knowing what I look like.
I've been enjoying this site for a while now though and it was only in the last few days that I wanted to review a story and that got me to sign up which got me to the forum here and that got me to submit my story and inspired me to start writing again. Funny how that works huh?
I've never been into online cybersex or whatever, it doesn't turn me on the way real play does, but discussion is good for me because I learn new things and stories are good because as I've said before, there's somethings in fantasy that make me crazy with lust but I'd never do some of those same things for real. My fantasies and hence my stories have no limits because that's what fantasy is for...to explore the things that you can not or will not explore for real. As for real play, I don't believe that there's any one way you have to do things or you have to act. As long as what happens is between consenting adults and is done in a safe manner and is enjoyable to the participants, that's the big thing.
Okay, so I hope that's enough of an introduction. If you have any thoughts or questions, just let me know. But don't expect a short reply.
Maliia K.
Actually, we (or at least I) encourage long posts, and especially long posts in this thread. The object of this thread is to give the Forumites a clearer picture of what their fellows are like than they would get from reading your profile page. This "Hi! I'm here." stuff really doesn't seem to accomplish much (other than to prove that you can follow directions, which is something, I guess). :soapbox:
Oh, and welcome to the Forum.
I guess I should actually post an intro since I've been posting on the boards for awhile now :)
Im jen, though people call me sky irl as well as ol. Im 18, female, tend most towards being a lesbian and a domme and am from the US. I am not out about my sexuality or anything associated with to to my parents, though most of my friends know. Unlike Maliia, I abreviate (almost) everything, which is a habit I picked up from a combination of debate and the occasional computer game. (debate also made it possible for me to be able to read *out loud* over 20 pages of typed material in 8 minutes, drink 12 shots of coffee right b4 bed and sleep fine, and made me extremely liberal, etc. Debate was/is my only real education i can get at my school). Also while on the subject of non bdsm related materials- I am obsessed with crafts, mostly spinning and knitting, and will go on about them or my business for hours given 1/2 the chance.
as I said, I am exceedingly liberal. I evaluate my world on several philosophies, including feminism, humyn ecology {yes that is how i spell humyn btw. I also spell it womyn, humynkind, etc and gender edit anything i write), postmodernism, and anarchy :) fortuently, all can only happen in an ideal world, which we are not in. Im pretty open minded even when I do not agree with people, and have pretty much heard it all in relation to politcs and/or my sexuality, so i promise to try and remain civil when i disagree. I have a hard time understanding people who are unable to tolerate "minorities" or people who are different from themselves, especially in anything that has remotely to do with sexuality or gender- two things im obsessed with. Finding people who understand bdsm and can offer support and answer questions lead me to seek people like myself ol- which is how I found this totally awesome forum :)
OK so much for this not being long. I apologize in advance for the aweful spelling im sure you will see come out of my mouth...er posts... in the future. Moving my wrists is at best painful, and spelling was never a strong point to begin with.
Greetings... My name is Perdita and I have recently discovered my own submissive nature. A bittersweet blessing, as I have also discovered that it is not to everyone's tastes, including my companion. I've been seeking some solace in my writings and now a forum to post them and enjoy others. I look forward to meeting individuals of a like mind, who can inspire this servant of pain to new wanderings.
Well Met!
I'm new to this forum and would like to say hello to everyone and thank you for allowing me to join. I'm 41/f/Domme, from Brantford, ontario, Canada.
Hi I'm ProjectEuropa. I was given the url to this site a while ago by a friend who is a member of this site and never acted upon it until she threatened not to buy me a drink again. I'm an artist which is how I earn my living and I write but that is purely a hobby. I've enjoyed myself while I've been here and dared to submit a few stories but I'm not sure they are hot enough for this site and I'm beginning to regret the submissions a little. I ended up writing a more pornographic story than I usually write and submitted that but I don't think it has the quality of my other stories. I'm now in the process of writing a BDSM detective story with a male/switch, Sherlocke Holmes type hero called Dr Pijnmaaker (pain maker in Dutch). Whether it will ever fly, we'll see. Anyway, that's me. looking forward to getting to know you all.
Informations about me,
location: canada
gender: male
age: in my 20s
sexual orientation: heterosexual
bdsm orientation: submissive-switch
religious orientation: agnostic atheist
political orientation: neoconservative/right-wing
psychological profiles (for what they are worth):
more a type A personality than a type B
MBTI: INTJ
Enneagram Personality: Type 5 (Thinker)
I will stop here for now, this is but a little overview of my complexe personality.
PS: English is not my primary language therefore please due excuse any spelling errors.
Hello, another introduction here. I am a woman in the process of discovering my taste for erotic dominance. About my interests:
Fiction and fantasy...
As long as I can remember, I have had fantasies and interests that I today can conveniently label as BDSM-related. :) I discovered this site via the library. Erotic fiction appeals to me, with a wide range of content, good plots and complex characters. I can appreciate well written stories with pretty much any pairings, though my preferences lead me towards Whoever/m - constellations. Stories with male subs light my fire, regardless whether they are forced or coerced or willingly surrender. I love reading F/m stories - if the author convinces me that the dominant character does what she likes and is having fun. And I love gay male erotic fiction.
Online...
Reading the threads here is very enriching and enjoyable, and I hope to learn a lot more. My interest in online relationships or online scenes is zero.
Reality...
I am from Southern Germany, and for English I need to use a dictionary now and then. :rolleyes: The invocation of control and power turns me on, so I suppose this means I like the mental aspect of D/s. My main orientation is straight, though now and then I find women attractive as well. I live in a long-term loving relationship with a man. In our sex life we are in a continuous process of experiment: What I like to do, what he likes, and where our desires lead us.
Thanks...
I appreciate the interesting discussions and lovable people on these forums. Thank you all for sharing your thoughts and experiences, and thanks to Jinn & the moderators for making it happen.
Ranai
SENDING OUT A WELCOME TO:
...daddysslut, Four_Inch_Heels, Maliia, midnightsky (I've already been enjoying your posts :) ), Perdita, Mistress Katherine, ProjectEuropa, Incubus Argenteus, and Ranai
Incubus Argenteus, speaking for myself, I don't care if someone can or cannot type great English....I'm just grateful that I'M not trying to type on a board in another language, because I already make so many mistakes in my own...lol...so type away and enjoy yourself!
Welcome to you all......I'm very glad you are all here....I just love having new people on the board...the more that show up, the more potential I have for making another new online friend :)
~~nibbles~~
Thanks, nibbles! :)
Thank you for the welcoming words nibbles :)
Thank you, nibbles, for your friendly welcome.
LikesItSoft...
Soft Dom from PA. I enjoy reading this site a lot and have been lurking for a few weeks now. I am still learning the community here but I am glad to be here. Everyone is so honest and open about all theses subjects. It is a nice change. Not looking for anything but a few laughs and a good time. I also have questions from time to time.
Thanks!
Shanon :)
just a brief hallo to you all and a thankyou for the warm welcome you extend. i am a 22 ex-pat... i arrived in not-so-sunny-it-seems texas the autumn of 2003 and have made myself at home. allthough it is a very different to southern england! in response to all those who wish for tea... i have a large pot of earl grey right next to me :D i am fairly new to the scene but can safely say im a submissive woman with a dominant career... i manage a large arab breeding and training facility (the horses not the people) i also train and instruct riders in several different disciplins. and when im not doing that i read sleep bake and write. i'm about halfway through writing a book and if someone would help me get this darn block off my desk :help: i just might manage it before the monster under the desk :-[ thats been eating post it notes finds it....... if anyone fancies a chat just ping me on yahoo... if i dont reply im not being rude im probably happily drooling on the keyboard...
thanks again....
angelwings :)
Hello everyone! I joined a few days ago and basically vomitted a post out. I was so glad to find a place filled with Dom/subs, etc that I wrote and wrote and wrote. I looked at it last night and even I didn't want to read it. LOL
I am Domme but confused inside. I am going to read postings regularly and see if I can find my center. I would not know I was Domme if it wasn't for my sub writing me online and triggering off the most intense feelings in my life. When I am interacting with him my Domme side is more than easily accessed. When away from him my repressed self has too much sway in my psyche. I am dying to fight my way free, ALL the time.
I am going to start a post about humiliation and what's it all about. I hope you all read it and comment. I promise to be brief.
I am excited and glad I found this forum.
(Peeking over my blindfold) .. Just saying Hi as was requested. I am i fem sub living in Florida. Not with one particular Master ... Freestyling so to speak :dunno: Thank you for inviting me in.............
Welcoem lindakaye I look forword to reading your posts soon
Hello everyone!
I just wanted to take a second to introduce myself, seeing as how I'm a new member and all. Anyway, my name is jem; I'm a 23 year old female submissive. I'm very inexperienced with submission and have found someone who seems to be a stellar online Dom, but I'm still looking for real time as well.
Believe it or not, I'm actually still a virgin - I'm trying to retain my virginity to give to whichever Master or Mistress that I choose to develop a long-standing, long-lasting relationship in. It's one of the only gifts you can't take back or return once given, which makes it very valuable in my opinion!
I'm currently a student in my fourth year at University, doing a double major/combined honours degree in English and Media Studies. I'll likely be going to teachers' college once I'm done this degree (one more year!). I'm also a freelance web developer, which is how I work my way through school - only one smallish loan so far to my name, which will be nice when I finally get a "real" job. *grin*
I'm from Toronto, Ontario, Canada (well, just outside of there, actually) but have travelled quite a bit in my 23 years of life - I have also lived in Belgium, France, and Costa Rica for extended periods of time. I love travelling -- there's nothing much better than travelling save for playing/bdsm.
Other than sex and travelling, I also love crafts (I cross stitch!), films (I'm a huge film geek), watching television, listening to music, playing with my three cats, trying to stay caught up at school, and other fairly normal things. ;) I'm a BBW, but have been working out to try and get more healthy and live a healthier life - so far I've lost 12lbs and gained muscle, so I'm working hard to keep up with that.
Finally, I tend to talk way too much, so I will leave this here! :)
Oh! I forgot - I have set up a website/journal for my thoughts/experiences, etc as a newbie submissive - you can read it: http://voyage.eurotrash.cc
WELCOME TO:
LikesItSoft, angelwings3882, PrincessKTKIA, lindakaye, and BabyJem!
I've already run into a couple of you on the boards :)....happy posting everyone!....this is a fun place and I hope you enjoy it as much as I have :goldcup:
~~nibbles~~
Wow, that is one impressive blog. Thank you very much and a very warm welcome to you.
SMartie
Hi, Everyone,
erm... i've been looking through the site for a little bit and was browsing through the photos thread and came upon, i believe it was bdsm tourguide mentioning something about a new member's thread and thought, oh dear, i posted my intro in the wrong section. My apologies :o . I'll post a little here and mention where my other intro(s) are. I've been doing research for years into this lifestyle and/or hobbie(?) and just now got the guts to join. I think i'm a sub and looking for a master. I'm not entirely sure, that is, i'm sure enough in theory but theory and reality can differ quite a bit... I'm a people pleaser. And, i don't know what else to say. I respond well to questions so if anyone has any, feel free to ask!!
So far, i've found everything that i've read incredibly fascinating and it's helped the way I see the bdsm world.
ps other intros... "What was the first age?" by slut4u and "How did you find out about BDSM?" by BDSM_Tourguide
Hello - i'm new here! The reason for joining is because my Master has asked me to carry out a task, what is the correct procedure here? If i would like to ask a question may i start my own thread?Quote:
Originally Posted by write4jetc
appreciate a guiding hand as i dont wish to tread on anyone's toes.
with respect
Quote:
Originally Posted by slut_princess
Post away! If you tread on anyone's toes, they'll yell "ouch!"
To post a new thread, find the forum that seems most appropriate to contain the question you want to ask and post it there. You might want to do a search first, though, to see if anyone else has asked your question, or if a discussion already exists on the material of your question.
If you need any help, just ask.
Wow.. I can't believe how extremely nervous
I am about my first post here. (blushes). I mean, I actually have tummy-flies..
I've been lurking here for awhile and decided to become a member today.
I thought i'd poke my little head in and bid a Hello to everyone..
Welcome to the forum! Enjoy yourself. If you need help, just ask.Quote:
Originally Posted by miloura dae
Love your choice of avatar, btw.
WELCOME TO: Eclipsed, slut_princess, and miloura dae
I'm so happy to see more new faces!....please jump in and look around and post so we can all get to know you more....posting here in the Intro thread was a great start, but we'd like to see more of you :applaus:
Eclipsed, I'm already enjoying your posts....keep it up!
I hope you all find this board as helpful and fun as I do :)
~~nibbles~~
Hey everybody. I just signed up for this about.. 15 minutes ago. I'm really curious about BDSM. I'm only 18 years old so I have plenty of time to learn all you can teach me. My name is Kaspar and I live in USA, Virginia. I like sports and literature. Interesting combo. Anything else you wanna know, just ask.
Because of my ignorance, I'm not sure if I'm a Dom or sub type. I'd appreciate all the :help: help I can get.
And, I'm a little slow sometimes and I know that.. I was trying to get a picture to use but i can't figure out how. I tried and I got a little box either saying there was no picture at that URL or that there were too many pixels. Could someone give me some hints?
Any help would be appreciated... especially concerning my "identity crisis," of being a Dom or sub. Thanks.
Yeah, I'm a newbie here. I think this site has a link to my site on it somewhere but I can't remember. Anyway, I'm an erotic romance author who started writing BDSM awhile back. In fact, BDSM and erotica are where I got my start. I am curious, how can we get work posted here?
Look forward to discussion :)
Sascha