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Originally Posted by allalone46
Hi alalone46,
I guess your responding to my post. Perhaps you misunderstood. When I entered her it was next to the dildo not behind it (girth not depth). If I pushed it that far in the head of it would probably lodge somewhere in her lungs. :o
Since you bring up the subject of babies I usually cringe when somebody announce a new birth, 8.6 lbs and 18 inches long or something like that. Why don't they say 18 inches tall? :rolleyes:
Uhm, I guess because, until it's a walking, it isn't tall, it's long. The height of a newborn would only be four or five inches, because it can't stand up. :confused:Quote:
Originally Posted by Fanny Warmer
All I know is that mine has always been big enough to please me!
i had a best friend (female) in college who had me set her up with this guy in one of my classes who she thought was hot. A week or so later she came and asked me for advice on how to break up with him. i asked her what was up, had he hurt her or something. She finally confessed that the guy had the smallest penis she'd ever seen, she swore it was only 2 inches long when hard - she said she couldn't even feel it inside her when they slept together. She wanted to break up with him, but also not hurt his feelings because he was such a nice guy. i let her make a confession to the guy that her and i were both in love and had been keeping our love secret for so long not wanting to break up our friendship. It worked, but i did feel sorry for the guy because i'm sure he knew the lie and most likely had gone through this many times. i don't know how much surgery could do for him because from everything i've read, at the most only between 1 to 2 inches can be gained from such an operation. But i guess 3 or 4 inches is better than 2.
And that is why if the guy is bigger than 4-6in a woman can't take all of him. So size doesn't always mater. Those oversized guys can't do any better than a average size, and than he can't do as well. Like my Dad always told me it isn't the size of the hook but how you wiggal the worm.
that's probably true for some, maybe most women, but I have 7-8 inches (depending on however you measure it) and it all fits in there..Quote:
Originally Posted by allalone46
the real measure is the radius or circumference of the penis.
The vagina cannot accommodate 7-8 inches. However, it feels as though the entire length is in because there's a couple of inches of labial tissue on the outside of the vagina. Depending on her position, a woman can typically accommodate 5-6 inches.
I've been reading this thread with much interest, and finally had to weigh in. Size does matter. I've never met an experienced woman who said, "It's not the size, it's what he does with it" without rolling her eyes. That's just my personal experience. That said, it's not so much the length as the girth. Girth matters in a big way. It creates the sensation of being "filled," and a thick penis creates more friction and more pulling of the labial tissues. More pulling equals more movement of the clitoral hood, which creates more pleasure.
Zero brag here--I am very tight. I always have been, and any intercourse session begins with a bit of pain, and ends with my husband admonishing me to "let go." But I've been with a man who lacked the girth my husband has (and no, he's no porn star, he's not sporting a 2 1/2-3 inch girth), and the sensations between initial insertion and culmination of the act are seriously reduced without the girth. It just plain doesn't feel as good with a narrow penis.
'least not to me :)
Kallie
As much as I agree on account of everything else with you, you are wrong about this. It’s all individual and yes, the thickness accounts for more than length but I personally can comfortably accommodate 9 inch dildo for extended period of time – and that is fully buried inside. Makes you sit much straighter than normal but it does fit *gigles*Quote:
Originally Posted by Kallie Thomas
For me, i'm quite happy with my penis size. i'm also happy with the way my penis looks. Having been trained to fuck animals, i'm more concerned with using it to put on a good show for those watching. Also, a larger penis might have meant i wouldn't have been selected to undergo this training. Ha! i know this is funny, so feel free to laugh. i have a great sense of humor about my training and part of my performance includes amusing others as well as thrilling them.
lol..I wasn't going to argue it...but now I have back up!Quote:
Originally Posted by redEva
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Originally Posted by fetish101
ROFL, I won't argue, even though I'd put money on 7-8 inches in, and the remaining 1-2 inches in labial tissue. Otherwise, you'd have to use pliers to get the thing out ;)
It sounds delicious, either way :)
Kallie
. . . it sure is nice to be able to talk about sexual matters in a straightforward way.
When I was in college, I took an honors level course in human sexuality. The class was, unfortunately, packed with little kids who did a lot of snickering and giggling, but not a whole lot of contributing. One day, we were discussing barrier forms of birth control, specifically, the cervical cap and diaphragm. After the professor explained insertion, one little ball of fluff asked, "But . . . what do you use to get it out?" I truly thought she must be kidding, so I piped in with, "Needle nosed pliers." She asked, "Really? Doesn't that hurt?" One look at her fluffy little face and I knew she thought I was serious. I gave her a little finger-waggling wave and said, "With your fingers." Her cheeks flamed, mouth turned down, and she let out with a disgusted, "Ewwww!"
I told her that, barring a tragic rugby mishap, that vagina was going to be attached to her for the rest of her life, so she'd better get used to it.
It's nice to have a crowd that can discuss these things :)
Kallie
LOL Kallie! Crazy how someone can be scared of their own body isn't it. For my part I have been with small girls who I cannot fully enter and find it less satisfying than 'more roomy' ladies, like all bits of the body there is considerable variation between people.
My G/F is a tiny little thing, but can accomodate quite a huge dildoe and seems to enjoy it more with the bigger ones. Not so much the length, but the thickness. I do Ok on my own, but I can't compete with the "Jackhammer"! I guess that's why God invented rubber!
Oh brother! (sister ;)) Kallie, do I know what you talking about! I was back to college when I was 32, and did the same mistake of taking an ‘easy mark’ human sexuality course. You were kind to kids – I just ignored them.Quote:
Originally Posted by Kallie Thomas
Unfortunately, I had it in summer, and it is practice here (don’t know if it is same everywhere else) to split semester and have 2 teachers teach subject. First half was taught by this hunk of a guy, most attractive man I saw in long time (in his 50+). He was funny, open and at ease. Joy! Second half I did not have such luck. Bible belt belle stood in front of us and tried to explain that there are sexually deviant people that practice something vaguely known as BDSM; which they use to compensate for their early childhood and previous lived through abuse and or latent and not so latent aggression.
I was hushed out of the class by my very, very good classmate who knew I had Master at the time, and she just may have saved me that “easy mark” from becoming a fail in the subject you can not fail! :mad:
I'm one of those that size does matter.
I've met the 4.5.
Y'know, my hubbyasked me if i thought he was big. I was puzzled why he would want me to measure his cock. It came out at seven inches.
I still don't understand what it is about the size. From what I just read in the article above, there's no really safe way to enlarge the penis, so why bother? For that matter, there's no really safe way to enlarge the breasts either; waht about all those implants leaking and causing problems and stuff?
You are who you are. Accept yourself the way you are, and you'll be a happier person for it. And if your partner is the one complaining about your size, you need to find another partner. Someone who really cares about you, enough to share initmate activities with you, won't care that your cock is smaller than Joe Schlong on the TV screen.
Two words for you to remember: digital enhancement. That cock on the screen may look 14 inches long, but it could also be an extension, or it could be digitally enhanced to look longer. Did you know, some of those girls in the 'Barely Legal' type flicks actually might be way more than eighteen? Some of them are in their twenties and thirties. The producers of the videos use the same software that was developed to age up missing children so you know what they look like now, only they use it to age down the girls in those pornos. They even de-age some twenty year olds to look ten to sell kiddie porn. And it's perfectly legal.
Accept who you are. Don't try to change. While there are lots of cosmetic surgeries out there to change the way you look outside, remember, inside, you're still going to be the same person. Be happy with the person inside that skin. If your partner isn't happy with you, find another partner.
I completely agree with Tourguide that this whole topic is completely pointless and does not really need to be discussed. I just wanted to put an end to this average size argument. I am not going to join in on the what women prefer or what can fit in women side of this argument.
On another not whoever started this thread should have just done some research. it took me a whole 15 seconds to find this info on a search engine :rolleyes:
http://www.edu.uni-klu.ac.at/~amikla...k/answer19.htm
this was a study done at te Alfred C. Kinsey Institute for Sex Research
Hmmm, what a novel approach to posting...criticising a thread and then bringing it back to life by contributing to it! LOL! :DQuote:
Originally Posted by YoungBlood
i think that link was probably the sort of information the thread starter was looking for though..although a word of caution, upon doing the same 15 second search, i found the following reaearch, carried out by Durex, which gives a different answer to the age old question! (not to mention the hundreds of other surveys, all presenting slightly different findings).
http://www.pridepenis.co.uk/What_is_...of_a_penis.htm
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