Thank you all for the nice initial hellos.
Greetings
Jessica :wave:
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Thank you all for the nice initial hellos.
Greetings
Jessica :wave:
hi everybody
any would notice a humble newcomer slave ?
Welcome, slave for any- thanks for saying hi.
Hope you enjoy the place- feel free to tell us about yourself.
Feel free to ask questions as well. :wel
Tojo
Howdy slave for any. Welcome and enjoy. :welQuote:
Originally Posted by slave for any
Hi people. :)
Im new to the scene and just looking for like minded friends.
Hi seababy - I'm new here too and from your side of the world :wel
:welcomebo SeababyQuote:
Originally Posted by Seababy
I'm sure you will find many like minded people here. Enjoy yourself
hi to all people here
:welcomebo Hello to you too naked male slave...hope you enjoy
I am a 27 year old married female...I have discoverd BDSM quite by accident My partner at this time has no interest in the world of BSDM. I wont go into details as I would like to respect the privacy of all involved...So far all my experiences have been online only. And I have only been involved in play with others for a few months. However, looking into my past, I have been showing tendencies for years. I am so eager to learn more. I believe i am a Switch...but my tendencies are more submissive. i still have so much to learn! I hope to talk to you all soon and to make some great friends on this new journey.
Isa
Hi & welcome Isa, thanks for telling us about yourself- you're not the only one with a straight partner who enjoys the internet! That's mostly how I get my kicks.
Hope you enjoy yourself here. Ask away...:wel
Tojo
I am new here as well Miss Jessica, but wished to extend a hearty welcome. Hope you enjoy.
Welcome to you Slave for Any. I'm quite new myself but the people here seem pleasant.
Isa...welcome. Thanks for sharing a little about you. Good to have you here.
G'day Seababy and welcome aboard.
Hello and welcome smackers! Are you from Australia as well?
And a warm welcome to naked male slave! Yes, I do feel a bit embarassed about five straight posts but I did not wish you to miss any of the new arrivals. ::smile
:welcomebo Isa...hope you enjoy and find what you are looking for.
Nope, it's all good that you've jumped right in.Quote:
Originally Posted by novus56
also...
Welcome Isa :rose:
Thanks for all the warm welcomes everyone
Isa
hi ever body
Hi.
I'm new here. Been looking around on treads for some hours now and finding lots of interesting tips :) I'm a sub just started my training and learning to find my bounderies. I feel I really have found something that I didn't know I was missing but now will not live without.
I'm also a young scandinavian who works in a clothes shop and likes to write short stories on my spare time. Thank you for forums like this where curious people who are eager to learn can ask question and read others :)
Najasim
:welcomebo Welcome naked male slave and Najasim Hope you enjoy yourselves here and find the answers you need. Don't be shy about posting your questions.
subwife
Howdy folks and welcome to the library. If you need any help just give me a holler.:wel
Thanks.
And I wont be shy :)
Najasim
Hello to all :-)
Im very new to this, but I hope that I do this the right way. Im a male (41), live in Scandinavia and Im an online Master. I dont really know how I ended up being one, it just seemed right for me. Im unsure about it all, but I try to catch up with knowledge. Im doing it online because I have these urges to be in control. Im not seeking it in real life, its more in a "mind-way". Ive found out that I enjoy planning daring situations for my sub. I take great care in how she is to perfom certain things. Its fun planning events because I know that Im leading her way and I decides what she will encounter. Do I make sense? I feel pretty alone about it all. Its not sexual to me. I dont feel like playing with myself, when Im having her doing things. My pleasure is it get inside her mind, finding out what buttons to push in wich order to do it. When shes exited about what I plan for her, then Im too. Im not that into punishment, but she is. Therefore I have tried to find tricks and ideas for her to punish herself. Its not that easy. Im mostly here to aks for ideas and to learn from the wise :-)
Master Blue
I forgot...
I know that Im not a Master-Master. I know that many people believes that your a dom at first and then progressing to be a Master due the experiences. I know that Im new, I know that I dont know a thing. But I do know that the word Dom makes no meaning to me. Ive given myself the "Master"title in my name to remember that great power inflicts great responsebilities. When I know my "name", I know my responsebilities.
Luckily me and my sub knows its a game of ours and no one is searching for love and commitment.
:welcomebo Master Blue....Search the Forum My BDSM Life, you'll find lots of interesting ideas. Search Knowledge Base Forum and you'll find that a lot of your questions might be answered through there. If you can't find the answer or have a question about an idea feel free to post and you will have plenty who will be willing to give advice.
Good Luck
subwife
Howdy and welcome to the forums! I wouldn't worry about the title. You like master so go with it. BDSM is what you make it, not what everybody else tells you it should be.:welQuote:
Originally Posted by Master Blue
Lovely, friendly site.
Am a naughty little subbie who's lost her dominant other and badly needs to be taken in hand.
Am English, but hop between UK and New Zealand with alarming regularity. No probs with UK (always looking for new friends though), but scene sadly lacking in NZ. If anyone can point me in the right direction in the Christchurch area it'd be much appreciated.
Love n kisses to you all.
Welcome Master Blue,Quote:
Originally Posted by Master Blue
I am also an online Dom, but have had r/l experiences for many years. Without going into details, at this stage in my life I am happy to satisfy my eeerrrr domlyness, online.
I agree with you wholeheartedly that the fun of online is getting into someones head. It is far more a mental game than a physical. We, of course do use some physical activities in our play, but to me they are simply the tools used to help achieve the mindset, and the specific activities are not important in themselves.
To get ideas though, I recommend you go through a 'BDSM Limits Check List" (Note to the Mods: Do you have one posted here?) and discuss them together. Of course there will be many activities that are either impractical or unsafe to do in an internet relationship, but you will be surprised how many things that are in the list that you can use. Some will be a "I'm not sure how I would respond to this - but I'm prepared to try". And unless its an activity that is a complete turnoff for me (eg. scat), I will be happy to use it if it achieves the desired mindset in the subbie.
From the list you will now have activities that fall into a range of 'hate it' thru to 'love it'. The ones that tend to be on the more 'hate it' sort of scale are what you consider for the punishments - and hopefully you will find some there that you won't mind administering:)
Since this is the welcome thread, it would probably be better to continue it in 'Knowledge Base' if you would like to continue the discussion.
Brosco
It's on my to-do list Brosco. lolQuote:
Originally Posted by Brosco
Hello everyone, I'm glad this place exists!
Let me start with (what I perceive to be) the negatives, and move on to the positives (again, as *I* see them), and then into grey areas and questions.
I am 51, some might think that's too old to begin discovering bdsm. I am also overweight, but it's nicely distributed, I think. I am on the quiet side, and I think a lot, and I plan things...I rarely act on impulse alone.
I have lived all my life in southern CA, but I'm moving to England in September to study for a career change. I'll see if I want to live the rest of my life there. My family is here and I love them, but America sucks. I'm saying that now cos I could NEVER fuck a Republican.
Over the past 4+ years I've developed a relationship with a man in England (C). It started vanilla, and to please me he has indulged my submissive side and brought out his dominant side. We are close, but he's married, and I'm 99% certain he'll never leave his wife.
I want a life partner who is very open to sexual experiences and will grow and explore with me, but because he won't leave his wife I don't see how it can be him. I hope that thru this introduction I might meet some friendly personalities who understand what it's like to want to be submissive to a creative, fun-loving, kind, confident and filthy man. I also hope to understand myself better, too! My expectations might be naive.
Is this the right place to talk about themes and activities I enjoy? Or are there other threads for that? I haven't browsed around a lot yet. I'll just say that I like men and women, with a slight preference for men when we're one-on-one. When I'm with a couple, I prefer to play mostly with the other woman. My sister is gay, but I don't think I am, in spite of never lasting for more than 7-8 years with any one man.
As far as bdsm experiences, I've talked on the phone with a two men, and on line with several others, but I never hooked up with anyone because I thought C and I were "it". Do people in the lifestyle usually have a steady partner, or is there a lot of getting together just for the sexual experience? I have a lot to learn! I want a long-term partner who relishes filthy sex, but I'm not sure how to get there.
That's it for tonite.
:welcomebo usUKgirl....Welcome to the forums. If you want to find a Dom post a personal in the personals, I'm sure there are plenty that would be willing to help you explore. I hope you find what you need.
Again Welcome to the Library.
Lol. I would. God knows they keep fucking me. Welcome to the forums!:welQuote:
Originally Posted by usUKgirl
The knowledge base is probably a good place to start. If you have any questions feel free to contact me.
Welcome to the forums.:welQuote:
Originally Posted by fiftytimes
Hello Ladies and Gentlemen,
I am very new to this, so if I offend anyone, I'm sorry. I am exploring a new lifestyle. Still very much in the closet and mostly on the internet. Dressing up in women's underwear has turned me on since I played dress up for the first time as a young child. The feel of women's clothes against my skin, the way pantyhose constrict my flesh, the humiliation of being caught, the desire to submit to the whelms of a Dom. As for the pain, that is relatively new, within 2-3 years, I adore the sting of a crop against my skin and the bite of clamps and clothes pins on my tender flesh. I long to be forced to accept and service a Dom. I open my holes and offer my flesh to all.
Sissy
Quote:
Originally Posted by ssissyboy
Welcome Sissyboy......I love the crop too. The clamps are just absolutely wonderful as well. Hope you enjoy the forums. :welcomebo
Hi all,
I'm a 29 yr old male switch, and I've been into bdsm ever since my early teens. I'm finally looking to meet more people with the same interest, for talking, hanging out, and possibly playing. I'm looking forward to participating in the forums, and get to know you all better.
ttyl,
bklnswitch.
:welcomebo brklnswitch, hope you enjoy the forums.