My Family and O/our life.

There has been some new developments in my life recently, not all of which have shaken out as yet. I thought I would start this thread to give everyone a glimpse into my little polyamorous family.

This will serve as an introduction to those of you who do not know U/us.

I am Rhabbi, and I am a writer, and sort of a know it all. I did not come here looking for a ploy group, but it seems that I have one.

Mishka was the first one of my family I met here, and she has been with me form the beginning almost. She became my slave a in March. We have had O/our ups and downs, but we are definitely a d/s couple, and proof that online relationships can work. Mishka has been busy with some off-line work involving a hobby of hers, this has kept O/our contact to a minimum the past few weeks, and we have been greedily grabbing everything we could.

kestrel and I have been talking, and we have decided that we belong together. I actually treasure the day this happened, because the date, 26 June, was significant to her for another reason. She chose to take a date that had a bitter memory for her, and give herself to me on that date. I will always be proud of her for that. I will definitely be moving her way soon, probably next month.

At this point I consider both Mishka and kestrel to be collared. We will be having private collaring ceremonies at some point, and some invitations will go out to some special friends at that time. I wanted to let everyone here that is part of my larger family know what is happening with this small part of U/us all. I am proud of both Mishka and kestrel, and am dumbfounded that they choose to spend time with me.

My great and good friend,

I am happy for you and always like when people here share. Good luck to you. You are a lucky man. And Kestrel and Mishka are very lucky too.

I shake my head every day and wonder why the lovely gems that play with me do so. But I am beginning to just accept it.

You should do the same, just accept that you gotta be doing SOMETHING right for these lovelies to give you that awesome gift.

And I am beginning to see, after getting to know you a little, what that is. I think it boils down to you being a good sweet man.

Take care and thanks again for sharing

congrats too all 3 of you wish you all the best luch there is.


MrDom

Thanks for sharing Rhabbi,

I can see why these lovely ladies would want to be with someone as caring and thoughtful as you appear to be.

I wish you all the best of luck

Thank you all for the good wishes.

Oh how fabulous for the three of you. I'm really happy for y'all. =)

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Originally Posted by John56

My great and good friend,

I am happy for you and always like when people here share. Good luck to you. You are a lucky man. And Kestrel and Mishka are very lucky too.

I shake my head every day and wonder why the lovely gems that play with me do so. But I am beginning to just accept it.

You should do the same, just accept that you gotta be doing SOMETHING right for these lovelies to give you that awesome gift.

And I am beginning to see, after getting to know you a little, what that is. I think it boils down to you being a good sweet man.

Take care and thanks again for sharing

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That's it exactly John. He is a good sweet man.

Kestral is a wonderful lady and they make each other happy. I'll be squealing like a school girl when they can finally be together wirelessly.

(((hugs)))

Good to see polyamorous relationships working out so well. Much happiness to you all.

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Originally Posted by Rhabbi

....I am proud of both Mishka and kestrel, and am dumbfounded that they choose to spend time with me.

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I know that feeling. I think it's a sign of love. It's always good when both the Master and the slave admire each other. Take care and good luck.

Congratulations to you all!

congrats guys, you are all sooo lucky...hope i can find a family of my own someday

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Originally Posted by TomOfSweden

I know that feeling. I think it's a sign of love. It's always good when both the Master and the slave admire each other. Take care and good luck.

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Thank you Tom, coming from you this means a lot.

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Originally Posted by Mishka

That's it exactly John. He is a good sweet man.

Kestral is a wonderful lady and they make each other happy. I'll be squealing like a school girl when they can finally be together wirelessly.

(((hugs)))

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**hugs and kisses**

My love, it is always nice to hear you say that.

Thank all of the rest of you for the nice comments and congratulations also.

Congrats, I wish you the very best

*soft hugs*

Best wishes to all of you. :)

~smiles beaming with pride~ My Master and my sister I don't know what it was that brought us all together and I have no intentions of questioning it. I never thought that I would find or be found by a Master who is as You are. I never thought I would open my heart again the way I have with my new found family. I have finally found the place where I belong and I thank both of you for your love and support. ~hugs Master and Mishka tight~

Thank you everyone for your well wishes, they mean so much.

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Originally Posted by Mishka

That's it exactly John. He is a good sweet man.

Kestral is a wonderful lady and they make each other happy. I'll be squealing like a school girl when they can finally be together wirelessly.

(((hugs)))

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Originally Posted by kestrel

~smiles beaming with pride~ My Master and my sister I don't know what it was that brought us all together and I have no intentions of questioning it. I never thought that I would find or be found by a Master who is as You are. I never thought I would open my heart again the way I have with my new found family. I have finally found the place where I belong and I thank both of you for your love and support. ~hugs Master and Mishka tight~

Thank you everyone for your well wishes, they mean so much.

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The two of you have made me proud. I never expected to find a family here, I was not even looking. Thought at first this would be a lark, but instead found happiness. thank you both.

Again thanks to O/our extended family for the well wishes.

I found myself smiling when I read this. Lovely for the three of you and I am happy for you.
about you feeling dumbfounded that they wish to spend time with you. Well I think Tom hit the nail on the head there.
congrats again and I wish you all the best :)

Rhabbi thanks for the brief but informative glimpse of your life. Though I am not a fan of polygamous relationships because I feel jealousy will alway raise its head I do want to wish you all the best. When a relationship of this sort works out I can surely see how beautiful it can be. I have been told by more than one that it sometimes is the best thing that could have happened. So I do hope that is the case for you. All my best wishes are sent your way.

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Rhabbi thanks for the brief but informative glimpse of your life. Though I am not a fan of polygamous relationships because I feel jealousy will alway raise its head I do want to wish you all the best. When a relationship of this sort works out I can surely see how beautiful it can be. I have been told by more than one that it sometimes is the best thing that could have happened. So I do hope that is the case for you. All my best wishes are sent your way.

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Like you, I had serious doubts about a polygamous relationship until I met Rhabbi and Mishka. We all mesh together well enough that if something is bothering us we automatically go to each other to work it out thus eliminating the jealously factor. It's all in the way the members of the family function together and we function very well together. I love them both more then I ever thought possible. ~smiles~

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Originally Posted by kestrel

Like you, I had serious doubts about a polygamous relationship until I met Rhabbi and Mishka. We all mesh together well enough that if something is bothering us we automatically go to each other to work it out thus eliminating the jealously factor. It's all in the way the members of the family function together and we function very well together. I love them both more then I ever thought possible. ~smiles~

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As I indicated, some think it is the best thing since sliced bread and I sincerely wish you all well. It has to take special people and special personalities for it to even have a chance. It appears you have the right mix. My best to all of you.

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Originally Posted by Warbaby1943

Rhabbi thanks for the brief but informative glimpse of your life. Though I am not a fan of polygamous relationships because I feel jealousy will alway raise its head I do want to wish you all the best. When a relationship of this sort works out I can surely see how beautiful it can be. I have been told by more than one that it sometimes is the best thing that could have happened. So I do hope that is the case for you. All my best wishes are sent your way.

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Believe it or not, I felt the same way. In fact, I responded to a thread with just that same thought at one time. I was not looking for a poly relationship, but I truly believe that is the best thing for all of U/us. Thank you for the best wishes.

Rhabbi, Mishka and Kestrel,

Congratulations!!!

Congrats!!!! Thanks for sharing Rhabbi, wishing you A/all the best!!!!!

What wonderful news! I'm so pleased for you all :)

You seem amazing people and i'm sure you'll be happy together !

Thank you Rach. That's a very sweet thing to say. Thank you everyone for being so kind.

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Originally Posted by Rhabbi

I am new to this forum, in fact to the entire online BDSM community. I have been living behind closed doors and with some trepidation that I would be discovered, but since I know who I am I thought I would be a little less secretive. If someone finds out who doesn't like who I am, they can just go away because I will not miss them.

I am a Dom who is currently feeling out a potential sub. This is, as always, an interesting process. It has been especially difficult for me these past years because of my desire to hide who I am. This new sub is open about who she is, and this adds a degree of difficulty for me.

If anyone has any advice for me I would be interested in hearing it. I am not proud and know that everyone can contribute if we give them a chance. In other words, any subs out thee are welcome to chime in also.

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Originally Posted by Rhabbi

I am looking for a female sub that is at least 30 to chat with and learn about the online BDSM community.

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Those are your first two posts on this board, what it a year it must have been for you. Congratulations, chocolate and champagne - which you just have to share with your two lovely ladies, Mishka and kestrel.

*Beams at one of the happy threads here...*

cariad

Wow cariad, thank you for reminding me how far I have come in such a short time.

Wow! This is really great! I love hearing about blooming relationships :D

Congratulations! I wish y'all the best of luck.