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    Re: my dom is not showing his face to me

    Hiya

    This is a HUGE issue for me through my years in the online community.

    Why should the one party be showing all the trust while the other can hide behind a title to keep their security...
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    Re: Little was to fuck men for Daddy

    Hi Scorpe

    Well done on first doing research. A power exchange dynamic can be such a mind-blowing relationship to have, especially when both are open to making the others' fantasies come true.
    ...
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    Re: Questions about Online Dominants?

    I've been active online for about 8 years now. I can unequivocally say that the thing Doms do that really makes me angry is when they mistake domineering for Dominance.

    Ordering me around or...
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    Re: If you had to choose one...

    *grins at Phe* oh, I know that feeling... confidence, not arrogance, makes me feel all squirmy inside too!

    Thank You also, SirWhitefang, for Your response. I must agree, it is personality, that...
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    Re: Online submission

    Dear humble_worm

    Forgive me if I am being forward here. Might I offer a few suggestion on how to perhaps attract the type of Dominant that you are looking for.

    It is a common misconception...
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    Re: Consent is Meaningless Without Agency

    Agreed, medunsa, and thank you for your very true words.

    The important part for me is here:

    The agency is there. It just isn't there for the world to see. And it doesn't need to be.


    I...
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    If you had to choose one...

    I've been contemplating the power exchange dynamic (Something I enjoy doing) and I have a question for both D and s.

    What is the one characteristic that catches Y/your eye when meeting someone,...
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    Re: Expressing your service

    Thank you for your response. But ... is asking for things to be done to you, service? I don't think so.
    Does this mean that a LDR cannot have acts of service?
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    Re: Consent is Meaningless Without Agency

    Interesting and valid points.

    Your own experience mentions 2 things: a history, and trust.

    My issue with submissives who want to experience everything but without those two things. Continuous...
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    Re: Consent is Meaningless Without Agency

    @Jumphigher: an excellent point.

    My Dom and I had a discussion recently where we commented on how, wanting the pain He is going to give me is part of the appeal of playing with pain. As a Dom,...
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    Re: Consent is Meaningless Without Agency

    This is an excellent question, foxy. It underscores the need to exercise caution, to negotiate well, and be mindful when exercising agency and giving consent. Be very sure you have reason to trust...
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    Re: Consent is Meaningless Without Agency

    This is so important. Both give, both take. In different ways and different things. If it is one sided, either the giving or the taking, it isn't going to end well.
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    Re: Consent is Meaningless Without Agency

    I couldn't agree more JD. That is another thread I plan on writing. I've been doing some research and will share that soon.



    Regarding agency:

    I think new people look at old, established...
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    Consent is Meaningless Without Agency

    Agency is an important aspect of any relationship. Together with consent, it forms the basis of WIITWD.


    Agency is defined as:-Psychology Today

    It worries me that practitioners of BDSM place...
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    Expressing your service

    I asked the Dominant version of this question to the Dominant Ones, but I also wanted to know: How do you express your service to your Dominant partner in an online or LDR?
    Are there specific acts?...
  16. Re: Feedback wanted on Questions to ask a potential Dom

    I am having fun, reading the old threads and found this.

    If only more people would create such a list, and ask the tough questions before jumping into a scene, perhaps there would be less damage....
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