New family members to an existing situation...
now, there's 5 women in this household, and a single Master. Also, the Kittiehz. :D
Our new family members sought us out, and it took them a great deal of effort, but find us they did, and they tendered their Requests.
Now begins their education and Training, under Husband, and they're quite happy to be taken in-hand, controlled and Dominated.
I've been Watching, and they are genuienly happy to be here, the crying shortly after the move-in was done proved that--followed by as much love and reassurance/comforting as we could give.
They were afraid that if they failed in the smallest way they'd be 'cast out'...NO, that is not the case. They're Family now, and are being told about such by Husband.
They're being told/informed to reassure just how they 'fit' and how much they are now part of our family, and the feeling of relief is palpable.
It'll still take them some time, that's understandable, but they Know now that they are solid with us, Family, and loved/protected.
If nothing else, the Kittiehz have made that crystal-clear. :D
Georgina, Lynx, she doesn't Trust easily/quickly, and she has accepted them.
Settling In and Paperwork...
As was done for Brianna and Lhana, we will be putting our new family members on our Health Insurance/Medical Coverage plans and also establish new bank accounts for them that earn MUCH better interest.
Before I go farther, those accounts are in THEIR names exclusively, no one else has access to them, same as Brianna and :hana have.
Like Brianna and Lhana they insist on paying into the household, and that's laudable--but Husband Insists that a good chunk of their earnings from their employment go into their accounts.
They wanted to split their earnings 50/50 with the household, however the most Husband will accept is 25%, the rest is theirs by Right, of course.
Once they were shown the info on the new accounts, they were very pleasantly surprised at being able to earn such high rates (1.1%) and also have tax-sheltered Savings accounts in one of the major banks here in Canada.
Finances and bureaucracy aside, Husband's put them through their paces, so he can learn about them and vice-versa, and while understandably somewhat nervous about coming off well, they did fine and he's quite pleased with them.
The hardest thing for them to come to grips with was our powerplant design and interest in building it--but they are getting accustomed to such, after all, such is really NOT something one ever expects to encounter outside some corporate HQ. :D
The technology of the powerplant is Clean, Safe, and once we overcome the nay-sayers and such, will make a significant difference for the Better in our world.
One cannot have 'free' energy, cause the powerplant needs upkeep and such, but people CAN have inexpensive and abundant energy. ;)
And our new members have become as addicted as we are to the gold-mining shows on Discovery Channel. :D
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Basic Training Refresher...
Well, the Kittiehz had a mellow and perfectly pleasant day in their waiting-room and us Hoomans, well...NOT so 'mellow'. :playful:
Morning Inspection is Mandatory and the only excuse for getting out of it is illness. Family members coming down with something are looked after by the rest of us, as one would expect, and we have a pretty good track record for helping each other through Colds, Flues and in such cases as when I was exposed to Hanta virus.
That said it's a Mandatory aspect. The railing that seperates the Living Room from the rest of the room (older home so the livingroom is pretty bloody big) is built very solidly and is just the right height that when your wrists and neck are secured to the top rail, pillory-fashion, it keeps your back level and keeps you bent at the hips.
Normally, with Husband home, I'd have been secured for such also--but with him away right now I'm the one doing her best to keep the proper air of Authority going.
I'm NOT a Dominatrix at all, but I can be 'the boss' when needs-be, overall.
Inspection is done after we finish getting showered, dressed and such for the day, before breakfast, and leg-spreader bars are standard--especially for Lhana, who also requires knee-spreader cuffs+bar as she has a very difficult time keeping her legs open due to the feeling of vulnerable-exposure.
Don't think she doesn't enjoy it though, part of that equation is also anticapatory-excitement. :friendly_wink:
Standard Dress means skirts, free choice of such so long as they're no longer than knee-length, and NO panties as those are permitted only after Inspection. No bras either, although that rule is relaxed during weekdays as time is short due to work schedules.
Inspection is meant to be a Reminder (and a bloody effective one) of the power-dynamic, and involves a very thorough visual and physical/tactile examination of breasts, glands around the jaw, feeling legs for any sore muscles, palpation of the upper and lower abdomen for signs of discomfort, and pelvic area, of course. :friendly_wink:
Any willful resistance or struggling is dealt with summarily via this nasty little toy :biggrin:
"The TAZapper delivers a concentrated spark of differential, non-penetrating static electricity across its gold plated contacts. The contacts are 5mm apart and are looped back into the nose housing to prevent snagging. The unit will deliver an impressive sounding and looking spark repeatedly until the batteries run down. Switching is a single button and is “INSTANT ON” when pushed. There is little or no recovery time for the circuit. It is safe for use on most parts of the body. It comes with a one year replacement warranty, takes two AA batteries"
A jolt from this toy to one's navel immediately makes it VERY clear that one should settle down and behave. :friendly_wink:
That's the 'warning'...if one continues being a problem, a jolt from this to the delicate spot between vagina and anus makes certain one gets the message.
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Fumiko and Mei-Xing did VERY well on their first Inspection. Obedient, properly cooperative, and enjoyed it. They've had Basic Training with a friend of Husband's who is in the Lifestyle also, and have been very eager to explore more in-depth.
The Inspection turned up a slightly sore tendon in Mei's left knee, she was barely aware of, but something that might have gotten worse had it not been caught. Knowing about that knee, I was able to adjust things throughout the rest of the day to favor it and avoid any undue stress on it, and also knew to keep an eye on it in case it got worse.
Right now, she's benefitting from some herbal-based heat-rub on the knee and is carefully working it and massaging it to help it heal and keep things strong. A few tylenol have nulled out the twinges she was feeling.
She's still so surprised at the care...well, that's how it is here--we're a Family and we care for each other. :pride: She has NO complaints.
Most of the day was spent teaching them and re-teaching them Positions, flexibility exercises, taking body measurements (Husband makes most of the things here, so exact measurements are necessary) and fielding Questions as well as introducing and re-introducing them all to some of Husband's more devious creations.
Now, it's been a long day, and it's time for the Fillies to rest a bit, consider things, likely come up with MORE questions and for me to figure out dinner for us all. :smile:[/COLOR]
Re: New family members to an existing situation...
And since I last visited, we have an even larger family. So, now there's 10 women here including myself. BUT, if we'd turned them aside things would not have gone very well for them.
Long story shortened...
Some girls back east ended up in some BAD situations, and we found out about it via friends in the Lifestyle. There was a concerted effort at taking them in so they'd be safe and away from the various predators out there. There was no real choice, all were near penniless with few if any meaningful possessions, had NO plaace to turn to.
Happily, all found Good places with Proper dominants and remain safe from harm, and two have married their rescuers/safe-haven providers. :triumphant:
The girls we took in, well two of them were from Russia, so language is still an issue, but we just work around it. They ended up staying here permanently of their own choice *shrug* and it's all worked out very well for them and the rest of us. They're happy, as are the Kittiehz as there's ALWAYS a lap to be had with ear-rubbing hands. :biggrin::cat::smile-new:
What did surprise them was when they showed some interest in some of Husband's work (like manual Lathe operation) he offered to teach them the basics so they could find out if they genuinely enjoyed it or other things in regards to potential career pursuits. To them, being respected and appreciated was an alien concept but now they know better and know they do not have to accept disrespect and such from anyone.
Re: New family members to an existing situation...
man it has been about a year since we were last on here