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Do you think sodomy is sex or is it a slave submitting to a master?
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Someone asked this wonderful question in the chatroom
Do you think sodomy is sex or is it a slave submitting to a master?
Sodomy is sex. Plain and simple.
Now... how you feel when you do it, especially if you mostly do it to specifically please your master, says whether or not it is also a submissive act.
Yup. I agree with Ozme.Quote:
Originally Posted by Ozme52
^
and I agree with both of you!
Yup, what else is there to say?
Perfect! I agree with you. How about if you both enjoy it equally, but the slave would do it to please her Master, regardless? In that case I vote for- it's both.Quote:
Originally Posted by Ozme52
I agree. And I believe it can be both ^
it is either or both.
What they said.
Sex.
actually i think it could be both... submission comes in all different forms...
but lets face it... sometimes its overly nice for a primal fuck there too
its sex alright but done in a sub dom situation it can be a sub submitting to her dom
Depends on the people and the situation,could be just anal sex,could be a submissive submitting herself to her Dominant
Or submission.Quote:
Originally Posted by rachel06
Have I reached 1,000 posts yet?
When you're right... It's good to be first. :D
Or last.
66, 67, 68....
Hey! I got a 69 there!
Snigger
I completely disagree with this statement!!!!Quote:
Originally Posted by Ozme52
Oh wait, no I don't. I agree with it, like everyone else. Well stated, Ozme.
I agree with Oz. For me, sodomy is just sex, plain and simple. I enjoy anal sex, so I don't "submit" to it. Hell, I have even been known to initiate it. On the other hand, if I was topping a submissive male and decided to take his virgin ass, that would be a submissive act for him. Once we discovered whether or not he enjoyed it, I could then decide if any further sodomy was just sex or whether he was submitting solely for my pleasure.
The short answer is "yes". Sex can be a D/s act or it can be just sex.
But... a lot of people, both men and women, tend to think of ass fucking as subjection and degradation. I'm aware that it can be as loving and sharing as PIV, but I've never encountered it in any other context than BDSM, because I only relate to men that way. So for me, it's all domination.
It's just sex...well most of the time. As said in previous posts depending on the situation it can be great sex or submission.
>.> for me it's more of submission! WOOO!
when it's that easy for one person to answer and all others to agree with him, what can i say, i agree too. it's both, only difference is the context in which it's done.
After hours of deep reflection, I've changed my mind.
LOL. No!! You haven't!!
What's a dom got to do to keep you in line pearlgem? :rolleyes:
Buttfuck ya? ;)
:D
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Originally Posted by Ozme52
Buttfucking.....arousing.....yet dominating......
confusion!!!...confusion!!!....does not compute......must turn self off, erase memory, start again......
Piff!
There, that's better. Now, where am I? Let's see...BDSM Library? How charming. I love a nice read. Wonder what BDSM stands for.................... .................................................. .................................................. ....
People do WHAT??????
Personally I just love submitting (winks) to being fucked hard as hell up the ass.
Blushes,, did I say that? Covers my potty mouth with my naughty fingers. lol
Just wanted to add... today???-- Submission. LOL.
:camera2:if not today then when would be a good time? i'm sure there are plenty to accomodate. :camera2:
It can be both.
It depends on how itīs done.
Okay, I'm gonna come in here and be technical. Sodomy is either oral or anal copulation and copulation is "sexual" intercourse; therefore, sodomy is sex. Whilst there's a negative connotation attached to the word, seems that folks were enjoying both the giving and receiving of anal sodomy since bibical times and probably before.
Is it thought to be a submissive act because of the subordinate position? If so, then even entering the vagina from behind would be a submissive act, no?
Can't believe this thread is getting so much mileage. I blame people like me.
isn't it sexual submission?
whenever I ride a gf from behind they always suffer pain and bleeding
she always seems to get off from it
I've never sodomized anyone who didn't give their full consent
It's sex no matter what. But in a BDSM context, I don't think that either giving or receiving anal sex is necessarily submissive OR necessarily dominant.
Let's say I have a hot submissive boyfriend whom I haven't allowed to cum in, say, a week, and I tell him that I'm dying for a good fuck and I want him to do me in the ass -- but he has to wear his cock ring while he does it. Doesn't seem like an act of domination in that case, does it? :D
Certainly not from his perspective. :rolleyes:Quote:
Originally Posted by Hime
But yeah Hime. That's hot from the top.
submission and discipline.Quote:
Originally Posted by MissConfused
i can only enjoy it in a submissive context.
When i've tried it in a vanilla relationship it just hurt. A lot, and not in a nice way.
But as submission it feels totally different to me, and a lot nicer.
Well, nice might be the wrong word. But much more enjoyable anyway!
Love Love Love anal!!! I don't know why I wasn't doing it YEARS ago. Have only been doing it about a year now and wow. Awesome!!!! I don't see it as an act of submission since I love it so much. But, in a BDSM sort of way, I guess it could be an act of submission if a Dom really wanted it and was willing to take my ass forcefully ;)
Sex or submission? Either or both all according to my mood at the time.