Submissive/Slave Please introduce yourselves here

Hi
i've sort of introduced myself elsewhere - but people seem to be doing it twice (!)
i'm a 35 yr old sub boy in an open but strictly controlled relationship of seven years. My Master is older, wiser and sadly not living with me (yet), though we are married now. Am based in the North West of the UK.

Always glad to talk about my relationship if it helps, and keen to learn from all of you through your experiences. Loveto meet/chat with /get to know people from the Uk and all over - also travel quite extensively to the states and Oz particularly.

Am very excited as Master has lent me to one of His friends to go to the legendary Inferno party near Chicago in sept. gulp. Although to earn the privilege i am strugging through an unprecedented period of chastity! *crying* lol

Hi all . I made a new name. I was under Davidnhisgirl, and Daddy let me make my own account *go me!*

So I just wanted to say hi!

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Hi all . I made a new name. I was under Davidnhisgirl, and Daddy let me make my own account *go me!*

So I just wanted to say hi!

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Hello again emi

welcome emi!

im new to all of this im a 28 year old sub my wife is my misstress but is also new so i dont feel that i get the punishment i deserve. and i just found this cummunaty its nice to find a place like this. i guss i dont really have any Q's exept maby how to get my misstress to be more of a dom

ops i forgot im Eric

hi

my name is q8yslave , , i am 21 yrs male slave from kuwait, and i dont have any owner yet and actually i didnot used to have, from my deep inside i feel that i was born for one reason which is ( to be a reall slave/server for a strong female) i totally new on this sit so i dont have expriense, , but i will gain it becouse i love it,,,
when my owner get me i will always ask my self ( how to get my misters happy from me)

:wave: Hi I am mihara and I am an 18 yr old bisexual female submissive in the USA. I am new to the board and to the BDSM lifestyle so I don't have really any experience and right now am learning the ropes so to speak. My fantasy (which I would like to become a reality) is to be dominated by both a man and woman. :)

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:wave: Hi I am mihara and I am an 18 yr old bisexual female submissive in the USA. I am new to the board and to the BDSM lifestyle so I don't have really any experience and right now am learning the ropes so to speak. My fantasy (which I would like to become a reality) is to be dominated by both a man and woman. :)

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May all your fantasies come true!! :wave:

Hello, I'm new-explorer, and I guess it would be obvious by my name that this is all new to me...or is it?

In past relationships I had always felt that something was missing, and I always blamed myself for it, I felt that I wasn't good enough, always tried to do better. I have come to realise now that I was just never with someone who could accept what I was offering, can't really blame them...I didn't know what I was offering either.

About a year and a half ago I ended a 13 year relationship and began MY life, I started talking to people and looking at things on-line, about 6 months ago a light bulb came on for me and I realised that I am submissive.

In the last several months I have talked to anyone who could offer me any kind of guidance in learning more about myself, I have become so much more secure in myself than I have ever been, although I still feel I have a long way to go.

I very recently met someone who is at about the same place as I am, he has recently discovered that he is interested in exploring his dominant side. I guess at this point I am just wanting to learn as much as I possibly can, and hope that the bond that has already begun to form for us grows to something I can't yet even imagine.

Any guidance and suggestions are welcome as my eyes are getting square from looking at this monitor.:eek:

ok, i'm fallenstar, or just Mel, i'm a submissive and quite new to the scene. i've just recently began my first dominant/sub relationship with my best friend once we noticed the feelings were there. i look forward to learning more.

I'm an NYC newbie - a woman and (obviously) a sub. (Hi y'all!) I've been reading like crazy but have yet to actually RT anything, although I will be checking out the local BDSM group... as soon as I get a damn night free! I'm pretty busy working with an anti-Bush group. He's been keeping us pretty busy for the last few years and, I must say, the fact that he's keeping me from having my BDSM fun is yet another mark against him :30: :)

Anyway, looking forward to chatting with everyone here.

-lily

Hi lily and welcome!

My name's Nikki. I have an introduction thread, as well as this, but I'll repeat:

I'm an 18 year old college student in Colorado, US. I'm a bisexual submissive. I have recently entered a relationship with my new Dom, and I'm having lots of fun so far!

-Nikki

Most of you already know me, but believe it or not I just found this part of the forum LOL... so I am Nia... but everyone calls me Nia. my dom and I are new to all this and we are here to learn. Don't know what else to tell ya... but you can ask :icon176:

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so that any questions can be addressed to you by name ---if you like to include a brief history in you inrtoduction please do so.

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i am a female sub open for any thing 25 yrs old

Hi. Im subtlenewbie, a 38 yr old female, (mostly het but not entirely) single mom and a (surprise!) nurse. Last spring I was just ending a dead end relationship, and met a wonderful Man who through three weeks of seeing each other every day, and months of being on the phone... moved to my town two months ago.

Funny thing, I was (mostly) vanille up until this spring. My MAN figured out in about 10 minutes that I was a submissive... and pretty sooon he had me convinced too. Im still learning a lot, its been a long distance relationship for most of it, plus his resettling into a new town has put a slow down on this side of our relationship, but things are progressing. Im just happy to have found this site and meeting cool new people.

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so that any questions can be addressed to you by name ---if you like to include a brief history in you inrtoduction please do so.

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am a very submissive female who likes to be used in any way a master or mistres sees fit pain humiliation water sports

Hello, I'm Char. Short and easy, what you see is what you get. I'm probably a lot younger than most of the other subs on this site (and many others) but I have been in one, long steady D/s relationship for nearly 4 1/2 years with a much older man.

I am a submissive, who is bi-sexual. Submissive doesn't equal doormat for me though. I am "service oriented", enjoying the act of caring for others. I nurture, and put forth all of my efforts to please.

There are, admittedly, many things I have not yet experienced, but I am open to all with someone I trust. I give myself as a whole to that special person I submit to. For me, it is all or nothing. If I cannot give myself over fully, then I won't at all.

Thank you,
Char

Hello all, I am Xan_in_chains herein, but Xan is fine. That's actually my name! XD
Anyway. I learned I was a sub about one year ago; I was discussing my at-the-time girlfriend's previous relationships which I learned had been of a bdsM inclination. I made a joke about it; the issue made me uncomfortable. And she said I was in deeper than I knew. I was initially slightly offended but we discussed it, reassessed and so forth, and sure enough it made sense-I was just used to giving her the responsibility in all spheres, obeyed her without question, and loved the comfort of obedience. So I suppose after a little soul-searching it became official and from that point it just improved since I could put a finger on it, and obviously new... 'elements' *cough* were introduced which were very enjoyable. Since then I've bottomed for her and a man, and I find that I enjoy both for different reasons. That is to say, whilst I do not identify as gay I'm comfortable with another man in that scenario because of the utter submission involved. Plus, being of fairly small-to-average stature a lot of guys are bigger than me so the sensation of helplessness is really augmented in a male-male scenario, which I especially enjoy. However, in my experience whilst a man has additional strength which is desirable my Lady was capable of greater finesse and subtlety. One can but judge based on his own experiences and so I tend to assume that these themes are consistent to a degree which might allow generalisation among Dom/mes. I have unfortunately been recently disowned by my Mistress; she tells me it isn't my fault, but I'm sure here is no place to whine. I'm not sure if it's a consistent theme among subs and perhaps unhealthy, but my adoration of her was and is absolute. Whereas many are those who have claimed they would do anything for the one they love, given the context that claim becomes rather more comprehensive, in my opinion. And it's left me... in a sense rather helpless. I imagine it is something of a personal failing on my part, but our arrangement was such that I traded personal responsibility down to sleeping arrangements, food (this is an area find especially difficult) and day-to-day tasks, for utter obedience and I enjoyed her praise and punishment equally; anything she saw me worthy of was a blessing. Thus, the responsibility of just going about my affairs autonomously just seems to horrify me. I spent some time throwing up that day, I'll concede. And now after two and a half years... Anyway I realise that I've gone off on some dreadful dirge and so will here conclude that I'm now 'free' in the worst sense, and so appear before you perhaps a shadow of a shadow, hoping to find support and hopefully the opportunity to serve once more. Good grief, how tremendously self-indulgent...

Xan

very sub female any thing goes love to be tortured humilited pain golden showers scat? dont know have to think on it

I am VInod from Indore INDIA. i feel that i am a submissive . actually i am having noe real time experiance but i am very much interested to get into real time. i am looking for Indian Femdoms.
i request the Femdoms near me to kindly send me pvt. message i will be highly obliged.

Welcome everyone!

Hello all. I'm Iron Lynx, most people online just call me Lynx. I'm in a RL D/s relationship, though our relationship is still fairly new and we are still learning each other, so to speak. I'm American, and my mistress is Australian, which means that until we decide weather or not to get married (or one manages dual-citizenship or something of the like) our relationship is punctuated by some rather agonizingly long "dry spells." Though, I suppose our situation just makes our meetings all the sweeter.

I'm here to learn the things I want to know, as well as all the things I don't know I don't know. I'm happy to answer any questions I can, weather they be about me or what lies within my, as of yet, limited knowledge. Feel free to PM me any questions you have for me.

Hello everyone. I am schiavo, its Italian for enslaved. I am currently a 30 year old, owned slave to a wonderful man whom I've had the great pleasure of serving the past two years.

I have been active in the lifestyle for about 5 years now. I think most of us whom identify as submissives or slaves can see a pattern of our need and want to please throughout our lives. At least I have found this to be a common trait amongst subs and slaves. I say this because I, like many, have always had a desire, a real need to please others. It wasn't until I started exploring chatrooms about 6 or 7 years ago that I began to notice there were others that shared common interests/needs to serve and please. It was around that time that I started researching the lifestyle and reading up on a variety of things. Also, around this same time, I began to realize that I could no longer push down and away this need in my life. I felt I was dying without it. I began learning small things here and there. Realizing all through my learning process' I was beginning to grow and open.

Like many, I have come across those who are not "good", for lack of a better or more appropriate way of putting it, dominants, but I've also found many that are sincere. I feel rather lucky and blessed to have been accepted by my Dominant. He isn't one for a lot of formalities but He is one that has accepted me for me, with all the drama and chaos that comes with me and is apart of me at times, He is still here with me, He still wishes to own me. He desires to have a second slave and He is currently looking. I wish for Him to be happy and will be glad to serve Him with a sister.

I tend to become long winded when writing things and apologize if I have done so here. I am open to answering any and all questions others may have for me and am also okay if there are none to answer. I am simply glad to have found this site and to be allowed to explore it when time allows.

Thank you A/all. May each and every day be pleasant and bring you and Yours happiness.

schiavo(enslaved))

Hi all.. i just join this web...

I'm a sub so far that i know... i dunno if i can be a slave yet, must experience more in it to i know... but so far i prefer myself a sub...

Just have this lifestyle half year ago, getting know more with ppl that share their knowledge... rarely play in the scene... still didn't met the right one although prolly have met but seems didn't work out... still take time in searching the right one...

I like here coz i get more knowledge in the forum i read about :) and the people are very nice in here.. thank u all...

hi everyone i'm drinkinggirl and as the name implies i do enjoy the alcoholic beverages haha, but it doesn't mean i drink all the time otherwise i would have went with alcoholicgirl.........
I have known i'm a sub for some time, it's funny in life i do not like being told what to do, but when it comes to sex thats my biggest turn on, luckily i'm with someone who knows how to turn me on, and we have grown and explored with each other for the past 5 years. I have reached heights of pleasure i don't think i would have without this lifestyle.
Just for general knowledge, I do like sports, i play tennis, i make jewelry, i love to sing and with all the other attachments in life that takes up all my time.
I have been going through a stressful time in my life my mom has had 5 strokes in the past 4 months and we're going on our 3rd surgery and countless dr. appointments and tests.......i'm glad i found this place as it's provided a boost for me and its fun to read about other experiences and makes it a little easier to put myself in that frame of mind so i can enjoy being a sub.

I did a basic intro in the "Introductions/Welcome" section, here's a more detailed one:

I'm a 46 year old submissive male, married to a wonderful & very dominant woman. I have nearly 30 years experience in BDSM, always as a sub, (with the exception of one time in play with my first wife, at her request, not satisfying to either of us, to say the least), & am always learning, reading & researching to learn more about myself, who & what I am, & why. I have no problems being submissive, I just crave a greater understanding of self.

I am always willing to answer questions, offer help or advice, & do whatever else I can to help others along this journey.

While I am a male sub, I am NOT a believer in absolute rule by women, or that EITHER gender is "superior". I've been around the scene too long to believe such nonsense, & I freely acknowledge that dominance & submission are personal traits in people, regardless of gender. So if you're looking for advice or info on a "FemDom ruled world", please ask others that share that same belief. I'm NOT putting down those that believe in that fantasy, it's just not what I or my Wife are into. We are too busy with the reality of a D/s based marriage to spend time on imaginary musings.

We are very D/s oriented, with a strong Domestic Discipline, (DD), streak, along with being into S/M as well. My Wife is the Head of the Household, Her word is law, & She always has the final decision regarding how things are done. I do have a voice, & an opinion, & have rights, as we both acknowledge I am a sub, not a slave.

I am especially adept at blending BDSM into a marriage/relationship & will always be willing to help others there, no matter what level they wish to achieve.

If I can be of help with anything, please don't hesitate to ask here, or to PM me!

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Hello everyone - I stumbled across this thread so I think a more specific introduction might be in order here, no?

So, I'm Brooke and I'm somewhere between being a submissive and being a bottom. For me, there are subtle distinctions between the two, mainly in how control I must be of a situation and how much the BDSM world figures into my everyday life. At the moment, I am doing nothing real-world BDSM-ish, unfortunately. If you've read my intro to the general forum, you'll see that it's just not an option for where I am at the moment. God, I don't even want to imagine the rumours that would start about me if this particular aspect of my life became public knowledge! Haha.

In the past, I was fairly active as a submissive in real life. I have been very lucky in my relationships and have had a number of truly spectacular experiences BDSM-wise. I had a very long relationship with a couple, actually where there was a Domme and a Switch, but I loved their rules - he never was allowed to have direct contact with me (specifically, sex) and she controlled everything. It worked so well for everyone involved and I just loved them to pieces. It was with this lovely Domme that I ALSO got to experience my first "sales" experience and hoooooboy, was it the rush. She sold me for a day to the highest bidder of her Dominant friends. She and I completed the bargaining - what I was ok doing, what I wanted to do, what would be a punishment, was was a complete no, etc, so that on the day of, there was very little bargaining I had to do with my new, temporary Dominant. It really did feel as if I'd just been sold into slavery!

Other than that couple, I have developed relationships with many other people into BDSM - some I was lucky enough to play with, some are merely friends, others are more professional (I take photographs and love fetish and kink portraits!), etc.

So that's me - I'm not really into anything formal for the time being and I REALLY need to see if there's much of an Edmonton scene anywhere going on, but for now, you guys are it. :)

hi all :)

ive been on this site for a while but never formally introduced myself...

for now i live and date in the vanilla world and serve as a hobby or outlet... i serve a long distance owner who is amazing and brilliant, but we do live far from eachother... i live in nyc and would like to have a real life experience... i dont want to try and meet people at crunches or clubs as i value my privacy and discretion...

thank you all for being here, this site has been helpful and supportive in my journey into submission and slavery...

slave-juice