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Hey Avarice, I'm glad that you finally decided to stay with us...:wave:
lol, I love that! *big grin* How can you accidentally become attracted to someone's dick, I wonder? :DQuote:
he didn't TURN me from lesbianism, I just ACCIDENTALLY became attracted to his dick... and him
Good to know you like the company here - we are a friendly bunch! See you around, Avarice! :)
I joined awhile ago because my Dom sent me the link. He really liked the intelligent post that dealt with issues of D/s on here. I'm a message board junkie and believe you can't have too many. Plus, this happens to cover many of my favorite topics. ;whip :erotic3: :gag: :pd
I came upon this site quite by accident. I signed up more out of curiosity than anything else. At the time I was struggling with a personal question in my life dealing with BDSM tendencies. I decided "what the hell, no one knows me here so I'll be as honest as I can and ask a question." Well it was mentally easier to post a question than I thought it would be.
What keeps me coming back is the honesty in replies and the ease at which other members have in making me feel welcome. They are friendly people and, I believe, sincerely want to help out. They have not made me feel self-conscious about anything and I appreciate that. Another reason is I find I certainly am not alone in some of the feelings, desires, emotions, and problems I have because of my interest in BDSM.
Had I had a friend whom I could have sat down with and discussed my issues with I probably would not have stumbled upon this site. I'm glad I did and I plan to use it as often as I can.
Thanks for having it available.
Welcome Warbaby....we try to provide a welcoming atmophere. Hope you enjoy.
hi, my name is Bob. Recently i met a woman online into BSDM, need some tips to make her happy, during cyber-sex also want to meet other women onlinev to share with.bobm14220@ yahoo.com.
Howdy Bob and welcome to the forums. We have lots of information here and a personals section to help you find that special person. :wel
Hi there, Bob and :wel to the forums! I'm sure you'll find some interesting people here...and LOTS of information on what makes a woman happy. :D
Enjoy!
:wel: Bob...hope you enjoy yourself here. I am sure you will find lots of info...if you have questions don't be afraid to ask. There are plenty of people here willing to give advice.
I'm new to all of this. My husband and I have been "playing in the shallows" of bdsm for a while now - most of our relationship actually and I'm interested to know how other subs feel, are treated, and how they keep their self-esteem.
Hiya azurite and :wel to the forums! :)
Interesting questions you have...I'm looking forward to the discussion already.
:wel: Hope you enjoy the forums. If you want to know some experiences or know what some of subs do, act, or feel please pose the question...either in Knowledge Base or My BDSM Life. Just let us know exactly what you want to know and some of us would love to share.
Subwife
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Originally Posted by azurite
Simply enough, to learn. And I was one of your one-day wonders that you described, mainly life became extraordinarily hectic, even for me. But I'm back now! :284:
Mainly I am here to learn, as while not confused, I know very little about the mechanics of BDSM.
So I guess this would be the proper hello!
:welcomebo Ilfyr, glad you came back. If you have any questions feel free to ask.
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Originally Posted by submissivewife
I joined this morning, so i havent had time to know if i'm staying or leaving, lol. I can give a little insight based on other forums that i've joined in the past where i was a one-hit wonder.
Some of us that join these sites are nubs, and its intimidating at times to take that plunge. In my case, i'm admitting my sub tendencies, and after 33 years of a different way of thinking, its not the easiest thing to do. Some sites do not make a person feel welcome. Its frustrating to go through an introduction post, fill out profiles, and receive zero feedback, even if it is just a quick 'Hi" or "welcome". I'm very happy to say that this is not the case here. Thanks Aesop for the welcome greeting.
I realize that i have the responsibility to get involved if i want to be involved. Communication works this way, and this will never change. It's just discouraging for some to join a forum like this to be around like-minded people only to find out that there is an 'elitist' feel from the members. I'm not saying that this place is like this, and from browsing some of the kind responses, it isn't , but i've felt that experience in other places.
Others are probably looking for the 'hookup'. They hop on, figure they are gonna find someone kinky to play with, and when it doesnt immediately happen, they jet. (Yes, this is me on previous forums in the past, lol.)
So, why did i join?
To share with people in this lifestyle. I hope to learn more, and i hope to eventually develop actual friendships with some of you.
What will keep me coming back?
A feeling of acceptance from the other members.
Just my 2 cents :)
I know exactly what you are talking about. Believe it or not I almost left this forum back when I joined. The things you are talking about were the norm here then. I posted my intro and eight days later I finally got a response. I thought about just finding somewhere else to go, but the potential of this board was huge and something inside wouldn't let me let it go so I spent the next little while driving everyone crazy with threads and posts trying to drum up some action. That was in November. Over 2000 posts later I'm beginning to see this place as a home away from home and have made some wonderful friends.
I hope you will feel comfortable here discussing your newfound self and I know that we have many members that will happily answer your questions and listen to your concerns.
Again welcome to the forums. :)
This is wonderful feedback shins...I'm so glad you've found this forum a welcoming and warm place so far. And from my own experience it really is. I haven't got any experience with too many other forums to be honest, but when I joined not too long ago, it was like a revelation. I was in desperate need of people to share my newfound kinks with...to find someone to assure me that it's ok how I feel.
I've found all of it and more and I kept coming back because I've never met such a nice, helpful and accepting bunch of people anywhere, probably not even in r/l.
I really hope you'll find this place to become a home to you as well. Welcome! :)
well I am new to the libaray browesed the form as a guest and liked what I saw so I join up. Been out of the loop for awhile. Had a friend that got me back to the lifestyle. she is very novice to the lifestyle but got me back to a life i love. this place is perfect place to be. hehe and great people here
:wel: Glad you decided to post! Yeah, we don't bite....well, most of us don't. What out for the fox...he still hasn't shown my his shot records yet.
I came To learn and I come back to learn more. lol.
:wel: You picked a great place to do that Curiosity!
I've been reading the stories here for a while, and decided that I wanted to learn some practical stuff.
I'm also going through a periodic ":'( I'm looooooonely" phase, and figured I might meet someone here. =P
:wel: if you are actively looking post a personal. I'm sure you will find someone of interest through there.
Oh, I'm considering it, but I'm trying to get a feel for the forum itself first. I'm a skittish little bugger like that. ;-)
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Originally Posted by the_wanlorn
lol we all are at times....hell me, I am all the time.
I am 53 male crossdresser. My interest in BDSM has been present as long as I can remember. I used to fantisize while watching scary movies about being whipped, hung, crucified, suspended, burned at the stake, beheaded. Crossdressing came later.
I hope to share my stories. Especially my first experimentations when I was 14 as I successfully suspended myself in the basement. My first wife dommed me and we had a good collection of toys when we divorced.
:wel: We hope you enjoy your visit with us...word of caution though, we don't allow underage stories here. But looking forward to reading your stories and experiencesQuote:
Originally Posted by caitlynmariecd
:wel to the forums caitlynmariecd...I'm looking forward to reading your stories and hope you'll have fun here! :)
have been a BDSM fan since i can remember, am 20 now, but when i was 15 had a MSN Messenger mistress, she gave it up for a "normal" life when i was 17. loved it but didn't really get into the scene, came here to see more and more importantly learn more, Congo Jack
As it is currently incarnated, this is about the friendliest forum I know of. JUst look at some of the newer members... who have only joined this year....
Silke has over a thousand posts already and she only joined in February. That doesn't happen in a place where 'noobs' are ignored by the old-timers or where people tend to be cliquish...