Welcome to all the newcomers!!! :wave:
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Welcome to all the newcomers!!! :wave:
I want to say hi to everyone.I am an Owned and Collared Slave of my Masters. i serve in real life.i have been in this lifestyle for about 2 yrs.if any
one has any questions on what i do,i'll be happy to answer them for you.have a good day everyone
Masters_diamond:wave:
hi, im cockslaveboi or CSB, im a 22year old novice submissive just entering into my first real M/s relationship. my knowledge is preety limited but i have learned a fair bit from these forums already and hope that someday i will be able to offer my own advice.
Hi!
My name is Robine and I am a submissive girl. I gueess I always been a submissive, but it took a while before I understood it. When I was a teenager and talked with others about sex-fantacies, I never said that I wanted to be tied up, stripped and used by several guys. I wasn´t that sort of things a nice girl should dream about. It wasn´t before I met a guy who was into bondage that I begun to explore my fantacies. Some years after we broke up I met a guy who was into slavery and other forms of roleplaying. He had this house in the contryside where we experienced a lot of different forms of sex We never had a real relationship...all we had was sex, and it was great.
Robine
Been a while since I checked this thread, so I will just issue a blanket Hello :wave: and :welcome: to everyone I missed.
Hi Robine: welcome! That guy with the house in the country sounds like a great way of exploring s/m, even if you didn't have a regular D/s relation. Most people whoare into this have had to fight shame and a "there's something wrong with me" feeling at one time - many years for some. I used to be very unwilling to recognize and explore this as well - but it's good youve grown to accept yourself, and you'll find lots of friends here.
Hi gagged Louise, and thanks for your responde. Have you lived or do you live in a regular d/s relation? I have tried, but I think some parts are better in my fantacy than in real life. For me, these weekends (and sometimes more) in his house at the countryside was enough for me. We explored our dakrest fatacies, wich was great. But I think that the thrill would be gone if we had to meet each other every day. I think that the reason that is was so great, was that the sex was all we had in common.
Robine
Hello Robine - no, I haven't lived the life of a regular real-life sub, though the kink has been present sometimes in my love relations (I've known since my teens there was a raw fascination with this) and I hope to bring elements of regular surrender, bondage and submission regularly into my steady relations, hope to have that coming. And I have some contact with the r/l bdsm scene. Many people who see themselves as D/s in fact live this actively when they feel they have the time - in the week-ends, or on vacation, but no doubt you know that not all Dom/-me/slave couples look like The Story of O with its unlimited live-in surrender and sexual slavery.
This forum has helped me explore my submission deeper and further in a fun and revealing way, and brought me into online subbing with its array of tasks, scening, exchange of ideas, punishments, trust and better performance as a sub/slave.
And sure, I would agree that some things are great in imagination but may not work well in brute reality (really rough abduction, played out in a non-consensual way, is an example: it's hot, but wouldn't work full on for most of us)
Well, i'm 18, i'm a sub, new to both the board and relatively, to the lifestyle, having only realised i was sub ten months okay and never having had anyone resembling a Master, just experience with power play/masochism in relationships, but never really found anyone to guide me in the process, so, i thought i'd guide myslef. Come here and research the theory to enhance the actual, so to speak.
Hi
I'm a 22yr old female sub. I havent got any major r/l experience except a little with my b/f but he isnt as into it as me. My ideal fantasy is to be Dommed by a woman and this has been my fantasy for ages! I'm very friendly and interested in chatting with anyone who wants to, so just PM me or something! Thanks! xx
:wave: Hello SexySub21
I wasn't going to post here because I figured I'd already said hi elsewhere, but perhaps I can share more here.
My name is Kelli. I became aware of my submissive desires about a month ago. Initially, I falsely believed that I had "become" a sub. But in the past week and half or so I have begun to realize that, on some level, I have always been a sub.
Another false perception I had in the beginning was that these desires were of a purely sexual nature. That, quite frankly, made me a little uneasy. The more I learn about the lifestyle and myself, the more I realize that what I feel is deeply emotional as well as sexual.
I've been fortunate to find that the few friends I've shared this discovery with, have been immensely helpful, and not at all judgmental. It was through one of these friends that I found my way to this site.
In my reading, I was relieved when I made the observation that so very many of the D/s relationships, it seems to me, are built on a very deep mutual love and sense of trust that the Dom's and sub's share for one another.
I have "played" with a couple of friends, testing the waters, but it's never enough. I am inclined to believe that a primary reason for this is because "playtime" with friends provides no emotional fulfillment; so much of what I feel is a desire to give myself completely to the man that already has my heart. Also, as it has been online play, it really lacks true sexual fulfillment as well.
I am quite certain that there are still holes in my thinking, and I know I still have much to learn. In that line, I've been wondering about this Academy I keep seeing mentioned.
Hi, I`m Kitten. I`ve been in unextreme BDSM relationship for 3 months and I have strong affection for him. I came here so I can learn more, maybe I can ask advices. I`m a newbie to the active BDSM life, though I had my first BDSM desires when I was 14 (I told him to tie me to the leg of the bed and rape me... But he couldn`t ). I would love to join a BDSM community in person, but here in my country (Bulgaria) there aren`t such things... There is a group of people, but almost all of theme are perverts, who only seek to f*ck some naive girl. Thank you for receiving me in your community.
Greetings all =]
I am Precious; slave to my Master Raziel - we've been in the BDSM lifestyle for well over a year now and have incorporated it into our everyday lives, we don't scene as we're 24/7.
Hello Everyone,
I'm midi. I'm in a committed relationship with my best friend in this world. There is nothing better. :) We were engaged in May!!!! I have been exploring D/s for about 5 years and D and I have been sharing it real life for about 2 years. As our lives are filled with so many other demands right now, we are not able to incorporate it 24/7, but my submission always remains a part of our relationship.
We are surrounded by many vanilla friends and family and are looking forward to new friendships with others who understand our lifestyle choices. Please feel free to say "hello" any time. :)
Hello, I am pony, I am a Chinese male slave who live in Hong kong, i like BDSM lifestyle, past and this summer, I joined the summer slave camp, the experience can be seenin the MY BDSM lifestyle, usually I trained with my girlfriend, we only served mistress
hello i'm innocentsub...i'm a submissive..who happens to still be rather innocent regarding this lifestyle..hence my name..
:hihi: Nice to see you innocentsub.
OK Hi all I am emi 27 y/o female sub to David. We are in a 24/7 - D/s , we are also engaged . I have been in a long distant D/s relationship before and finding that this is alot differant from just phone calls and emails. *grin* I am hoping to learn alot from all you wonderful people.
Welcome and greetings, yes this is a fine community with a lot of experience so ask your questions
Hi
i've sort of introduced myself elsewhere - but people seem to be doing it twice (!)
i'm a 35 yr old sub boy in an open but strictly controlled relationship of seven years. My Master is older, wiser and sadly not living with me (yet), though we are married now. Am based in the North West of the UK.
Always glad to talk about my relationship if it helps, and keen to learn from all of you through your experiences. Loveto meet/chat with /get to know people from the Uk and all over - also travel quite extensively to the states and Oz particularly.
Am very excited as Master has lent me to one of His friends to go to the legendary Inferno party near Chicago in sept. gulp. Although to earn the privilege i am strugging through an unprecedented period of chastity! *crying* lol
Hi all . I made a new name. I was under Davidnhisgirl, and Daddy let me make my own account *go me!*
So I just wanted to say hi!
Hello again emiQuote:
Originally Posted by emi herself
welcome emi!
im new to all of this im a 28 year old sub my wife is my misstress but is also new so i dont feel that i get the punishment i deserve. and i just found this cummunaty its nice to find a place like this. i guss i dont really have any Q's exept maby how to get my misstress to be more of a dom
ops i forgot im Eric
hi
my name is q8yslave , , i am 21 yrs male slave from kuwait, and i dont have any owner yet and actually i didnot used to have, from my deep inside i feel that i was born for one reason which is ( to be a reall slave/server for a strong female) i totally new on this sit so i dont have expriense, , but i will gain it becouse i love it,,,
when my owner get me i will always ask my self ( how to get my misters happy from me)
:wave: Hi I am mihara and I am an 18 yr old bisexual female submissive in the USA. I am new to the board and to the BDSM lifestyle so I don't have really any experience and right now am learning the ropes so to speak. My fantasy (which I would like to become a reality) is to be dominated by both a man and woman. :)
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Originally Posted by mihara
May all your fantasies come true!! :wave:
Hello, I'm new-explorer, and I guess it would be obvious by my name that this is all new to me...or is it?
In past relationships I had always felt that something was missing, and I always blamed myself for it, I felt that I wasn't good enough, always tried to do better. I have come to realise now that I was just never with someone who could accept what I was offering, can't really blame them...I didn't know what I was offering either.
About a year and a half ago I ended a 13 year relationship and began MY life, I started talking to people and looking at things on-line, about 6 months ago a light bulb came on for me and I realised that I am submissive.
In the last several months I have talked to anyone who could offer me any kind of guidance in learning more about myself, I have become so much more secure in myself than I have ever been, although I still feel I have a long way to go.
I very recently met someone who is at about the same place as I am, he has recently discovered that he is interested in exploring his dominant side. I guess at this point I am just wanting to learn as much as I possibly can, and hope that the bond that has already begun to form for us grows to something I can't yet even imagine.
Any guidance and suggestions are welcome as my eyes are getting square from looking at this monitor.:eek:
ok, i'm fallenstar, or just Mel, i'm a submissive and quite new to the scene. i've just recently began my first dominant/sub relationship with my best friend once we noticed the feelings were there. i look forward to learning more.
I'm an NYC newbie - a woman and (obviously) a sub. (Hi y'all!) I've been reading like crazy but have yet to actually RT anything, although I will be checking out the local BDSM group... as soon as I get a damn night free! I'm pretty busy working with an anti-Bush group. He's been keeping us pretty busy for the last few years and, I must say, the fact that he's keeping me from having my BDSM fun is yet another mark against him :30: :)
Anyway, looking forward to chatting with everyone here.
-lily
Hi lily and welcome!
My name's Nikki. I have an introduction thread, as well as this, but I'll repeat:
I'm an 18 year old college student in Colorado, US. I'm a bisexual submissive. I have recently entered a relationship with my new Dom, and I'm having lots of fun so far!
-Nikki
Most of you already know me, but believe it or not I just found this part of the forum LOL... so I am Nia... but everyone calls me Nia. my dom and I are new to all this and we are here to learn. Don't know what else to tell ya... but you can ask :icon176:
i am a female sub open for any thing 25 yrs oldQuote:
Originally Posted by Rabbit1
Hi. Im subtlenewbie, a 38 yr old female, (mostly het but not entirely) single mom and a (surprise!) nurse. Last spring I was just ending a dead end relationship, and met a wonderful Man who through three weeks of seeing each other every day, and months of being on the phone... moved to my town two months ago.
Funny thing, I was (mostly) vanille up until this spring. My MAN figured out in about 10 minutes that I was a submissive... and pretty sooon he had me convinced too. Im still learning a lot, its been a long distance relationship for most of it, plus his resettling into a new town has put a slow down on this side of our relationship, but things are progressing. Im just happy to have found this site and meeting cool new people.
am a very submissive female who likes to be used in any way a master or mistres sees fit pain humiliation water sportsQuote:
Originally Posted by Rabbit1
Hello, I'm Char. Short and easy, what you see is what you get. I'm probably a lot younger than most of the other subs on this site (and many others) but I have been in one, long steady D/s relationship for nearly 4 1/2 years with a much older man.
I am a submissive, who is bi-sexual. Submissive doesn't equal doormat for me though. I am "service oriented", enjoying the act of caring for others. I nurture, and put forth all of my efforts to please.
There are, admittedly, many things I have not yet experienced, but I am open to all with someone I trust. I give myself as a whole to that special person I submit to. For me, it is all or nothing. If I cannot give myself over fully, then I won't at all.
Thank you,
Char
Hello all, I am Xan_in_chains herein, but Xan is fine. That's actually my name! XD
Anyway. I learned I was a sub about one year ago; I was discussing my at-the-time girlfriend's previous relationships which I learned had been of a bdsM inclination. I made a joke about it; the issue made me uncomfortable. And she said I was in deeper than I knew. I was initially slightly offended but we discussed it, reassessed and so forth, and sure enough it made sense-I was just used to giving her the responsibility in all spheres, obeyed her without question, and loved the comfort of obedience. So I suppose after a little soul-searching it became official and from that point it just improved since I could put a finger on it, and obviously new... 'elements' *cough* were introduced which were very enjoyable. Since then I've bottomed for her and a man, and I find that I enjoy both for different reasons. That is to say, whilst I do not identify as gay I'm comfortable with another man in that scenario because of the utter submission involved. Plus, being of fairly small-to-average stature a lot of guys are bigger than me so the sensation of helplessness is really augmented in a male-male scenario, which I especially enjoy. However, in my experience whilst a man has additional strength which is desirable my Lady was capable of greater finesse and subtlety. One can but judge based on his own experiences and so I tend to assume that these themes are consistent to a degree which might allow generalisation among Dom/mes. I have unfortunately been recently disowned by my Mistress; she tells me it isn't my fault, but I'm sure here is no place to whine. I'm not sure if it's a consistent theme among subs and perhaps unhealthy, but my adoration of her was and is absolute. Whereas many are those who have claimed they would do anything for the one they love, given the context that claim becomes rather more comprehensive, in my opinion. And it's left me... in a sense rather helpless. I imagine it is something of a personal failing on my part, but our arrangement was such that I traded personal responsibility down to sleeping arrangements, food (this is an area find especially difficult) and day-to-day tasks, for utter obedience and I enjoyed her praise and punishment equally; anything she saw me worthy of was a blessing. Thus, the responsibility of just going about my affairs autonomously just seems to horrify me. I spent some time throwing up that day, I'll concede. And now after two and a half years... Anyway I realise that I've gone off on some dreadful dirge and so will here conclude that I'm now 'free' in the worst sense, and so appear before you perhaps a shadow of a shadow, hoping to find support and hopefully the opportunity to serve once more. Good grief, how tremendously self-indulgent...
Xan