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That chastity belts have always been very intriguing to me, I love the idea of being teased and denied. For the right dominant I would love to wear a chastity belt for him,it seems amazing:) I have had a question, awhile ago I found a forum on another site for chastity devices and I lost it. Does anyone know any good forums for chastity? I am just curious,lol
*smile* i tried some, had leather one - but none of those fancy unyielding metal ones.Quote:
Originally Posted by socyologyst
Thank you for offer, Sir, but it will take one very special one to put me under the key!
LA for you :
- Altar Boy - the most famous one
Tolyboy
Chastity UK
other than that ... Google it :)
Thank you, glad to have them around;)
You only wore it for 30hrs. I love the idea of putting slaves in chastiy belts, and thouse with plugs is even better. And if and when Ido finly find a slave yes she wil be required to ware one when I am not present, or even when I am present but want her to be locked up. Don.
hehe ... i’m not sure i can figure out how did You mean it when you said:
Do You consider that to be long or short? Yes – the plugs are added bonus or course – as You wish to classify it. But, i really enjoy the image of pure cold metal threaded straight through the flesh (Corrie Russell) , much more appealing and arousing. It is so much more personal and intimate.Quote:
Originally Posted by allalone46
Piercing flesh, taking care to heal it – and going through not so pleasant process of stretching holes to fit the padlock rod! So much preparation and effort – just so that person ends up being locked and denied capability of reaching release without permission from the Key Holder!
Since i do have 4 piercings on my inner labia (2 on each) i have tried and wore small and regular padlock for some period of time, threaded through the rings and left hanging, and swinging (conveniently) between my legs – as i was not allowed panties at that times. It was interesting experience, because even thought i am not so tightly closed as lady on the picture – i am quite incapable of reaching orgasm while locked like that. Having padlock constantly tugging and swinging serves only to further arouse me – and although i can touch – only result is frustration.
If the purpose is to prevent masturbation or sexual thoughts – it failed 100%.
My only thoughts during that period of time were … indecent!
My girl friend bought one for me as she thought I was not attentive to her needs. She feels it changes my attitude for the better?:
Dear Sirs and Madames,
Although I have a gates of hell, I do not have experience with other CB, can someone recomend one for long wear for a male sissy?
I humbly thank you
Sissy
I must be a total wuss, this stuff looks to painful for me :(
Ms Heather,
For me pain given to me by a master or mistress is the most wondeful gift I can imagine. I don't think that it is a question of being a wuss, rather I believe that it is a question of perception. Attention being lavished on a person is often lacking in this world. And because of that I think that people (myself included) long for any type of sensation.
Sissy
why hello :)
lol this is my first introduction to chastity belts. Interesting....
If you want a view about a CB for a male I can give you my experiences. I too have a great fetish for them. I love wearing them.
I have owned two such devices. One was a stainless steel belt that was made to my specific dimensions. It was secure and felt great as long as I was standing. It put a lot of pressure on the waist and pelvis if I didn't sit in an up right position. It definitely put the cock out of reach but I could have never worn it 24/7 - 365. It just wasn't that comfortable.
I could, however, once I got a hard on still cum with it on by moving the device forward and backward using the waist belt as leverage. The tube itself would massage my cock and the next thing I knew I came. So its design has a little flaw in that respect. For me CB restraint is mostly in the mind and in that respect it served its purpose for not allowing me to touch my cock during masturbation. The stainless steel devise did allow for other forms of pleasure. It was capable of being wired to an electrically unit which would punish whatever part of the lower anatomy you wanted. You could have it shock the cock or you could purchase an anal plug manufactured for the purpose of shocking your colon. That was kind of fun but I got rid of the devise and all its accessories.
Today I own a CB3000 which is a totally different design and a whole hell of a lot more comfortable. I know if I wanted, I could wear it 24/7 - 365. However, with it locked securely in place, I again was able to achieve orgasm by grabbing the tube and moving it forward and back. Even though again there is no way to touch my cock I still was able to cum. Now the rest of the story.
Luckily when I ordered the CB I also ordered what is called the Points of Intrigue with it. They were designed so that it would make it impossible to removed the devise without first unlocking it. I don't have that problem. It stays securely in place until unlocked by me.
I decided to test the Points out for another use - to stop masturbation. Well I tried the longest Points first and when I got a hard on it was such excruciating pain that I had to immediately focus on something non-erotic in order to get relief from this pain, which almost literally took my breath away and not in a good way.
I then tried the mid-length Points and again when I got hard it bent me over and I dropped to me knees in pain. I am now wearing the shortest length of the Points and it still applies enough pain that there is no way in hell I can achieve orgasm by CB manipulation with the Points in place. It is just too painful but at least the CB now does it total job - prevents touch and orgasm by masturbation. I love it and I only use it for self denial because my wife isn't interested in this type of life. Would love it if she would actually control the key.
I should mention that both devises forced me to sit down to piss. A little humiliating but part of the turn on of wearing a CB.
My thoughts, thanks for listening. I'm glad I found this site. I don't feel so out of place here. It's nice to have a place to converse about such subjects and feelings.
When I first entered my relationship with my boyfriend I was not experienced in any area of bdsm. After a while he introduced certain areas of bdsm to me especially restraint. He forced me to wear a chastity belt for two weeks and it was painful especially since I had never worn one before. It was frustrating, painful, and humiliating. I eventually became used to it. Eventually I was able to wear one for a month. It was still sometimes painful and humiliating but I learned to enjoy it sometimes.
I really wonder how you manage to wear a chastity device for such a long period.Quote:
Originally Posted by kamuishima
I remember being introduced to the topic by someone I met online a while ago and he was into chastity belts big time, showed me sites on the web to check out, etc. Even though I find the thought really intriguing, I have serious doubts about hygene issues and about just how much of a change in day to day routine this would bring to me...like going to the gym, sauna, swimming, beach... I mean, if you don't happen to have a huge kink for public humiliation, it does get difficult, doesn't it?
Sorry if anything like this has been up in this thread before (I didn't check), but I'd really like to learn more about the practical side of extended wear of chastity devices. How do you cope?
*curious*
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Originally Posted by Silke
Silke,
Not knowing which CB you're talking about - male or female, I will try to answer it from a male's perspective.
The CB I just purchased a week or so ago is the CB3000 as I stated in my post above. I have also owned a stainless steel fitted one from NeoSteel. Though the stainless one was a perfect fit for me the hygiene was a problem. I mean I could take a shower sprayer or a hose and force water down the inside of the penis tube but I never really felt clean and it was very difficult to do anything in except standing or sitting in an almost upright posture. Otherwise it hurt the hip bones and put pressure on the pelvic bone. If you bent over, it hurt the waist. They are fitted very tightly around the waist for security reasons. They tell you to lay flat on you back, suck you stomach in, and then bring the three parts together so it can be locked securely in place. This sometimes takes somewhat of an effort to accomplish. I could sleep in it but it made getting out of bed difficult. On a scale of 1 to 10 I would have to give it a 4 for comfort. Driving is very uncomfortable with it lock in place.
If you want to stop yourself from masturbating by directly touching your cock, it certainly will do that.
As much as they claim that it doesn't show under ordinary clothing it just isn't so. The CB locks at the top of the stainless steel belt that goes around your waist above the hip bones and also has another lock that locks the penis tube in place. Outlines of both locks as well as the waist belt are often visible under clothing. It would be embarrassing to wear in public.
You have to sit to pee and without the optional bar that runs between your ass cheeks (which is designed to hold a butt plug in place) it isn't difficult to have a bowel movement. With the optional bar it would be incredibly messy, to say the least. Talk about bad hygiene.
I for one could never wear this devise 24/7 - 365 and I don't believe anyone else could either. They are that uncomfortable after awhile. They are great for bondage games and short term lock up. Plus your hands could be locked directly to the waist belt. Believe me you ain't getting loose from that lock up.
Now first let me say I am not a salesman for my new CB but it is absolutely great. If I had to, I could wear it 24/7 - 365 with just a little getting used to. Hygiene would be enormously better in this model because it has many slots for "air" but they can also be used to spray ones self off. I have actually squeezed a wash rag into the penis tube for better cleansing. You could lather up and let the soap run down inside the CB, spray it off and you would be very clean. Of course, it still would be better to shower with it off but an adequate job can be done with it locked in place. If you are uncircumcised you would not be able to peel the foreskin back to wash. There is no way to touch your penis with your hands.
It is small and compact but along with a the optional Points of Intrigue it really does the job. They say some people don't need the Points of Intrigue but I needed them, as I stated in my first post on this subject. You still are forced to sit to pee which could be embarrassing if your buddies ever wondered why you always had to sit down to piss anymore.
As far as wearing it under ordinary clothing, I believe that could be accomplished very easily. It just makes your package protrude slightly more that it ordinarily does. The lock is in a position that it does not show through clothing. Sometimes with lose clothing on you can hear the lock click against the penis tube but it is not a metallic click because of the material the CB is made from.
If you really wanted to wear it under a swim suit it would have to be a suit that resembles boxer shorts then you would probably be safe. It is made entirely out of plastic, or some composite, except for the lock. They do have plastic locks that are serialized so if you did have a key holder they would be able to tell if you cut one of the plastic locks off. They are about 1/3 the price of the stainless models. Google CB3000. It will lead you to other models they carry also.
Hope this helps.
Warbaby1943
Hey, thanks for that, Warbaby :)
While I'm ultimately looking for input on female chastity devices I think that a lot of the principles and problems are probably the same. Like, when you talk about your problems with hygene I guess something similar might be happening with chastity belts for women. So, thank you for describing your experiences, it's much appreciated. :)
I guess, I too wouldn't want to wear one of those for an extended amount of time, but it's an intriguing thought still and always nice to learn something new. A lot of the things I've tried BDSM wise were initially something I couldn't really see happening mostly out of fears of something going wrong. And the more I learn through research, talking to experienced lifestylers or especially here on this site, the more open I find myself become open to new ideas. That's why I keep asking questions, try to find out how others deal with certain situations or kinds of play. Thank you so much for sharing!
Silke,
You're welcome and I apologize because I haven't been here very long and I couldn't tell from your handle what sex you are. Now I know since you're interested in female CBs.
Also I took note of where you are located. You're lucky because NeoSteel is located in Germany and that is where I purchased my stainless steel CB. They are very professional and I would recommend them if you want to try a stainless steel belt. They do nice work and their product looks great which adds to the moment. You can get all sorts of accessories to make wearing the CB even more intriguing and pleasurable. Believe me, once you're locked into one of those devises, you are not getting out until the key is used. I think I mentioned earlier that you could even have your hands locked to the sides of the belt.
No need for apologies, it's an unusual name and I keep forgetting that the Forums don't show what sex we are as does the Academy. ;)
And yes, I've checked out NeoSteel before and their devices look just beautiful. For shorter periods I'd love to try it out at some stage. But there's a few reasons why I can't/won't do that at the moment. The first one is that their products are really expensive and being a student doesn't help with that regard. And the second more important reason is that I don't have a r/l partner to make it work. How much fun is there if you own the key yourself? I suppose I could try it with my online Mentor/Master/Partner (jeez, this still is so confusing *grins*) but then it would only depend on my own willingness to comply with his wishes. Take this a step further, and we might as well stick with his no-touching-outside-of-playtime-rule. ;)
A long term wear is more of a general curiosity on my part, I'm not sure I'd really want this to happen. Dammit, I couldn't even cheat then! ;) Really, one of the hot things that even work in an online dynamic is the mental aspect of having all the means to cheat, to touch, to move...but because of what is asked of me - resist those temptations. I love it! *grins*
But that thought of having my hands locked to the device...mmhh...hot! :D
Silke,Quote:
Originally Posted by Silke
You are correct they are very expensive but as you know, they sell a self measuring kit so it is really easy to place an order. You do not have to make an in person visit, which I could never have done.
It isn't as much fun having ownership of the key as it would be if someone else controlled it. On the other hand, is isn't all that bad either. For instance, I wear mine all the time when I'm on line like this and mine is fixed up now that I could never achieve an orgasm with it in place because it is just too painful. Not sure if that could be accomplished with a lady's CB.
Don't go to the bank on this next statement but I'm betting you could still cheat with it locked in place. The mind helps out a lot here. Once you become aroused probably the slightest movement of the devise in that area could push you over the edge and that is with nothing locked in place in the vagina. Think about a plug locked in there and I'm certain orgasm could be achieved. I believe you could cheat the female CB but I really have no way of knowing for sure.
Having one's hands locked to the belt is a very erotic thought and a very sexy picture in the mind's eye. Think about it, you could move around freely but you couldn't drink a glass of water or even scratch your nose. That is a lot of control you would lose. Sounds good though, doesn't it?
hi .. i have always wanted to use these devices on my girl but only during our play time .. perhaps even before we get started ..
Jim,Quote:
Originally Posted by jim
I think if all are in agreement, it will only serve to enhance your pleasure with each other.
Yup, works for me! :D Thanks for all that valuable information, Warbaby! It's much appreciated and truely an inspiration. :)Quote:
Having one's hands locked to the belt is a very erotic thought and a very sexy picture in the mind's eye. Think about it, you could move around freely but you couldn't drink a glass of water or even scratch your nose. That is a lot of control you would lose. Sounds good though, doesn't it?
Silke,Quote:
Originally Posted by Silke
You're very welcome. I'm just glad I was able to contribute something to this forum and this thread in particular.
My old master was very into chastity belts. He liked this one particular belt that enclosed the entire pelvic region. It also had a two dildos, one for the cunt and one for the ass. The longest he made me wear it was for the weekend. It would become very uncomfortable but I usually was forced to wear it as a punishment. When we went out in public I was usually foced to wear it as well. It didn't really show underneath my clothes but sometimes it was a hassle. During the times I had to urinate he would make me perform acts in order for him to unlock. So chastity belts are not always a blessing.
If you were so inclined could you have reached your self enough and masturbated with the belt on? I'm think with the dildos in place you may have been able to get enough movement out of the belt to achieve orgasm. But I'm curious, with them not in place could you have made yourself cum with the CB on? I've always been curious about just how effective a female chastity actually is.:confused:Quote:
Originally Posted by Misato36
I didn't try anything involving masturbation because I did not want to be punished. My master didn't want me to enjoy myself so I didn't. It made me frustrated like hell but I did as he said.Quote:
Originally Posted by Warbaby1943
As well you should ---it makes it all the sweeter when you finally have permission to cum :bondage:Quote:
Originally Posted by Misato36