I'm looking for some ideas to humiliate my female sub most of the stuff out there is for male subs does anyone have any ideas?
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I'm looking for some ideas to humiliate my female sub most of the stuff out there is for male subs does anyone have any ideas?
I Believe there's a thread about humiliation in the erotic photo's section http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/sh...ad.php?t=15772 <=link
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we actually have had several threads on the subject both boys and girls varities
it depends of course on your current limits between you two
on the lighter side
having her go to a grocer and purchase a cucumber or a corn on the cobb and nothing else but some ky jelly for lubricant was a task i found to be adorably erotic and humiliating (i know from personal experience)
one that envolved several people was when a group of my owners buddies were in town, dressed for the clubs we pulled into a convience store in two different vehicals, everyone got out and milled in the parking lot while little ole me (looking one step away from a hooker) had to go inside in plain view while all the guys catcalled etc, and purchase two whole boxes of condums ,,,,it was especially deliciously humiliating
variations abound on the shopping trip humiliation tasks of course, the only limits are you and her's imajination,
you may even want to plumb her mind by having her write down like twenty ideas she is willing to try someday, then shelfing them for a while and modifiying them at your convience and later after she thinks nothing is coming introduce one of them as a task
How about going out to dinner with her wearing a skirt, and having her go to the restroom, remove her panties and put them in her purse? That's a classic. :)
Or if you have a friend who is interested or involved in the lifestyle, you can take things a bit further by having her perform tasks for you in front of the friend.
of course, it all depends on both of your limits.
what you should do is fuck her tothe point were she has cum dripping down her legs and on her face and hair.
then make her go out in public wearing a short short skirt
then sit back and watch.
give her a enema and plug her butt with a buttplug to hold the water in.then go out for a drive with her somewere and then have her empty her arse outside. could do it infront of people in a very public place but i wouldnt recoment that unless you want to be arrested lol.i would do it somewere quiet but with chance of passersby.
or what about locking a nappy on her and giving her some laxatives and then sending her out shopping or somthing.
Shopping rocks.
Elsewhere I've suggested creating a shopping list of bottom shelf items... and send your sub out in a short skirt, no panties, and not allowed to bend her knees.
A shopping list of sexual items, such as lube, and required to ask a male clerk his opinion of the various choices.
Shoe shopping in a short skirt, again pantiless of course.
Go lingerie shopping and insist she model the choices for you... out where she can be observed... even better if you can arrange someplace classy... and have the salesperson "assist" her making quick changes so you can compare colors... without having to wait while she would otherwise disappear into a dressing room.
Go furniture shopping... like for a dining room table... and have her test the height by leaning over the table... or over the back of a couch...
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Originally Posted by denuseri
Those are hot idea's! :icon176:Quote:
Originally Posted by Ozme52
...stick her some needles under her toenails. Very painful *gg*
Is any (female) sub here who would like this?
Marco
My opinion is the very first place to start is to get inside your submissives head. Until you know him/her and understand well what makes the submissive tick, what it is that he or she fears or really finds humiliating, can you begin to formulate tasks which will actually push those psychological buttons that bring true humiliation and discomfort.
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What he said
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This has everything to do with pain and nothing to do with humiliation.Quote:
Originally Posted by LordMarco85
I dont know if anyone here would like that paticular torture. I for one would not.
We once went out to buy a new riding crop and did of course go to a quite fine "horse" stuff shop and selected a very nice one. I made her bend over, lifted up her skirt- she's pantiless of course and gave just one stroke, asked if it's good, which it was turned to the very surprised, her jaw was on the floor, cashier, and bought it.
Make a nice breast bondage and let her wear a tanktop or similar that shows it.
Slutty or very misplaced clothes or all to young for her age.
Lead her around in a collar and a leash, maybe combined with the hands cuffed together.
Using a remote controlled dildo and enjoy her reactions when you turn it on.
Using butt- plug and dildo at the same time. Gives a very nice gait.
Else just use your imagination and remember to stay inside the subs limitations.
I wouldn't even like doing itQuote:
Originally Posted by denuseri
I agree with needing to understand and commmunicate to figure out whats best but... couple ideas come to mind...
Start with, and I dont know much about rope bondage but its something im learning about, could do a set where you bind her up in some while not incredibly uncomfortable, maybe so when she moves a knott rubs her clit, or squeezes her breasts, and have her put that under a dress and go out to dinner at some fairly nice resteraunt. While at the same time perhaps have a vibe egg in her ass or pussy with remote you control.
Also could get her like a (baby) bottle to have her drink out of while in public.
make her wear a vibrating clit clip/ring which you have control of.
(as you can tel alot of mine are -in public- things)
have her carry a paddle in her purse, and if she does something bad, naughty, what not, you could have her bend over and you give her a swift paddeling whereever you are.
for something around the house, make her wear really kinky bondage lingerie, ones that expose her breasts, or crotch area, maybe frilly type maid set with that whenever shes around the house, and only let her put on a see through nighty to answer the door.
Some ideas, really though alot of its in her mind, and you need to delve into that. I think someone else posted the idea of making her write up a list to give to you, thats a good idea. Hope some of my ideas might come in handy!
FTjr
Clearly off topic. Humiliation is a mind game...Quote:
Originally Posted by LordMarco85
Have her drink several large glasses of water over a short time. Don't let her use the bathroom. Dress her in short tight shorts take her to the mall shopping still not letting her relieve herself. While at the mall have her drink more water, ect. After a time you can guess what will happen. When she does wet herself make her still walk around the mall shopping.
That seems a little...TMI. Not everyone in public wants to "play" this too.Quote:
Originally Posted by DarkHorseSr
Well, sorry, misread the title. English isn't my mothers speak so I'm sorry :) I know it's a special fetish with those needles ;) Oh dear, I'm missing InSex so much :(
Greetings
We had a vibrator with a wireless remote control that was very nice. Would go to a restaurant or a shopping mall and turn it on at opportune times. It was loud enough for the server to hear a low hum and always wonder about the noise. If asked, my girl was required to answer truthfully and in detail about what the noise was and what it was doing.
She always loved that, no matter how much she hated it.
wow you guys are all about the public humiliation thing >.> I'd worry about running into my boss or potential employer or being arrested for public indecency.
well that's just me anyways lol
A very safe public humiliation is making the slave ask for specific items at an adult bookstore. Make her introduce herself and say that her master sent her, and then have her ask specific questions about butt plugs, etc. For fun you can make her ask (while keeping a straight face) about their return policies on sex toys.
Much less of a threat of involving people who'd rather not be exposed to your perversions, since the clerks at most porno shops have seen it all.
Ok folks... Friendly reminder from your neighborhood admin...
The point of this thread is to solicit humiliation tasks & the like for a female sub. That includes ALL things related to humiliation--public, private, physical, verbal, etc. Just because YOU don't consider something humiliation, or YOU don't agree with it, doesn't mean it isn't "fine." As always, YOUR opinion is yours & yours alone... everyone else is entitled to theirs!
Please refrain from making snide or snarky comments about other peoples' ideas; if you don't like them, you don't have to use them!
teke yr sub to a restaurant find a table thats kind of out of the way make her take off her bra while still having her top on have her lay it on the tablethen have her expose her breast to u then have her remove her panties ,lay them on the table have her stand lifting her skirt to her waist ,only at the front so u can see but not others
just my own private humiliation task. Being made to cum on your food and then to eat it off the floor.
This one is for those privately minded: Make her into a piece of furniture, like have her sit on a big vibe, in the middle of the room. Make sure that it's one of those days that something you really like is playing on tv. Then have her hold a tray of your favorite snacks. Then pay her no attention other than to eat your snacks.
You should also blindfold her so that she isn't watching tv as well.
Whisper sweet nothings in her ear while you are penetrating her...Then blend in praises about her being your good girl, a great slut, and tell her what a whore she is for letting you fuck her any way that you want. Don't forget to remind her that she is Your whore! :)
Spank her over your knee and check how wet she is. Then tell her how naughty she is for getting so turned on. So of course she needs another spanking. Then another for being so naughty and dirty for being so turned on by it. And so on and so on......
don't give him any ideas!
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I like where this is going, DarkHorseSr!!
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Originally Posted by DarkHorseSr
hopperboo, I have had this discussion with many people on this & other forums.
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Originally Posted by hopperbooThat seems a little...TMI. Not everyone in public wants to "play" this too.Quote:
Originally Posted by DarkHorseSr
I’d be willing to bet most people don’t even notice when someone wets themselves. It’s the aftermath they notice.
1) How many people have you actually seen publicly urinate whilst walking in a mall? Probably none. Ever.
2) How many times have you seen people who have already wet themselves?
I think a common misconception is that we aren’t responsible adults.
Humiliation, does not have to be sexual & obviously we wouldn't be dressing in full harness for a force fuck buttake in the middle of Santa's village.
Cane and belt her ass and thighs very hard. Then, go with her to nudist beach. At evening, go to with her to some private non-bdsm party and order her to make a striptease in front all the people.
Have her go to a grocer store and purchase a cucumber and nothing else but some ky jelly for lubricant is a good one an been said in this post already ,how'er add a twist to this .Once she gets back have her return it ,with reason the cucumber is to small an its the wrong lub.
Have her grow her armpit hair for the summer...that should get her attention
i'm new to all of this and my Master just did this one to me today...very humiliating for new subs...trust meQuote:
Originally Posted by E.C. Holland
Have a private party with some of your Dom friends. Simply have your sub serve drinks and snacks on a silver tray. She is of course naked with perfect makeup applied and wearing her collar. She is instructed to allow anyone ( male or female ) at the party to do anything they like to her. Do NOT tell the guests. Then you may observe how bold they get as the night goes on. You may punish her later for any slow service or for being a slut who allows anyone to have her, etc.
My sub once was about 56yrs old. I gave her a huge enema, plugger her up & made her put ona tight dress & she looked pregnant. Then took her in public, made her go into drug store & buy KY jelly & also pack of cigarettes. Then outside she lit a cigarette & smoked it while going to car a block away. She was humiliated on several levels, pregnant & over 50 & smoking too. Also had to buy lube. The we rode around for an hour & finally home for her to run to bathroom!
Make her go to a webcam site like camfuze.com and show her boobs.
(she doesn't have to show her face, so it is anonymous.)
You can also make her show ass or make her ask for money to show boobs so that she feels like a cheap slut
Grapto