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    Re: Who Teaches the Sadist?

    The man presented himself as Dom. gave pleasure as Dom, then when he showed his "true colors" as sadist your pleasure stopped and his started. This is summary of what you said, correct? Yes a sadist...
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    Re: Looking for advice

    Just to clarify. You should discuss her likes and dislikes so you are both clear. But I suggested you did not discuss in advance exactly what you would do in a play session.

    Let me explain using...
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    Re: Who Teaches the Sadist?

    @just_ine - You may have misunderstood me, maybe not, your response is not clear. I said the only difference between bdsm sadist and the rvil sadist like the serial killers (example) is the consent....
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    Re: Who Teaches the Sadist?

    @just_ine - Many people confuse impact play with sadism. The key element of sadiism is as PurpleKnight outlined, obtaining pleasure from another persons suffering. If the masochist enjoys pain it is...
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    Re: Who Teaches the Sadist?

    First off I must say I struggle with the mindset of the sadist. The concept of getting pleasure from causing pain in others is something that goes against the values we are taught from childhood....
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    Re: Trump or Hilary?

    Both are terrible. Trump is an extreme Romney. He will do whats best for the wealthy and screw the rest. Hillary can't be trusted but I guess is less likely to screw it up.

    The sad thing is the...
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    Re: Looking for advice

    Personally I prefer to go the other way, not discuss the play at all in advance. I like the element of surprise. That said I am assuming you know all of her sexual likes - dislikes or at least most....
  8. Re: April 10-16, 2016, groups against street harassment

    I'm sure all would agree in clear cases of harassment like you being chased down the street but my gripe is females don't seem to be able to come up with a definition of what harrassment (or abuse)...
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    Re: (Dis)Reapectfully Disagree?

    We are told bdsm relationships are what the partners want them to be. There is no bdsm rulebook. It follows therefore that the Dom who felt disagreement is disrespectful can only speak for himself...
  10. Re: April 10-16, 2016, groups against street harassment

    I'm not sure what street harassment means. I take a strict view on this. For me anybody hindering me from going about my business is harassing me. If a person stops me for directions or to ask the...
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    Re: Looking for integrity......

    I would say the key factor is compatibility. To be honest I'm not sure I know what you mean by integrity. For me integrity means doing the right thing. I like to consider myself the English gentleman...
  12. Re: Questions in pertains to Master and Slave Relationships and punishment and etc...

    @Sk8tan71 - Yes we could and should separate the concepts. I did not simply for brevity and from a statistical point of view they are the same, tainted data.

    Perhaps you are misunderstanding me....
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    Re: Terrorist attacks: safety versus freedom?

    @leo9

    by doing more to make all communities feel that they have a stake in the country where they live

    What does "doing more" mean. They are not discriminated or persecuted. If anything its the...
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    Re: Terrorist attacks: safety versus freedom?

    Yes I'm sure nothing of value came from torture. The experts say it is unreliable and besides that, they are being tortured years after capture by which time any information they could have had would...
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    Re: Terrorist attacks: safety versus freedom?

    @leo9 - I oversimplified when I said infiltration. I did not mean James Bond so much as informers like those you alluded to on the outer circle. Although it is secret there have been statements that...
  16. Re: Questions in pertains to Master and Slave Relationships and punishment and etc...

    @lillyrose - I agree with that the incidence of prior abuse in bdsm is probably the same as in any other community although logically one may expect it to be lower.

    I attempted to offer a...
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    Re: Terrorist attacks: safety versus freedom?

    Civil liberties make it harder for governments to govern. Governments will use any excuse to curtail freedoms. It is said that restrictions on freedoms (ie Patriot Act) were already drawn up before...
  18. Re: Questions in pertains to Master and Slave Relationships and punishment and etc...

    @The De Sade, I think you may have misunderstood the original poster's questions and my answers. The OP posed 2 questions.

    1) But I was curious if there might be any correlation between BDSM and...
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    Easter Spanking Tradition

    In Czech Republic it is custom on the morning of Easter Monday for the men to whip womens' asses with a handmade whip made of willow rods. Folklore has it being spanked with a whip keeps their...
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    The concept does involve complete loss of agency but the reality is it's roleplay or poetic license. Slavery is illegal. When somebody calls themselves an office slave have they lost all control of...
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    But I was curious if there might be any correlation between BDSM and specific childhood experiences,

    An abnormally high number of bdsm'ers I have met have experienced some form of serious sexual...
  22. Thread: Pet Play?

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    Re: Pet Play?

    Petplay is interesting because it can focus on aspects that arouse people. it can be

    Love - the deep affection and closeness we show to some pets, like the stroking and sweet words "good girl"...
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    Re: Online R'Ships? To be or not to be?

    Yes and No. It's like comparing the theatre to radio, They are different types of relationship each with different set of advantages and disadvantages. If somebody is looking for a real life partner...
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    Re: Question on Oral

    Can't help you on the how does it taste question but I'm sure there are more than a few subbies here who can.

    I never understoon oral with condoms, the taste of the plastic must be worse than cum...
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    Re: Masters remembering birtIhdays

    Lets b e a little neutral here. Yes its not good to forget a birthday but it happens. Lets not go overboard. As for calling her stroppy. Thats a strange choice of word isn't it. Of course that's not...
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