very sub female any thing goes love to be tortured humilited pain golden showers scat? dont know have to think on it
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very sub female any thing goes love to be tortured humilited pain golden showers scat? dont know have to think on it
I am VInod from Indore INDIA. i feel that i am a submissive . actually i am having noe real time experiance but i am very much interested to get into real time. i am looking for Indian Femdoms.
i request the Femdoms near me to kindly send me pvt. message i will be highly obliged.
Welcome everyone!
Hello all. I'm Iron Lynx, most people online just call me Lynx. I'm in a RL D/s relationship, though our relationship is still fairly new and we are still learning each other, so to speak. I'm American, and my mistress is Australian, which means that until we decide weather or not to get married (or one manages dual-citizenship or something of the like) our relationship is punctuated by some rather agonizingly long "dry spells." Though, I suppose our situation just makes our meetings all the sweeter.
I'm here to learn the things I want to know, as well as all the things I don't know I don't know. I'm happy to answer any questions I can, weather they be about me or what lies within my, as of yet, limited knowledge. Feel free to PM me any questions you have for me.
Hello everyone. I am schiavo, its Italian for enslaved. I am currently a 30 year old, owned slave to a wonderful man whom I've had the great pleasure of serving the past two years.
I have been active in the lifestyle for about 5 years now. I think most of us whom identify as submissives or slaves can see a pattern of our need and want to please throughout our lives. At least I have found this to be a common trait amongst subs and slaves. I say this because I, like many, have always had a desire, a real need to please others. It wasn't until I started exploring chatrooms about 6 or 7 years ago that I began to notice there were others that shared common interests/needs to serve and please. It was around that time that I started researching the lifestyle and reading up on a variety of things. Also, around this same time, I began to realize that I could no longer push down and away this need in my life. I felt I was dying without it. I began learning small things here and there. Realizing all through my learning process' I was beginning to grow and open.
Like many, I have come across those who are not "good", for lack of a better or more appropriate way of putting it, dominants, but I've also found many that are sincere. I feel rather lucky and blessed to have been accepted by my Dominant. He isn't one for a lot of formalities but He is one that has accepted me for me, with all the drama and chaos that comes with me and is apart of me at times, He is still here with me, He still wishes to own me. He desires to have a second slave and He is currently looking. I wish for Him to be happy and will be glad to serve Him with a sister.
I tend to become long winded when writing things and apologize if I have done so here. I am open to answering any and all questions others may have for me and am also okay if there are none to answer. I am simply glad to have found this site and to be allowed to explore it when time allows.
Thank you A/all. May each and every day be pleasant and bring you and Yours happiness.
schiavo(enslaved))
Hi all.. i just join this web...
I'm a sub so far that i know... i dunno if i can be a slave yet, must experience more in it to i know... but so far i prefer myself a sub...
Just have this lifestyle half year ago, getting know more with ppl that share their knowledge... rarely play in the scene... still didn't met the right one although prolly have met but seems didn't work out... still take time in searching the right one...
I like here coz i get more knowledge in the forum i read about :) and the people are very nice in here.. thank u all...
hi everyone i'm drinkinggirl and as the name implies i do enjoy the alcoholic beverages haha, but it doesn't mean i drink all the time otherwise i would have went with alcoholicgirl.........
I have known i'm a sub for some time, it's funny in life i do not like being told what to do, but when it comes to sex thats my biggest turn on, luckily i'm with someone who knows how to turn me on, and we have grown and explored with each other for the past 5 years. I have reached heights of pleasure i don't think i would have without this lifestyle.
Just for general knowledge, I do like sports, i play tennis, i make jewelry, i love to sing and with all the other attachments in life that takes up all my time.
I have been going through a stressful time in my life my mom has had 5 strokes in the past 4 months and we're going on our 3rd surgery and countless dr. appointments and tests.......i'm glad i found this place as it's provided a boost for me and its fun to read about other experiences and makes it a little easier to put myself in that frame of mind so i can enjoy being a sub.
I did a basic intro in the "Introductions/Welcome" section, here's a more detailed one:
I'm a 46 year old submissive male, married to a wonderful & very dominant woman. I have nearly 30 years experience in BDSM, always as a sub, (with the exception of one time in play with my first wife, at her request, not satisfying to either of us, to say the least), & am always learning, reading & researching to learn more about myself, who & what I am, & why. I have no problems being submissive, I just crave a greater understanding of self.
I am always willing to answer questions, offer help or advice, & do whatever else I can to help others along this journey.
While I am a male sub, I am NOT a believer in absolute rule by women, or that EITHER gender is "superior". I've been around the scene too long to believe such nonsense, & I freely acknowledge that dominance & submission are personal traits in people, regardless of gender. So if you're looking for advice or info on a "FemDom ruled world", please ask others that share that same belief. I'm NOT putting down those that believe in that fantasy, it's just not what I or my Wife are into. We are too busy with the reality of a D/s based marriage to spend time on imaginary musings.
We are very D/s oriented, with a strong Domestic Discipline, (DD), streak, along with being into S/M as well. My Wife is the Head of the Household, Her word is law, & She always has the final decision regarding how things are done. I do have a voice, & an opinion, & have rights, as we both acknowledge I am a sub, not a slave.
I am especially adept at blending BDSM into a marriage/relationship & will always be willing to help others there, no matter what level they wish to achieve.
If I can be of help with anything, please don't hesitate to ask here, or to PM me!
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Hello everyone - I stumbled across this thread so I think a more specific introduction might be in order here, no?
So, I'm Brooke and I'm somewhere between being a submissive and being a bottom. For me, there are subtle distinctions between the two, mainly in how control I must be of a situation and how much the BDSM world figures into my everyday life. At the moment, I am doing nothing real-world BDSM-ish, unfortunately. If you've read my intro to the general forum, you'll see that it's just not an option for where I am at the moment. God, I don't even want to imagine the rumours that would start about me if this particular aspect of my life became public knowledge! Haha.
In the past, I was fairly active as a submissive in real life. I have been very lucky in my relationships and have had a number of truly spectacular experiences BDSM-wise. I had a very long relationship with a couple, actually where there was a Domme and a Switch, but I loved their rules - he never was allowed to have direct contact with me (specifically, sex) and she controlled everything. It worked so well for everyone involved and I just loved them to pieces. It was with this lovely Domme that I ALSO got to experience my first "sales" experience and hoooooboy, was it the rush. She sold me for a day to the highest bidder of her Dominant friends. She and I completed the bargaining - what I was ok doing, what I wanted to do, what would be a punishment, was was a complete no, etc, so that on the day of, there was very little bargaining I had to do with my new, temporary Dominant. It really did feel as if I'd just been sold into slavery!
Other than that couple, I have developed relationships with many other people into BDSM - some I was lucky enough to play with, some are merely friends, others are more professional (I take photographs and love fetish and kink portraits!), etc.
So that's me - I'm not really into anything formal for the time being and I REALLY need to see if there's much of an Edmonton scene anywhere going on, but for now, you guys are it. :)
hi all :)
ive been on this site for a while but never formally introduced myself...
for now i live and date in the vanilla world and serve as a hobby or outlet... i serve a long distance owner who is amazing and brilliant, but we do live far from eachother... i live in nyc and would like to have a real life experience... i dont want to try and meet people at crunches or clubs as i value my privacy and discretion...
thank you all for being here, this site has been helpful and supportive in my journey into submission and slavery...
slave-juice
Hi, all (again). I'm Jan - I'm 33 (at least for a few more months), I stand 5'0", weigh about 120lbs and have medium length brunette hair. Although I don't have too much experience, I think I'm a frustrated "pain-slut".
I love so much of what I've read here!
hi im new. im 19 and 5'4. i dont have much experience but i am willing to learn. i am enjoying this site very much so far and am excited to be here.
I'm a 43 year old submissive. I've been in this lifestyle real life since about 2001. I'm currently single having had a long term d/s relationship end last spring.
While I would love to enter another relationship I'm not at the point where I'm really ready to look seriously. In the meantime I have a couple of long term play partners where with whom I play.
My kinks are diverse an I've been described as a masochist. I'm pretty open trying new things.
Hi Im viper4 im new to submissive but i am willing
welcome to the community!
My name is slavejerry. I belong to a Mistress in Vancouver, B.C. Canada
My age is 60. I am 5'11' tall and 195 lbs.
My profile says lenny but don't know how to change it to slavejerry.
slavejerry, you can PM one of the Admins and they might be able to help you out with your name issue.Quote:
Originally Posted by lenny
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I cant believe I somehow missed this thread, but here we go. I am Sipgirl submissive to my husband and Master SipgirlMaster. We have been married for over 13 years, happily so. We dont live 24/7 so to speak, but we do practice the lifestyle. Having 4 children makes it somewhat complicated, but we do manage. I am certainly happy to speak with anyone who wishes to speak with me, but am not looking for an O/L Dom and expect to be treated with respect and kindness...warm wishes.
hey everyone im rainbow im 18 im new to this but i like it
Hi! I introduced myself on the main page, but thought I might as well slip one in here as well. Plus I get to tell my story a little bit more and, as will soon be discovered, I tend to be quite long-winded. I grew up really religious, really sheltered, and in a fairly small community, but I always knew that the usual lovey-dovey-candlelight-and-kisses romance was not for me (which I've since discovered is not entirely true. I can totally appreciate lovey-dovey, so long as it's from Him). For a long time, I felt guilty about that. When I got online, ten years ago this year, I was able to put a name to what I wanted, and found a huge community scattered throughout the 'net. I went through a lot of what I call stages as I searched for the kind of relationship that I thought I wanted and needed. In late 2001 I met my now-husband online. It was strange, because we hadn't met in a setting that was related to D/s, and I certainly didn't portray myself as submissive, given the context, but he picked up on it almost immediately. In February of 2005, I flew across the country to meet him and we clicked. We got married in 2006, and he is my everything. We've struggled with moving from online D/s and friends to married lovers- he feels a dichotomy between the two roles, for reasons I won't get into in this already lengthy post. That's a transition I'm hoping we can resolve soon, but I'm willing to be patient if it can't be soon. I don't often differentiate between Y/you, H/him, etc online because it's my personal preference- I don't think it conveys more of a tone of respect than the way I phrase things already. I sometimes use it to make a point that I'm referring to my husband, and sometimes it feels natural. And now I really am going to stop talking. For now.
Hello,
I find myself going on a trip through the internet looking for somewhere to explore and learn though I have about 6 months of experience it wasn't all that much of an experience. The girl I was with at the time was submissive and so was I. After taking on the position as the dominant I finally convinced her to be dominant but she really wasn't it was more of her being slightly more agressive and me pretending I was the bottom. I was told once that it was called topping from the bottom or something of that sort, any who I have since been looking for someone I can gain a more defined understanding of what it is in D/s I actually like doing and what is just a nice fantasy. Though I seem to be going no where fast.
Let's see.. an introduction - my name, on all SORTS of online places, is shiv. After 10 years of learning, both o/l and r/l, i am happily married to Master, and we are currently involuntarily separated thanks to a (dead) crooked lawyer and red tape. I am allowed to play with His prior permission, but for the most part i keep a low profile and only go out with friends rather than dating or what have you. This town is so in the closet it creaks, lol, and the odds of finding someone kinky enough to play with and ok with me being Owned are REALLY SLIM lol.
And, well, that's it i guess... this talking about myself stuff really bites lol. If you want to know something, message me and ask :P
Hi,
I'm a newcomer to the site, the name's Dave but most of my friends and other people online refer to me as Davachido. I'm a somewhat inexperienced bi submissive as I've never had a proper master, I have had experiences occasionally with vanilla relationships where my partner was playing the role as dom but it wasn't always their thing.
Other than that I'm all for pain of all sorts, only type I object to is use of knives for some reason I can't stand the smell of blood in large amounts it has caused me to throw up on several occasions. On a side note I'm also a biochemist who has a crazy desire to see if chemicals are feasable to play around with.
Okay so...
Hi, my name is Talia, and I'm an ...wrong meeting?
I never was very funny.
I'm a 20-year-old submissive, young but not inexperienced. I was that smart popular girl in school, the cheerleader who went home and tied her Barbies down (actually, Ken tied them). Now I'm in university - a sorority girl with a kinky side. I like the colours red and green (but not together), don't like seafood, and love travelling. I'm red-headed, green-eyed and relatively quick-witted. I've been lucky enough to have done some pertinant video and photographic work.
On a more personal side, I guess I'm here because I've always known? I prefer my men paternal and Dominant, and my women submissive and sassy.
I'm paola..which means small/humble. I am a strong willful woman in r/l but I have always had a submissive side of me that has never been explored. I am learning a lot in just the few short days I have been here. I am married to a wonderful man but he is not into this type of lifestyle or play although I am hoping that after seeing this site he may be willing to try. He has allowed me to me talk on line with one particular Dom that we met through another site so I guess that is some progress. Feel free to pm me if you'd like.
I can't believe I missed this thread, but in a way I'm glad that I took the time to learn more about myself before I posted to it. I'm a 20 year old submissive, living in Sydney. I've always been a submissive, and have a trail of short intensive broken "vanilla" relationships that finally made me realise I needed more. I now know that this this is what I've been searching for all my life.
I have no experience but have learnt so much since I came on the forums that I at least know what I am looking for, and all thanks to some wonderful friends that I've met online. Thank you, all of you, you have made this a wonderful part of my life, and it's only just beginning.
I hope one day to find my perfect master or mistress, but I'm not in a hurry, I now realise the level of trust, friendship, and understanding that I need to build, before I commit myself to someone. I thought I knew what my boundaries were, but even now I've come to understand that this is something that will grow as I grow and learn
I also love a good chat online, and love to talk about relationshis, poetry (especially some of the wonderful things on here), and just the day to day things that happen to us all.
I'm not looking for something that will happen immediately, but I would love to find someone who is willing to take the time to get to know me.
greetings A/all,
i am gem - 5'3", 120lbs, short blonde hair, green eyed gurl
i've known i've been a slave for many years and have spent the better part of 15yrs learning about it - only recently (the past few years) have i decided to seek to fulfill that in me which won't be subdued any longer. i first learned about Master/slave through a g/f of mine who's fiance had requested she find a 'slave contract' on the net for them to use - i've done nothing but read and learning quietly ever since and, of course have become completely addicted to BSDM and all it has to offer.
although i deeply desire to be collared by my One, i will not enter into that idly or lightly just to gain experience, i know what i seek; how it will feel, what it will look like and i will know it when it crosses my path and i can wait *smiles*
in the past year or so i have counseled many new subs/slaves coming onto the online scene, teaching them the difference between the two and showing them their worth. i always hope to help guide new gurls to help reduce some of the dangers that are out here and to teach them that knowing yourself first goes a very long way in the learning in their journey
so that's a little about me - i hope to meet many new friends
Be Happy, Be Well and most importantly, Be Safe
gem,
xo
Well, I'm new here...which is obvious by my lack of posts...
I'm Mynx, or Beauty, or whatever you wish to call me that isn't derogatory or...weird. I'm a nineteen year old submissive, in a very happy monogamous relationship with my Mistress, living in the middle of Missouri for college. We've both been interested in the lifestyle, but only recently started exploring it more, and it gets more and more interesting everyday. I'm definitely a submissive, but I have a very bratty additude. I'm quite spirited, and while I love following my Mistress's orders, I'm not afraid to fight Her sometimes, just because it's in my nature to want to fight back.
That's pretty much me. I'm always open to talk, so if you ever want to have a word with me, just send me a PM or something.
I'm sisterhoney, though I'll also anwser to sister, sis, sishon or honey. I've been called by all those names. I've been in the lifestyle for nine years and collared to my Master for the past eight years. W/we aren't into the public scene, so I came here to make new friends and exchange ideas with people like me. I've been to other forums and didn't feel like I truly belonged there, but I've only been here a couple of days and I like it already.
As for BDSM my interests lie in pain, humiliation, bondage, roleplaying (including ageplay), fire and ice, etc.
I'm looking forward to meeting everyone here and joining in on the discussions.
Gem, that is great, a lot of people new to BDSM dont realize they need to know themselves before they start playing, but just jump in and end up learning from their mistakes when they meet someone who isn't truly trustworthy. I'm glad you put this out in the welcome thread, cause newbe's are more likely to see it, but to be honest i think you should also post it somewhere else where EVERYONE is likely to see it... kinda to warn those who really aren't trust worthy(not that i think there are any here, but anything is possible) that we are on the lookout for them. beautiful post though, and a big thank you for the help you are definitally giving to those who need it.
lol, ok now that i commented on Gem's excelent post there, i'll introduce myself, i am very shy in person at first, but i tend to become comfortable too fairly quick, and i love causing trouble, lol, i am a very submissive 20 year old female, but only in the bedroom really... i tend to be slightly loud and a little gross... mainly in the fact that i've always tomboyish you know, not all that girly, or ladylike... and im NOT interisted in changing that. Although i do love heels, i don't wear dresses or skirts, and my favorite type of heels are always on female combat boots... my fave pair ever i had when i was 14, they were 4inch heels with an extra lift (added to heel and toe-platform) of 2 inches... lol, they made me 5' 8" when i was only 5'2" at the time. other things anyone might want to know... hell, just ask, i'll answer prety much anything... and online, i tend to have a fairly big mouth, lol...:icon176: HAHA I STUCK MY TOUNG OUT AT YOU... :ty AND GOOD NIGHT.
*hugs hunnie* i'm so happy to see you posting finally lol and thank you dear gurl for the lovely words about my post, yes i do think it is important for new gurls coming to know the dangers and how to spot them - i've written a few things on other sites that i may post around here, just not sure where they fit yet heheQuote:
Originally Posted by GothicWiccanSub
mmmmmmmm combat boots *wicked grin* i'm sure they look hot on you sweetie!!
*giggles n wiggles to you* have fun!!
gem,
xo
Hello to all.
My name is Brandy. I have had submissive desires for as long as I can remember, but have only recently begun searching for my master. The catalyst being that I was held up in a bank robbery at gunpoint(all ended well, although they did take 5k). It made me look hard at if I was happy with my life as it was. The answer was no. I am now following my hearts desire. I am here for friendship and advice, as this online thing is very hard for me. Maybe moral support too.
Be Well,
My advice to others is live for today as we cannot count on tomorrow.
Brandyt
wow brandyt - that's quite a way to awaken one's soul for sure
welcome to the boards and good luck to finding all you seek!
gem,
xo
i went through every single thread here...am almost in tears....i have read every variation about me...wow!
my name is alexes...but on other sites am subalexes...the name i prefer....like so many i am a sub searching for herself and its never too late...at least not to my way of thinking. my first Master knew i was sub...he explained so much...i love to play...to feel...but i have a tendency to go in my head...to serve and to please...just feels right...feels good...i want to learn...i want to feel...i want to be me
hello alexes, a fellow Albertan *smiles*Quote:
Originally Posted by alexes
many subs find they have a lot in common, tis just part of the make-up i think
good luck hun
gem,
xo
Let's see, where to start?
First, my name isn't actually Luke, I'm just not keen on giving out personal information. Anyone my age probably remembers the way parents and teachers kept emphasising how important not giving out your name, address, etc. over the internet was, I think some of it stuck. I'm nineteen and I'm currently studying economics at university, coming to the end of my second year, and I'm a submissive. It does seem like male submissives are in a minority around here, but hey. I'm a virgin, a combination of having little self-confidence, being fairly introverted and not exactly being an oil painting to look at, meaning that not only do I lack experience sexually but also in the scene. So far, the only things I've done are by myself.
What else? I'm heterosexual and have a number of fetishes, although none that I've really been able to properly explore so far; the most prominent ones are the submission and a degree of cross-dressing that seems to be restricted to underwear. If there's anything else you want to know, ask or drop me a PM.
I would just like to introduce myself..I have been a her a few days and already met the best bunch of people in the chat.
Ive been Interested in BDSM as a straight sub for a long time and decided it was time to investigate my interest further by joining this form and it has been an awesome ride..I'm having a lot of fun. Well just hello everyone and enjoy..I know i am, chow
Another short introduction. By the way...what an awesome thread!!! I'm learning my way around the site and am very excited about it! I'm a straight female submissive and haven't had enough real time experience to learn my pain threshhold yet. Although i most DEFINATELY enjoy a good flogging! *shivers* I am also quite certain that i have a bondage fettish..hehehe. I can even remember running off vanilla boyfriends by asking them to tie me up....imagine that... I'm 41 years old and have two almost grown sons at home. They are my mini-Doms. I look forward to reading and posting and chatting with everyone...until then.
Hello everyone. My name is rivka, which is rebecca in German. I just recently joined here and I hope to learn alot from here and meet many people who have the same inerests as me.
I was in a online relationship for about a year, I'm slightly trained though not very much and what I am trained in was based on Gor.