Anal Orgasm?

Ok, this question developed as a result of an interesting conversation I had and from a couple postings over in General Talk. I've searched the Forum for more information, but there were only limited posts about it at all. So...

What is an anal orgasm and is there really such a thing? Seriously, inquiring minds want to know. Tom of Sweden says there is, but he also said it was just not the Big Kaboom" for him personally. I'd like to hear from anyone with experience in this, but especially from the girls, since I'm one of 'em and all. Nothing against hearing from guys and their experience (kinda turns me on, so feel free to share!), but the male anatomy is a bit different from a female's (bet some of y'all didn't know that, did ya?? :p) and girl answers might be a little more in tune with the song I'm trying to play here.

But anyone, go ahead and share what you might know? Please? And thank you! :)

Males are the ones that bonus from anal pleasure.there gspot is in there arse and giving them prostate massage to the Gspot will make a man multi when he cums,Its taboo but most men feel its a gay thing to have anal sex, but i say the men that dont have sex there are missing out of some of the best intense orgasms you could ever have.They make great toys for men to help them also one is called Aneros MGX Prostate Massager and it hits the prostate when in the arse,I hope this helped you with your question.

Nearly the same post I made in Wolfies thread where you initially asked the question...


Yes, I have orgasmed during it and it wasn't quite as bad as Tom's experience, in fact it was wonderfully intense and pleasant!!

It is a different experience than clitoral or vaginal orgasms. When I am receiving anal I am more aware and alert to every movement of my Masters cock (or the toys he may be using on me) because of the obvious dangers if its not done right, as well as the fact that it is exquisitely more tight and stimulating so I can feel every little movement. These factors also come into the cumming experience, it’s more intense and powerful and it can easily become too much and very sensitive.

The most intense anal orgasms I have experienced is when I have been played with inside my pussy and ass at the same time and I vividly remember the first time Master and I did that, if I hadn't been tied over that chair and gagged I would have been jumping and screaming like a banshee it was so excruciatingly wonderful!!

In addition to the other post I will say that I have been practicing anal sex and play for as long as I have been having sex, although being careful not to over do it as I like my ass to be nice and tight, the point I am trying to make is I can take deeper and harder/faster anal now than I ever could and its during these times I feel myself let go enough to cum and during the whole experience I am honestly in my mind going, no, no, no, no, get it out, get it out, yes, yes, yes, yes, no, no, yes, yes, yeeesssssssss...

I have been having anal sex for more years then i can count ,and i cannot cum having anal sex, lets be honest we dont have the tools in our arse to cum that way, we are all about the clitoral or vaginal way, unless we have both ive never just cum anally.And if anyone looks up anal sex online its always about the guy never about woman .

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Originally Posted by Radiance

Males are the ones that bonus from anal pleasure.there gspot is in there arse and giving them prostate massage to the Gspot will make a man multi when he cums,Its taboo but most men feel its a gay thing to have anal sex, but i say the men that dont have sex there are missing out of some of the best intense orgasms you could ever have.They make great toys for men to help them also one is called Aneros MGX Prostate Massager and it hits the prostate when in the arse,I hope this helped you with your question.

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I agree with you, I have given anal stimulation to partners in the past and would most certainly do so again and in fact I think I would enjoy using a strap-on with a willing receiver... does that made me a switch?

~ off to think about that some more ~

I've been involved in some intense female anal orgasms.
and slave327-834-200 describes exactly what i observed from the partner at that time.

I have to admit that i've not had it done to me much at all. and the little I have done i never got the prostrate orgasm.

Wolfie posted this in his thread but its helpful here too.

From Wikipedia

Anal orgasm

An anal orgasm is a sexual climax brought on through anal stimulation, either from an inserted finger, penis, tongue, or sex toy. Some men and some women, though not all, are able to achieve an anal orgasm, resulting in a complete or incomplete sexual climax.

A woman may come to orgasm, without actually stimulating the anus, by stimulation of the buttocks and anal cleft with the tongue.[citation needed] More typically, however, stimulation of the G-spot through the wall shared between the vagina and the rectum, from a sex toy, finger or partner's penis, may bring about an orgasm. This is often greatly facilitated through additional manual stimulation of the clitoris. Anecdotal evidence suggests that some women experience an anal orgasm as qualitatively different from a clitoral or vaginal orgasm, though for many others the distinction is less clear.

In both sexes pleasure can be derived from the nerve endings around the anus and the anus itself. Hence, anal-oral contact can still be pleasurable without stimulation of the clitoris. Also, the anal orgasm has nothing to do with the prostate orgasm, though the two are often confused.

Damn it .. ya'll... now i'm curious about prostrate orgasms ...

htt p://sexuality.about.com/od/analplay/ht/htprostate.htm

There you go Wolfie

I find it very enjoyable when my Mistress uses her strap on in me and I do cum its very exciting

i have experienced anal orgasms... the largest difference for me between an anal and a vaginal orgasm is that an anal orgasm, although very satisfying never seems to be completely fulfilling. The response is almost the same but with just enough difference that it doesn't take away the feeling of "need" that accompanies a vaginal orgasm.... if that makes any sense....

Annie it does make sense. I've not heard yet of anyone who would do with the AO alone .. they still want the whole nine yards and 2 feet if they can get it.

*S* mmmm YES.. have used an aneros it has enhanced my orgasms OH SO Wonderful *S* in thinkin about it .. the only thing that would maybe make it better is having a sub/domme manipulate it *S*

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Originally Posted by slave327-834-200

Yes, I have orgasmed during it and it wasn't quite as bad as Tom's experience, in fact it was wonderfully intense and pleasant!!

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That is so good to know! I have anal sex, quite a bit of late, and while I find it highly pleasurable, this anal orgasm thing has eluded me. I am glad to know it may indeed exist for women.

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In addition to the other post I will say that I have been practicing anal sex and play for as long as I have been having sex, although being careful not to over do it as I like my ass to be nice and tight, the point I am trying to make is I can take deeper and harder/faster anal now than I ever could and its during these times I feel myself let go enough to cum and during the whole experience I am honestly in my mind going, no, no, no, no, get it out, get it out, yes, yes, yes, yes, no, no, yes, yes, yeeesssssssss...

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I so know what you're talking about with that "yes, no, yes, yes, get it out!" internal dialog. Such an exquisite mix of pleasure and pain. I am just still very unsure about how to find and catch that elusive anal orgasm, but your words here (and over there) are helping.

I'm kinda on a mission here, so really, thanks slave327-834-200, for your comments! :)

Sincerely-
tessa

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Originally Posted by just_annie

i have experienced anal orgasms... the largest difference for me between an anal and a vaginal orgasm is that an anal orgasm, although very satisfying never seems to be completely fulfilling. The response is almost the same but with just enough difference that it doesn't take away the feeling of "need" that accompanies a vaginal orgasm.... if that makes any sense....

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Ok, it does make sense, but my anal-orgasm challenged mind is wondering. Is the orgasm from anal stimulation only or is there more going on? I know slave said hers were more intense with other parts of her anatomy involved, but if it's just anal? Does the orgasm happen then, as well? Just what is going on when a woman experiences that type orgasm?

I feel like the Forum idiot about right now, but you can see that isn't stopping me from continuing on. :o

Thanks!!
tessa

I don`t think I have ever experienced a pure-anal orgasm - I need additional stimulation, preferably clitoral. Oh and if the vagina is involved as well... everything at once... God. Anyway: when I orgasm during anal sex, my anus contracts and grips like anything, I can really feel the contractions far more than with a vaginal orgasm. It`s scarey and divine at the same time; very intense; but yes, I agree that it is for whatever reason just not enough: still need to get that pussy seen to!

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Originally Posted by tessa

Ok, it does make sense, but my anal-orgasm challenged mind is wondering. Is the orgasm from anal stimulation only or is there more going on? I know slave said hers were more intense with other parts of her anatomy involved, but if it's just anal? Does the orgasm happen then, as well? Just what is going on when a woman experiences that type orgasm?

I feel like the Forum idiot about right now, but you can see that isn't stopping me from continuing on. :o

Thanks!!
tessa

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For me at least it is possible to have an orgasm from only anal stimulation. It is harder to achieve and there normally has to have been some great foreplay (which in some way may contradict the above "only anal" statement.... ) but it is still possible. i have experienced light anal orgasms with my very vanilla husband so i know it is possible without adding in the other body parts, extra experiences, etc.

When other parts of the body (depending on the parts) are included it can be more intense. If it is another of my pleasure zones, other then including vaginal, then the orgasm is stronger but still leaves me with the feeling of the "need." Only when vaginal/clitoral stimulation is included in the orgasm does that need finally feel satisfied.

20 plus years I have had anal sex and I cant understand how the woman here have cum from anal sex only, There is Nothing in the womans ass to make her cum.We need more then just anal play to make us cum, but thats juts me talking.

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Originally Posted by Radiance

20 plus years I have had anal sex and I cant understand how the woman here have cum from anal sex only, There is Nothing in the womans ass to make her cum.We need more then just anal play to make us cum, but thats juts me talking.

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I appreciate everything you say here but I must add in that some people are able to experience climax through means other than the usual, ie g-spot or clitoral / cock or ball stimulation. I know I have come, pun intended, very close to orgasm through stimulation of my breasts alone and I have read many counts of similar tales, both in men and women and in fact on these boards I have read about the use of a Dom/mes voice alone to command reaching climax.

I know that the times where I have cum anally I have been in a very heightened sexual state and my orgasms were borne of both physical and mental stimulation.

I agree with slave327-834-200 .
I've experienced Tantric orgasms, given some, given anal orgasms combined and alone with other stimulation, i have been along for the ride on breast orgasms.
Some people just are suited/built to enjoy some things, doesn't make it bad or good .. just all are different and therein lies someof the joy of it all ...

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Originally Posted by slave327-834-200

I know that the times where I have cum anally I have been in a very heightened sexual state and my orgasms were borne of both physical and mental stimulation.

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i think that is a large portion of the key. For me to have a release it has to be not only physical but mental as well. The mind is an amazing thing....

precious{TDS} and slave327-834-200, thank you so very much for all the information you have provided!! I wasn't at all sure I was convinced this type orgasm was even a possibility. But your words have at least allowed me to be open to the idea, which is the first step in making something a reality, is it not? The key points you both made were the need for the mental arousal as well as being in the physically hyper-aroused zone. Knowing what I know about that place, almost anything can happen there. So yay!! There's hope! :)

moptop and Wolfscout, my appreciation to you as well for aising me on my quest. I need all the help I can get, so thanks bunches!!

Now ~giggles lustfully~ time for the application of theory. Oh, yes, yes, yes!

tessa :wave:

20% of woman have anal sex and all i was saying was just anal sex no mind control, no tit touching ,no clit touching or voice can make you cum alone.

I disagree Radiance.
I think more than 20% have anal sex and of that some do cum for anal stimulation alone.
I think it also depends on whether they have grown the appetite for it or not. That is a key too.
And I think a rare few women can train themselves to cum on demand with certain people.

Most recently, a 2006 survey conducted by the Centers for Disease Control determined that the incidence of anal relations in the heterosexual population is on the increase. The survey showed that 38.2 percent of men between 20 and 39 and 32.6 percent of women ages 18 to 44 engage in heterosexual anal sex...went up a little since i looked last, ggls..And thats all i will say on this topic, I still love fucking a man in the ass,mmmmm,I believe its all about there gspot and prostate.

well, i can't speak for everyone else, but in my experiences with anal sex...it is possible for me to orgasm from anal sex alone. i was just talking to a friend about this last night. i have a hard time orgasming just from regular vaginal sex...it usually takes a lot of building up to it and some other form of stimulation as well before i can cum. now i can have clitoral orgasms over and over like nobody's business with no problem! same goes with anal sex. i don't have to have any other kind of stimulation or build up during anal sex in order for me to have an orgasm...and a very powerful orgasm at that. a lot of my most powerful orgasms have come from anal sex.

as for cumming on demand. i'm not quite there yet. i do know it is an achievable thing though because we are at the point now where he can make me cum just from hearing his voice...the things he says...getting me all worked up! god and he knows it too and he likes to drive me crazy with it! lol anyways, so yeah i can cum from hearing his voice...but we aren't at the point yet where he can just up and say the magic words and i start to cum all over the place. maybe eventually ~winks~

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Originally Posted by Radiance

20% of woman have anal sex and all i was saying was just anal sex no mind control, no tit touching ,no clit touching or voice can make you cum alone.

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I can see an experimental session on the horizon... well it is for the purposed of scientific research!!! ~wicked wink~

I'll have to do a search around and find where the article is ... but I once read an article that a woman can have orgasm from just anal sex ... BECAUSE if the penis or toy or finger is positioned right it is actually hitting the G-spot. The taint isn't that big of a piece of skin very thin infact, so when having anal if it's done right you are stimulating the vagina too. I don't have lots of experience with anal sex, very minimal in fact ... it is something I wish to explore more though.

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Originally Posted by baby girl(W)

well, i can't speak for everyone else, but in my experiences with anal sex...it is possible for me to orgasm from anal sex alone. i was just talking to a friend about this last night. i have a hard time orgasming just from regular vaginal sex...it usually takes a lot of building up to it and some other form of stimulation as well before i can cum. now i can have clitoral orgasms over and over like nobody's business with no problem! same goes with anal sex. i don't have to have any other kind of stimulation or build up during anal sex in order for me to have an orgasm...and a very powerful orgasm at that. a lot of my most powerful orgasms have come from anal sex.

as for cumming on demand. i'm not quite there yet. i do know it is an achievable thing though because we are at the point now where he can make me cum just from hearing his voice...the things he says...getting me all worked up! god and he knows it too and he likes to drive me crazy with it! lol anyways, so yeah i can cum from hearing his voice...but we aren't at the point yet where he can just up and say the magic words and i start to cum all over the place. maybe eventually ~winks~

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I find that sooo interesting because I'm exactly the opposite. I can't cum from just clitoral stimulation ... sure it can get me nice and excited ... but at some point something needs to penetrate me *laughs* or I'm not having an orgasm. I am deffinatly a G-spot girl.

Just goes to show how different everyone can be.

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Originally Posted by submissive sugar

I'll have to do a search around and find where the article is ... but I once read an article that a woman can have orgasm from just anal sex ... BECAUSE if the penis or toy or finger is positioned right it is actually hitting the G-spot. The taint isn't that big of a piece of skin very thin infact, so when having anal if it's done right you are stimulating the vagina too. I don't have lots of experience with anal sex, very minimal in fact ... it is something I wish to explore more though.

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The male is the only one with the Gspot in the ass,not woman.But we do enjoy is never the less

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Originally Posted by Radiance

The male is the only one with the Gspot in the ass,not woman.But we do enjoy is never the less

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I don't know if this is what submissive sugar meant but, when I am receiving anal sex, whether from a penis or a toy, something on "the other side", if stimulated by the object in just the right way, causes me to have an explosive orgasm without my clit or vagina touched at all. ~blizz~

My college English prof would have circled this post in red with "RUN ON SENTENCE" scrawled next to it. :p

I think one of the things you are all missing in this question is that the most active sex organ in the human body is the mind .I have both given and recieved anal orgasms for myself i have had an orgasm from just anal and my cock was not even hard at the time. it was a powerfull orgasm but it was not really all that forfilling . as for giving a female sub of mine who is totally into anal has had anal orgasms from the use of a dildo only with out any other stimulations

very true geo slave .... and blizz THAT is what I meant ...

Yes I know that women don't have a G-spot anally and in fact don't have anything in the anus to sexually stimulate them. What I meant is exactly what I said ... The Taint, which is the piece of skin between your ass and your vagina is very thin and thus while having anal sex you can be stimulating the vagina depending on the positioning. You don't have to be touching ANY part of the vagina or clit for it to happen. Also to go along the lines of what geo slave said ... People can have orgasms just from thinking about and looking at feet or hands or whatever ... your mind is your most powerful sexual organ you have. I think if I sat and THOUGHT about being tied up and teased for a period of time I'd have an orgasm ... Hmmmm *goes off to try that*

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I think if I sat and THOUGHT about being tied up and teased for a period of time I'd have an orgasm ... Hmmmm *goes off to try that*

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Started reading this thread wondering about anal stuff. But umm, yeah. What sub sugar said.

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Originally Posted by submissive sugar

your mind is your most powerful sexual organ you have. I think if I sat and THOUGHT about being tied up and teased for a period of time I'd have an orgasm ... Hmmmm *goes off to try that*

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My, my...do let us know how that went for you sugar, won't you?? ;)

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Originally Posted by submissive sugar

The Taint, which is the piece of skin between your ass and your vagina is very thin

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And for any of you that may not know, it is called the "taint" cuz it taint quite pussy and it taint quite asshole. ***giggle*** ~bliz~

Males don't have G-Spots we have P-spots grins.

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Originally Posted by His_blizzard

And for any of you that may not know, it is called the "taint" cuz it taint quite pussy and it taint quite asshole. ***giggle*** ~bliz~

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That really is too cute! :)