I am extremely claustrophobic!
What would you do to terrify me and excite me?
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I am extremely claustrophobic!
What would you do to terrify me and excite me?
I had to post here. lol.
As surely is rather apparent... pony play -drool- To have a stall, and a harness, and be bathed and groomed and hooked to a cart.... yea. That just plain does it for me.
Also, most definitely, public sex. Doesn't matter where, I just want to be in public, with people around and unaware....
Threesomes... with 2 men, and me. To be controlled and shared. It's two times the domination for the price of one!
I could list lots of kinks that I am extra fond of, but i'd say those were the true "fetishes"
(anal, enemas, heels, HAIR PULLING, etc etc etc) for me, cuz they're really hot, but not always necessary.
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Originally Posted by Zarine13
Zarine,
Exposed to what? A small, intimate group? A large public? The elements? I picture a bondage table, a blindfold, and the small intimate group. Yes, intoxicating is a good word.
YEEEEEESSSSSSS!! But what's wrong with foursomes? 3 men? Menage a quatre.....would that be the term? Three times the eroticism and intensity. But only controlled by the one doing the sharing. I'd willingly give him great control just because of his willingness to share.Quote:
Originally Posted by SauvagePouline
But regardless of numbers, the main key here is "To be controlled and shared."
DIXIE ;pant;
im going with rachel06, face slapping *drools*
As I told someone on here just recently I have a bunch, but my top three have to be the "three C's". lol Collars, corsets and chastity. I have a hard time imagining anything more amazing than a beautiful girl in a tight corset, restrictive collar and steel chastity belt. ~sigh~
-Geoff
A small group? Now there's something I honestly had not thought of.. but it does sound really.. delicious! I was thinking more the elements, and to be exposed to whatever my Master wants to do.Quote:
Originally Posted by DIXIE LASS
This was a fun thread, so I'm bringing it back to add mine.
Being tied, held down, blindfolded, helpless, collars, leather, being a slave, serving, um, whipping, spanking. The thought of being in public or with a private group excites me, but haven't done it that much.
Footplay, domanating a slave, pregnant slaves, giving enemas, watersports, lactation.
Are my fetishes
I love being spanked, watching and hearing him when I go down on him, his smell-not just his genitals, I can bury my nose in his armpit just to get that spicy, woodsy, masculine scent of him.
Also, something he did just once, so far: he put his thumb and forefinger up to my throat. He didn't choke me, and I don't think I would enjoy asphyxiation, but showing me that he could. Even more than knowing his power from that one move, with no toys or tools, but feeling my reaction. Most people, non-kinks, would react by lowering their chins to protect the neck/throat, but I threw my head back, to give him better access. I was offering him everything, my heart, soul, mind, even the power of life and death over me, and it excited me (okay, maybe it scared me a little, too, as I had never submitted to anyone like that before.) We are LDR, but just the thought of that moment can make me wet.
^ Dog's Lady, I love that too, what you described.
I know it's a niche fetish that many won't understand, but that might exactly be ID's intent. I enjoy wearing restrictive braces and casts, even without medical need. They are comfortable, restrictive, and can control you for weeks at a time. They can be worn next to a nun without any offense being taken, yet with any obvious cast or brace, every passerby's head turns to look. It is a slice of publicly acceptable bondage and humiliation.
Example: a medical neck brace is more comfortable and more restrictive than a posture collar, and can be worn for as long as someone else is enjoying it.
Obviously, your milage may vary.
the on fetish i love most is rope just feel it on my skin mmmmm yes and i love all the rest of the fetish will give some a go thank you all
Yes, I love rope also. I slept wrapped up in some last night in fact.
While I have long enjoyed bondage play and erotic teasing, I have recently become fascinated with women wearing full-body shapewear such as that made by Spanx. I have noticed that some of these garments are open, or openable, at the crotch presumably for bathroom convenience. It would seem these same openings would also allow the wearer to have sex without removing the garment. Does anyone share this interest, and especially has anyone tried this slightly kinky adventure?
A man of tall stature , laughs for Im only five foot two, so everyone is tall to me , nah I like a man to be at least six foot . This preference or fetish is quite new to me but Im truly enjoying the search such a nice canvas to look at when I find him :) . I have plenty more but will leave it with this one .
I have never answered this post...simply because i have had preferences but never consider them fetishes. That has changed...breast and nipple torture..I need it...crave it...want it...
Clips, clamps, pegs- pulling, stretching, tying up.
Now I really want to try wax- i can only imagine what hot wax would feel like on my breasts. Mmmmm... (This new thought is thanks to scotsgirl's fantasies on her blog :) )
Wax) mmm was my first experience , I was 13 and actually was watching a show I should not have been , :) than went in my room later that night and used a regular candle , I dribbled the wax on my breastes and realized I loved it , than I did it on my inner thighs and was sold on the idea I LOVE WAX. Was awhile many years later before I returned to it in play .
I dont know if this is more a preferance or fetish , but smell omg I must have something to smell and it must be umm lets say very male from armpits to crotch .enough said there.
While I have many things that I like, enjoy and that turn me on I must say it's the psychological aspects of what we do that I'm drawn to most.
I like the control, discipline, ritual and structure that is inherent in a D/s relationship.
It just makes the whole experience of being bound or flogged (or whatever) so much more richer, deeper and meaningful.
to a young black haired girl.....i wish to hogtied her in difficult position for hours.deepthroatin her in that position unti she gagged,Pulling her hair fucking her ass roughly
By the gracious and thoughtful arrangements of our Training Master, Mei-Xing and I are now Living it. :excitement::triumphant::love_heart::cheerful:
And we do NOT take it for granted, not for a moment!
I would have to Agree, definitely! Very well-said!Quote:
Originally Posted by mauve
the sounds people make can turn me on so much that and algebra for some reason makes me very hot
Sounds, again, I Agree! A good point we all tend to forget! Algebra??? Did you have a crush on a teacher, that might be the Linkage?? I like it, most people hate math, and a sexual-linkage to it, is unique, or close to such!Quote:
Originally Posted by Noxifer
it gives me a very strong arousal similar to guys morning wood and interestingly enough it lingers so for a few days after at the same time of day it's been active I get the feeling of arousal and it was caused by a very beautiful teacher almost as lovely as yourselfQuote:
Originally Posted by Fumiko-Oppai
I do not suspect it would surprise you that I'm Blushing. :DQuote:
Originally Posted by Noxifer
I can't relate, really, to having 'morning wood'...I'm rather opposite gender-wise. ;)
Mine is castration or CBT I really would like to find a female Dom who will Skype with me or if possible would rather have this meet up with em and have a session someone let me know
I really enjoy the idea of my wife with another man but to put a twist in it I want my wife to force me to be with the man. Choking me with his dick. And having men show up and raping me for her pleasure.
I like to be tied down with a electro plug in my ass and electro title clamps plus having my nut devised and hook up to electro wires also having my cock wired all at the same time and having the current switched between the at different levels just to tease me for over 3 hours then bring me to a great climax. Let me rest for 15 minutes then do it all over again.
Toilet slavery
Loss of control and freedom; I like the feeling of being "stored" --tied down, gagged, and left for undetermined amounts of time. A blindfold or full hood allows that time to seem much longer. It's an incredible turn on right at first, then subsides--then after about an hour or two, I get extremely turned on and compelled to struggle. The sudden sound of my domme walking around, doing things in the room and totally ignoring me intensifies the feelings. Anal and/or nipple play is good too, and just makes the feeling of being used and abused that much more of a turn on.
Would have to say restrictive clothing/restraints tie with nipple play
Ooohhh !!
Humiliation in public ...that's my favourite fetish !
For example eating without using hands in a public hotel ,collared in public ,fingering in public without anyone noticing , and especially being exhibitionistic like showing of your nipples through a sheer white top and going pantyless , or with extra makeup etc.
These are always a real turn on for me !
Spanking! Yes my fetish is to be spanked and getting my hair pulled from behind while getting penetrated by my cave man!:highly_amused: Unfortunately my last boyfriend was pretty much 100% vanilla and even after I made him watch with me tons of videos with the focus on spanking I couldn't get him to satisfy my sex desires. Hope someday I can find a man who can make me sexually happy!
i think i have repressed fantasies of hurting men but i'm scared to explore that.
being humiliated gets me off too, idk why. i wish i could get over the bdsm stuff
Mine are the same things most doms have but the ones outside of bdsm for my are chubby girls. I love the chubby little arms, hands and feet. the way a nice fat hand feels against my cock and how fat girls can take a beating on their nice big ass. I also have a foot fetish. Not with dirty smelly feet I like them clean and I like the short toes and fat feet (which is one of the reasons I like fat girls they got the best feet). I've also wanted a girl to piss on me but my sub cant go away from the toilet so I haven't gotten to actually try it but I want her to piss her panties right on top of me as I play with her. I also wanted to try one of the remote control vibes so I can use it in public on my sub to let her know when shes being bad but they cost to much especially the ones that can be controlled from a long distance so shes never safe from a nice little tingle when daddy wants her.
hmmm...top of my list would be very tight rope bondage, so love the feel of being helpless an tied up! needles...kinda scary! but really hot too :) and slavery. Specifically the idea of being displayed an sold...
infinite and ever evolving, fetishes linger deep in my psyche long before i am able to vocalize them.. many have already been mentioned in this thread; strong hands on my throat with an accompanying look in His eyes or a fierceness in grasp that makes me truly uncertain how far He will take it this time..
being called names and otherwise demeaned while performing orally or riding Him.. i particularly like being told i am a 'dirty bitch' or 'fucking whore' when i am passed the point of restraining my desire.. i truly love giving oral and doing so when fully aroused is almost a guilty pleasure.. i definitely have an oral fixation and will lick his chest or arm or whatever is in reach while he is fucking me.. i like it when He reaches into my mouth, holds my tongue or tells me to suck His fingers..
most integrally, i love being used for His pleasure.. i love it when He cums inside of me, anywhere.. its like the most arousing thing in the world for me..
don't get me wrong, i love being played with, too.. the way He touches and licks me; perfection.. the softer the better.. oh, and i love when he tells me im a good girl because i get so wet from His touches.. i get so wet giving Him oral, too.. that turns Him on and i love the verbal implication of being a complete cock whore because i am dripping wet..
im no good at dirty talk, ive tried and read books, etc.. i over think things.. i wish i could, i love hearing it from Him.. i have always loved humiliation, since my first masturbation memories.. verbally, or being made to feel like i am filthy and completely obedient, no matter what is asked.. i love when He spits on my pussy or on my body or in my mouth..
recently, i have been loving anal sex.. when my g spot has been stimulated (directly or indirectly from fucking) it is so good.. i was scared at first, and shocked how much i actually enjoy it.. love when He cums in my ass, too.. incredible..
others: i love lingerie (corsets and garters and cuban heeled stockings), strong men, rough sex, being blindfolded, having Him piss on my pussy or in my mouth, a man who can fully take control and use me in a manner that is arousing and not annoying.. i do not like being spanked but a carefully timed face or breast slapping is so hot..
i have to say long-term bondage, preferably a hogtie or other comparatively uncomfortable position, complete with gag, is mine toO. I will struggle with my bonds to no end and when i finally realize i am not able to get free, that's when i will feverishly try to make myself cum. Oh, and a plug in my ass is always nice too ;)
delete please, double post
you mean get over being confused as to why humiliation gets you off, or get over these ingrained, uncontrollable sexual proclivities that will be with you for the duration of your life in some form?
there is no shame.. embrace it with a trusted lover.. go slow, keep a sense of humor, and plenty of reassuring talk helps.. "don't be so nervous.." my man said this to me earlier when i was using a strap on, something i NEVER thought i would enjoy.. i am a lot shy and a bit nervous, but making him cum from penetrating him from behind was unbelievably arousing.. I was wet down to my knees..
i cant imagine how hard it was for him to ask me to engage in pegging with him.. i didint know what exactly it meant, though i had an inkling.. he ran out that night and bought a strap on for me.. by the second time using it, i had him cumming all over his stomach strictly from the penetration..
i feel silly walking about the apartment with a floppy dildo swinging in front of me.. but whenever he tells me he wants me to get "my toy" i am excited to try again..
i am submissive in every sense and act, even when i am in mundane society.. it was easy for people (especially men) to take advantage of me in my youth.. it was pretty traumatizing.. but i still cannot escape how utterly arousing those memories are, of being taken against my will, or told to shut up and held down by my throat when i protested.. it was something i desired on a level i wasnt ready to come to terms with at the time.. now, i am able to vocalize these things to my lover and am in no danger of being led astray by those who do not have my best interests at heart, or worse..
dont think. " i wish i could get over this bdsm stuff," and think, "i wish i could get over whatever it is thats preventing me from indulging these fantasies in a safe, sane, and consenting manner." may take a long time, but if you think that bdsm is the problem, you will never be satisfied fully.. its a part of your sexual personality..