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  1. Seeking advice on the challenges of learning to serve properly

    If I ask You, as a submissive to a Dominant, what kind of treat do You like? Will You stop with telling me cookies, cake or pie.. Then leave the rest of the mystery as to what type it is You like up...
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    Re: If you had to choose one...

    *Wavies and smiles big* Hello everyone and Big Hug to you, my Friend *smiles*

    I really like this question *smiles* Though it is really hard to pick just one thing that catches my eye at first?
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    Re: Orgasm Denial... Why?

    Thank You both for Your beautiful answers and advice *smiles*

    SCOOOTTTY *rushes over and gives you a big hug* Good to see you again too my Friend *smiles*

    *bows her head in respect to Solis* ...
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    Orgasm Denial... Why?

    Ok, let's talk about orgasm denial. *sits and looks around VERY slowly knowing EXACTLY who likes those two words best*

    I have one question... Why?

    Oh, i know... it's magical, fun, thrilling,...
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    Seeking advice on Anger and Subdrop please?

    Have you ever triggered the anger of your Dominant, or the Dominant you are playing with while you were dropping?
    By triggered, i mean have you ever done something bad to hurt and/or anger the...
  6. Re: May I ask what Your personal preference is when reading what others write?

    Thank You for the advice, Sir and thank you for taking the time to answer *smiles* I didn't think you were being a snub at all.

    I do agree that there is a time and place for creativity verses...
  7. May I ask what Your personal preference is when reading what others write?

    I am curious about what it is You, as the Dominants, on the other side of the screen would like to see written. I understand and have been told to just be me, do what feels natural, just be honest. I...
  8. Masochist curiosities and seeking advice, Please

    As a masochist that relies on pain to keep her grounded and she is very curious and would like to ask a couple questions please.

    Does one have to be a Sadist to understand pain?

    Does one have...
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    Brat seeking suggestions?

    As a very curious, somewhat playful, with a little teenie tiny hint of brat, newbie submissive I have found it a bit challenging, in an interesting sort of way, to gain the attention of a Dominant...
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    Questions about Online Dominants?

    So I've been walking this path for a few months now, discovering and reading, making friends along the way and meeting lots of new people *smiles* and through many different conversations and lots of...
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    Truth? When to unveil and when to hold back?

    I understand that communication is one of the key points of any relationship. i also understand that being open and honest is one of the many fundamental necessities in building any relationship be...
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    Re: Red Alert Checklist

    thank you all for your responses, I will cherish every word of wisdom you have to offer.

    Jaded Dominant? Thank you for that link, i honestly did not see that one and hope that it is ok that i...
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    Re: Red Alert Checklist

    It appears i have offended you once again.
    First: if you are referring to the question about What a Trainer is? Then yes, i am absolutely guilty of being confused as i am new at this and still...
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    Red Alert Checklist

    How many times have you been asked how to spot a pretender or predator? Are there specific signs to watch for? Will it show in their actions? The words they use? Will it be how they present...
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    Trainer question?

    How are the dynamics different between a Trainer and Dom/me?
    I think that I am starting to understand the dynamics of a Dom/me, Master, And top but now I'm confused as to where the Trainer comes...
  16. Thread: Leather Belts?

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    Re: Leather Belts?

    ok, so the update:

    First? I found the videos to be very great learning resources, Ian Roth and Aiden Star are very good at explaining the many things to watch for, consider, and how to's along...
  17. Thread: Leather Belts?

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    Re: Leather Belts?

    I will let you know about friends and videos soon.

    Vanilla friends: One very Alpha Male and one very quirky female. and both have one hell of a swing *wink*
  18. Rules? Rules? Rules? Where to find them? How to ask?

    Rules?
    There is a huge difference between virtual and reality when trying to maintain conversation in settings of getting to know another, not that it needs to be pointed out? But in reality? There...
  19. Thread: Leather Belts?

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    Re: Leather Belts?

    Well, from one Newby to another, I will take your advice and watch these shows, perhaps I will invite vanilla friends as they both seemed to really enjoy the dishing out the spanking *wink* ...
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    Leather Belts?

    Ok, so as i walk along this self discovery mission with absolutely no experience, in a setting where there is absolutely no clubs, with closest munch being 3+ hours away in all directions, i was a...
  21. Submissive? Slave? Sir? Controlled Sir? Hmmmm?

    I have been trying to field the wonderful world of internet porn trying to find information on understanding the deeper levels of submission in a sense of comparing the difference between submissive...
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    Self Discovery Insecurities?

    I keep hearing and being told that being open and honest is a big part of this voyage, that the only way to remain on the right path is to be open and honest with yourself and that is the key along...
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