A bisexual switch question

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Originally Posted by mkp

Hmm. This has been pretty interesting, reading everyone's replies. I know my take on the subject is confused by the fact that I get really anxious about things, even just chatting with people, much less playing with them. So, for me, I'm least anxious/not at all anxious with female subs, and from there the anxiety level increases as follows: female sub < male sub < female switch < female dominant < male switch < male dominant.

Interesting.

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Peculiarly, I feel most drawn to being dominated by a man, which usually scares me and makes me go running for my feminist books,

Now that's a great pity! Feminism is after all about taking control of your life and doing what you want.

If you can find the discussion about feminism and BDSM (I am not good that searching in the threads, but maybe somebody else can find it?) you'll see that that point of view is almost a complete consensus. I would also offer the view that was said so often, that if you do not own yourself, you cannot give yourself away.

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but some dommes appeal to me too. I'd play with dominating a man, and that would be fun, but I think I'd be more likely to get into an actual scene relationship with a female sub.

Do you mean dominating her?

weird how our brains work, isn't it?[/QUOTE]

Newbie to the forum, but this applied to me and I'd like to offer my two cents.

I've DONE all four. With women, I'm equally happy to sub or Dom, and with men, I prefer to Dom. I've only played sub with my long-term (male) partner, and I'm happy to keep it that way. I've always leaned more toward women as far as my sexual preference goes, and while I do appreciate the aesthetics of bollocks and bums...I've never been too keen on the cock. c:

I also have a pre-op MtF tranny friend, who I have both subbed and Dommed with. c: Both experiences were thoroughly enjoyable, and certainly something to be repeated.

Interesting :-)
Thanks.