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Great thread Topic!
I discovered BDSM like everyone else on the internet, And went to my first Adult sex shop where I purchased a few BDSM magazines and an Submissive male was born shortly after.:)
The appeal was power exchange between you and your partner, giving freely of myself by submitting (I knew my path in life) I was at peace with myself.
I really had no misconception at all. I've studied BDSM, learned all I could, enhanced my pain threshold. It was amazing, Let me tell a quick story of true actual event on this cold brisk day on my way to work. I decided to stop by an convience store and within 5 minutes of being in the store, This Woman entered the store wearing all leather and carrying a whip in her hand, Our eyes met and I automatically dropped to my knees.I knew my destiny in life.
I'd like to educate people on BDSM, Pass on to people the feeling of true power exchange between both partners and how wonderful it is.
I consider myself a "lifestyler" player.
I enjoy being submissive, just everything it entails.The power exchange of knowing I'm serving my partner, making her happy.
I don't have an Dominant female yet. Hoping things will be changing very soon. I'm in the process now.
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How did you find out about the BDSM lifestyle?
Ah childhood play, 'who'sgoing to be the one to be tied up and held captive' Little Nicelips was always the first to volunteer!:)
What was its appeal to you?
For me, it has to be the totaly defenceless position I'm in. I'm no longer a person of free will but an object that belongs to my Master and his to use as he wishes.:span:
What misconceptions did you have of BDSM before you began that have been changed now?
The age range, I thought that the majority would be in a Mid 30 range. How very wrong I was.
What do you hope to learn/teach/pass on to others about BDSM?
Learn: How far I can extend my pain threashold, I want to learn how to make the expierence last longer.
Teach: I'm in no position to teach anyone in this field.
Pass on: Ditto above, but in life, I'd like to pass on tolerance to all.
Do you consider yourself a "lifestyler" or just an occasional player? Unfortunately, I'm a slave with no Master, so I guess I must class myself as an occasional player with ambitions to be a lifestyler! (this is not an advertisment!)
What do you enjoy about being dominant/submissive? Submissive....I really enjoy being controlled and being told what to do. It's nice to make no decisions and just enjoy life with no responsibilities.
Well said Aletta, that is it in a nut shell!
What do you like about your dominant/submissive(s), if you have one (them)?
I always find this a catch 22 situation, I got such a high out of his pleasure and he got such pleasure out of my high.
