Hi postkdp and :welcomebo to the forums. You came to the right place if you want to learn about this life style. Ask questions there are many knowledgeable people here who are willing to help.
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Hi postkdp and :welcomebo to the forums. You came to the right place if you want to learn about this life style. Ask questions there are many knowledgeable people here who are willing to help.
:wel postkdp...hope you'll find what you're looking for here. :)
*waves*
Hi! I'm BeautifulOblivion, please don't call me BO, I don't smell icky. ~_^
I'm a budding submissive and have just begun exploring the BDSM lifestyle with my fiance. I'm full of questions and pretty much willing to try just about anything. So far, reading through some of these forums has helped me, quite a lot. I managed to ensare my fiance in the trap of BDSM just by talking about it to him and he's really started to get into it, although we haven't experimented much as I only get to see him one weekend a month, if I'm lucky. But now that I've found this community, I'll be around for a long time!
Glad you like our cosy little home, Beautiful. :) And a big hug for the time apart from your fiance...we'll try and keep you busy. *grins*
Hello, Everyone. I'm a female submissive. I've never really experimented in the lifestyle, but I'm looking to learn and possibly find an online dominant as finding one in the real world will not work with my relationship situation.
I've always felt submissive and ready to try and please others. I'm willing to learn and be trained, I just need to find the right person to do it I suppose. :) I'm a bit of a masochist.
I also think I might be a bit of a switch, but I haven't determined that yet because I do have random bouts of dominating tendencies.
Good luck to me and I hope that I learn as much as I want to in this lovely community.
Hi, I'm Radiant, and i am looking for a master to please.
Hello to all of you that are searching for
the completeness of this realtionship between
Master and submissive.
Warm wishes to each of you that you find
your heart within that someone you give the
gift of yourself to. :wave:
Hello everyone,
I came across this site while looking for new things to "spark" my marriage. Since my first visit here, my Dom and I have discovered many new and wonderful things about each other, as well as ways to enhance our lifestyle.
While I have always known that I was submissive, I never realized how deeply it ran, nor was I aware of the many ways to express my submissive side. The information provided here has given me the ability to explore and discover all these things, and has had a very positive impact on my life.
I am deeply appreciative to all those here who have made me feel welcome and have shared their insights and knowledge with me.
*smiles* I still remember you first steps here...SO glad you found that spark of inspiration and that we all could play a little part in that. I hope you continue to share how things are going for you and your husband. :)
Thanks. It feels as though this has become my second home and many of you have become family. I know that should I ever have a question or need to vent, I am able to do so here without judgement or criticism.
Hello. I thought I would officially introduce myself. I'm a female sub to my master/husband. we've been growing together in bdsm for a long time and have officially moved into a 24/7 ds relationship. we are both still learning, but it's been a lot of fun and I can't wait to see where it goes. I love that this forum is here!
Hi everyone, I go by the name "perfection", which is what Master gave to me. I wanted to say something here so I can begin making friends. I have a year and a half r/t exp. as a sub/slave. I have a Master and we are in a LDR at the time. I have been divorced twice, it took me that long to admit that I was a submissive and to follow that path. I enjoy learning new things and like talking to others who are doing the same. So I look forward to hearing from some of you soon.:ty
Hi perfection and hotfirefly Welcome.
MrDom
hello E/everyone....
i introduced myself in the general introductions thread, but saw this and figured i should introduce myself here as well.....
i am kate. i am a bisexual submissive. i've been into the online bdsm world for over a year now but only rl training for almost two months. i'm a big painslut and a bit of a brat.
umm ok *giggles* there i am in a jar :D
If your name was Ashley, you'd be me!Quote:
Originally Posted by Psynymph
Hi I'm ljd. quite new at all this. my partner and i have been bringing more master / sub and bdsm into our lives. I really enjoy being a sub. allowing him to control me and instruct me on what he wants it really turns me on. If anyone has any tips on how to encourage him to take on this role more and tips on different things to try they would be much appreciated.;whip
Oy, can't believe I haven't posted in here yet. I'm Uzukasai which is a slang japanese term for a controlled fire. I'm an 18 year old male sub, but I don't mind switching either. I am extremely new to the BDSM world and have had absolutley no experience in real life, although back in the states I was pussy-whipped by most of my girlfriends. :32:
*shrugs*...thats about it.
Awww darknight i wanna take you home and make you cry.......:D *giggles and blushes*
Uzukasai thats absolutely the most beautiful name i've ever stumbled across.....i love it!
welcome to our community!!!!
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Originally Posted by Psynymph
Me too!
Aw..thank you very much. :)Quote:
Originally Posted by Psynymph
Charlie Brown 169 says I know more now than I did 5 minutes ago. I am new to this, I followed my girl friend in who is a sub. I am a dom but don't know how to be a dom. Don't know what questions to ask when meeting a new sub or mature sub. Would like to learn. Don't know difference betwen sir and master.
So...you followed your girlfriend here...congrats to her for taking the initative.
Have you introduced yourself in the intro thread? If not may I suggest that you do that...I feel a Dom may get lost introducting himself in the Submissive/Slave intro thread.
You say you are a Dom, but don't know how to be one. ~giggles~ from a submissive's observation...you are not alone. However, as I am hardly knowledgeable enough to guide you in the right direction, i will leave it to the more proficient and experienced.
We here are a friendly and helpful group. There is a wealth of information on this site...you will learn, as we all do, by gathering information and asking questions. Keep that which applies to you and disgard that which does not.
But most importantly, while on your new journey, remember to have fun..
dzire2pleez thanks for your comments. I didn't know I was in Submissive slave. Pretty new and unfamiliar here. Thanks again
~smiles~ you are more than welcome....i am glad you found the right thread now and are getting helpful responses...it was good seeing you in chat as well...have fun
I thought I had posted here but since I haven't I will now.
I am Smoke's-Slut, I am a 48 year old female who has been submissive as long as I can remember. I have had a little exposure to BDSM in my past and always craved to experience more. I am in training and my Sir has been helping me to find the things I enjoy and give him pleasure. I look forward to finding new things to try and pushing my limits as I further my training. I enjoy this forum alot everyone is very friendly and helpful.
It would seem that I've been floating around the forums without ever posting any of my information here. I thought I had...:32:
Anyway...I'm a female submissive; I suppose I have been all of my life. I just managed to "deny, deny, deny", because then it meant I wouldn't be the good little girl everyone expected me to be. I guess about two months ago I realized just how much I really did need to be dominated. And how much I enjoyed it, once I stopped denying that part of me, when I was dominated.
The interesting part was bringing this up to my husband. Once I did, he made it quite clear that he wanted to be my Sir. *skips around the room happily* And to that extent, he's been willing to learn how to be the best dom I could ever hope to have (of course, it helps that he was a drill instructor in the military!). And a bit of a brag on him, he's got a hell of an arm when he paddles me for being a brat. :p Sir gave me my collar on his birthday - and what a present I gave him in return! *leer*
Being here has been one of the most supportive, caring experiences in my life. I'm so glad I found the forums. I feel like an entirely new, completely whole person - finally. :wave:
It is great to find out this about you. You are very lucky to have Sir, he sounds like a great husband. Now I will have a little to say about you and your spankings, maybe.
Hello my name is angie. I have been serving my mistress for 5 years now, we met in college. I have had 2 mistresses in my life including my current mistress. The first was a cheerleader in high school. Funny that the current one was also a cheerleader. She wants me to study up on how to serve her better. So I am learning here at the forum. Your posts have given me great ideas. Thanks.
Welcome Angie, I'm sure you'll come away happy...
I am a lactate on demand slutty sub in Toledo, Ohio who has always needed domination, discipline and humiliation by my partner(s). I find the mixture of some moderate pain with pleasure irresistible. I have been hooked on receiving such pleasureable pain from a man, woman or couple at early age. Not into anything truly harm causing.
I can lactate on demand when I'm in a LTR with the right man, woman or couple and my breasts are constantly being sucked and stimulated. I love to be milked hard, clamped, sucked, slapped, stretched and pinched on my ample nipples, spankings, being bound or handcuffed and humiliated.
I find things like being spanked, nipple clamps, nipple weights, butt plugs, dildos, being forced to give a masturbation exhibition, having someone watch me being disciplined by my partner, restraints, spankings, and being forced to perform oral and anal sex highly erotic. I am bisexual and love performing with another woman while someone watches or participates.
Hope this is not information overload, but at 49 years of age, this is where I've been at for 33 of them. Many dom/dommes have come and gone. On the prowl for a new one and not having much luck as I lead a fairly busy life both professionally and personally. But it's something I NEED to feel complete. Anyone else ever feel that way? It's not just a preference, it's something that is as important as food or water.
Um, hello.
I'm 20 years old living with my Dom as eventual husband. We've been together for almost tow years. It seems I've finally found a place I can post and talk freely without people being utterly ashamed or embarrassed.
Taboo nowadays, oy.
Our relationship is more the MENTAL part of d/s than physical. In all honesty, I'm not fond of pain. I need a long build up to be tolerant of pain. I'm more into bondage than anything else. I like the concept that I can be restrainted but go completely wild all at the same time. It's great feeling. So far, it has not occured much.
Believe it or not, I was raised as a sub, but I think not intentionally. My sister raised me and, well, she's the oldest and acted like it since I can remember. I'm the youngest so I guess it's a natural occurence.
I'm not sure...fuck..Dom calling. Later.
-smiles softly-
hello, everyone. i'm a 20 year old female submissive. i've been into BDSM off and on for about 3 years but i still have no r/t exp. yet, anyways.
Welcome aiteag *smiles* Don't hesitate to ask if you have any questions :)
Hello. I am new to the scene. This is my first Master and Pet relationship. My Master and I have had a few bumps in the road and a rocky start the first few weeks. But we are doing really good. WE went through several websites and books before I considered becoming his Pet. I was wondering if any of you have good advice on how to stay in submissive mode and being able to talk the way your Master wants.Thanks and I look forward to talking to you again soon.
I don't think I really stay in submissive mode. My life doesn't really let me continually stay there even if I did want to. My Dom usually has a trigger that helps me get there quickly, whether a look, a word, or a command it all helps to bring me back to submission.Quote:
I was wondering if any of you have good advice on how to stay in submissive mode
I think for me this would take alot of practice and patience. All Doms are different so this is subjective to the person....each would have a preferance how to speak or display us.Quote:
being able to talk the way your Master wants
Tae'lyn
Hello,
My name is echoes, I am a 42 year old female submissive and I have been in one relationship with a Master/slave which lasted a year…giving such an opportunity to observe as well as participate and learn.
This Dominant said I showed strong slave tendencies to which I am not quite sure what was meant by this.
I have been away from BDSM for 2 years since but this summer when the children went away I began a project of making various floggers (they are not the best but it felt good making these and feeling their caress on my skin as I tried each out) and bought some nipple clamps on chains (broke them shortly afterwards ) so i ordered a collar with an O ring and chains and clamps on it…I dream of being teased and tortured mercilessly, yet knowingly and lovingly…am I a masochist? I am not sure yet but hope to find out.
I bought ropes of assorted sizes, chains, hooks, looking at how to make a few more things…yet I do not think I am brave enough for self-bondage, I would probably get caught up and stuck! Oh heck I am already stuck!
I look forward to learning as I read through the forums and participate as I learn more.
Hi There!! My name is sonja and Bigg.Dogg is my Master. He and i are happily married and have used the Master/slave role often when in the bedroom. W/we have recently decided to kick it up a notch. He wants to leash me for 24/7. i am looking forward to this new adventure with Him since W/we have only begun recently to bring it into our everyday routines. i need all the help i can get in pleasing Him my Master completley. Thank you to A/all who can offer any help and answer any questions that i know i will have.
Hello :)
My name is cindy and I'm a submissive. I have strong feelings that I would like to be a slave, but I also really want to be a professor of chemistry in a university. I don't understand how this one thing in my life can fit in with my unshakeable desire to serve someone completely. I've often thought of finding a Master with the hopes of having a highly educated and successful slave, but I'm not sure if that really exists....although, I have to admit my experiences with Masters are very slim. I've met one in person, who obviously only wanted to meet me for a night of sex. He ignored me after that... :( I've read a lot of warnings and cautions online to watch out for liars and bad people....so I really don't know where to turn.
How did you subs or slaves find your Doms or Masters?
Welcome seriously... no seriously, Welcome..... :rolleyes:Quote:
Originally Posted by seriouslynosn
There are some threads in "Questions for a Submissive" and elsewhere where you might find some answers to your question.
Hello. I'm 34 and have only recently begun reading and exploring BDSM. Briefly, a friend's article inspired me to read more and I saw myself in the articles about subs.
My marriage has had its share of ups and downs and I love my husband dearly. Many of the downs have been in our sex life. I do not want to have an affair, I've already decided that. I have made friends online, not many, just a few. My sexuality blossomed, mainly with those with substance. I am in charge of everything in my life, including the bedroom. I'm simply worn out. I love to give pleasure and meet the other's needs; I am near tears at the thought of satisfying someone so completely; it isn't reciprocated. It's not that DH doesn't want to, he's just not capable. (long story)
Excuse me, that was very blunt, but I could have been a lot worse. I look forward to talking to y'all.
ETA:
Two men I've enjoyed friendship and cybering with prefer a female top. They're sweet as can be and very enjoyable, but leaves me in charge yet again. I started exploring submission with a close long-term friend online. My first experience with truly being a sub and he tells me (at a very bad time, in a very confusing way) he would rather I was his peer and equal. He wants someone more frequent. Ouch. I totally understand but I was naturally disappointed. No sub wants to hear "not good enough". Off to a slow start.