Bedtime Bondage

I tried this post in another part of the forum, but no responses so hopefully maybe I will get some here.

My Master/husband has been wanting to think of ways to safely bind me overnight. So far we have tried a collar with a long leash tied off to my nighstand - I have plenty of room to move around and the collar is loosened for sleep. He has mentioned wanting me to sleep in ankle cuffs (soft sportsheets cuffs) with a short chain between and possibly sleeping same type of cuffs on my wrists and clipped together or tied above my head. The reason for the post is to hear what others think or if there are better ideas out there. The whole idea is having me more restrained and easily accessible at night and to be forced to wake him if I want to get up for the restroom or whatnot.

a loop for your big toe that is attached to the foot of the bed.

I'm a little scared a loop made of rope or string possibly could tighten during the night and cause me a lot of pain or harm. It's the reason I'm asking for thoughts - we both want to make sure I won't be harmed during the night since we'll both be asleep and that I won't be in pain as well since honestly I'd be no good to him grumpy from being hurt or groggy from lack of sleep.

For me the enjoyment is the thought of what 'may' occur, soft cuffs with hooks, I can clip/un-clip them at will, so that a leg, or a wrist is tethered at will, when I decide to change the method. The sub sleeps, unaware of what, where or how they are actually held. It's well documented that the imagination will always far out-way the actual deed, hence they sleep soundly, never knowing how they will wake and in what is of my choice.

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I want to please him and I know this is what he wants - he has shown interest and has said me being bound while in bed is his end goal, and would love to eventually attach the cuffs to the bed. Again I love to please him and am also interested, but am unsure on how to go about it. His point is the knowing exactly where his slave is in the morning and knowing I cannot (easily) get up without his permission. So far it's just the collar with a long leash tied to the nightstand and the blindfold like I mentioned earlier - the leash being long enough that I can roll over in bed to the point I could actually reach and lay on the opposite side of the bed.

We're Master/Slave in the sense he makes at least all the big decisions - things like what I want to eat for lunch are up to me most of the time. I may ask for something or express my opinion and he will take it into consideration, but ultimately it's his decision. He doesn't care if I look into this sort of stuff (he doesn't ask to see what I've done on the computer) and actually was interested in the answers I would get.

look into an underbed restraint! they are readily available on ebay are are well worth the investment!

We actually have one he bought from extremerestraints.com. It's gotten it's share of uses and is what got him into thinking about restraining me at night, but neither of us are sure if I could actually sleep with all four cuffs attached since it seems to be meant to keep the person in a spread-eagle position.

try adjusting the straps on them and running them top and bottom of the mattress! that will leave you with arms and legs together, from personal experience, it is effective unless the restrained person is a restless sleeper! you will have major problems trying to roll over

I tend to sleep on my side - though I do tend to roll around a bit and change sides. Now I'm curious if it would still work well only using two of the tethers and loosening them up a bit to allow movement. He's been in the process of adding ankle cuffs (with a short chain) at least some nights, but has eased up the past few nights due to me having a killer migraine. I'll have to report it to my Master to see what he thinks.

I have never slept so well as when my then-master cuffed me to the bedpost -- we did one, but I can imagine legs cuffed together with some slack between would work for quiet sleepers whose feet stay in the same general vicinity. :)

Just adding that when he was away, a heavy chain dog collar wrapped twice around my ankle had enough weight for me to feel confined while sleeping. Yum.

I always use the soft ankle cuffs just one ankle tied to the bottom of the bed and usually give the slave a choice of which one right or left and always make sure circulation is good for the nite

Whatever the restraint there should be enough length to allow the sub to reach the bathroom if need be.

You know rather than bondage during bedtime try being locked in a cage, the smaller the better. I once had to sleep in a dog kennel wich was about 2m×1m ×1m . It was soo wonderful