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  1. 43yo experienced Master seeking submissive in NM

    Looking for a female submissive in the New Mexico area. Looks, body size aren't important as is frame of mind and point of view.
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    Being in the military I agree with the Court...

    Being in the military I agree with the Court ruling.

    I have signed on the line to give my life for the freedoms we enjoy. That means freedom of speech. It doesn't matter if I don't like what you...
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    Kneeling at his feet, fully clothed sends a...

    Kneeling at his feet, fully clothed sends a pretty powerful message. Simply indicates your frame of mind, and what you're trying to communicate without telling him what to do. He's got the ability to...
  4. Thread: powershift

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    You either reconcile the concerns, or terminate...

    You either reconcile the concerns, or terminate the dynamic or perhaps even the relationship.
  5. Thread: Workplace Options

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    It also sounds stalkerish. Best approach, and...

    It also sounds stalkerish.

    Best approach, and the one women seem to like the best. Be honest.
  6. Thread: Bestiality

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    Assuming the dog, or any animal for that matter,...

    Assuming the dog, or any animal for that matter, is a sentient being. Which for the entire 5 pages is the crux of the argument.
  7. I'd agree this is a good test. One that I've had...

    I'd agree this is a good test. One that I've had put before me as well. Numerous times.
  8. That most submissives will stay committed with a...

    That most submissives will stay committed with a dominant, and not play with others.

    I've seen people in committed relationships take on someone new for mentorship. For instance, a submissive is...
  9. A play scene without sex does require that you...

    A play scene without sex does require that you trust the person to stay within the negotiated terms, just as when you negotiate a full on Master slave relationship, or anything in between. The level...
  10. There is a difference between bottoming and...

    There is a difference between bottoming and submitting. You can enjoy a play scene without sex, if you like, and not have to worry about giving up complete trust.
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    As Oz mentioned, it doesn't take much to push a...

    As Oz mentioned, it doesn't take much to push a person into endorphin overload and hit subspace, subsequently loosing any muscular control or ability to be coherent enough to respond to stimuli....
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    This part of your post jumped out at me. I had to...

    This part of your post jumped out at me. I had to punish it for doing so, and it behaved later.

    Seriously though, you must also remember that a Dominant may want to "punish" you for no reason at...
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    Arms above head naturally restricts our...

    Arms above head naturally restricts our breathing, even though we might not think so.

    Additionally head space can cause us to pass out. So knowing where you were mentally, and how you were...
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    Control by Puddle of Mud. I'm A Slave 4 U by...

    Control by Puddle of Mud.
    I'm A Slave 4 U by Britney Spears
    Choke me, spank me, pull my hair by Xzibit

    And this one can be, if you look at it from a blood play aspect.

    Wolfen (Das Tier in...
  15. Yep. Just contact the organizers and ask to have...

    Yep. Just contact the organizers and ask to have coffee with one of the subs. This way you know someone going in who can introduce you to everyone, rather than you doing it yourself. Pretty common...
  16. Submission is about the release of control. That...

    Submission is about the release of control. That you are in control most of the time, and want that release of control where pleasure is concerned isn't an uncommon notion. In fact, I'd say most of...
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    You either compel him to submit, or he doesn't....

    You either compel him to submit, or he doesn't. This is physically as well as mentally. Did he say overpower him physically or mentally? Physically you're going to need an edge, as lucy suggested....
  18. Thread: How to be safe?

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    You can usually contact the group organizing the...

    You can usually contact the group organizing the event, and one of the fellow submissives would be glad to meet you beforehand for coffee or something. Just say you would like to know someone before...
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    I found my girl, who happens to be my version of...

    I found my girl, who happens to be my version of perfection, by using a self assigned standard. I had things in my head that my future partner would need to have as qualities in order for me to...
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    Like I said, it depends on the state. For...

    Like I said, it depends on the state.

    For Cali...

    http://www.endabuse.org/userfiles/file/HealthCare/mandatory_calif.pdf



    It's going to depend on the medical practitioner, as well as the...
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    So long as your Master isn't in the room, and you...

    So long as your Master isn't in the room, and you don't show shame or fear in telling them that the bruises are consensual, they usually give a knowing nod. There are rare exceptions, and depending...
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    D) All the above. I enjoy the mind fuck, and...

    D) All the above.

    I enjoy the mind fuck, and emotional response of a mind fuck that expresses the fear and excitement within the same emotion when contemplating what it is I mention. I enjoy it...
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    There was character minimum, and my last nick...

    There was character minimum, and my last nick was just too long. :P
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    Trust me, I see things the way you do. It just...

    Trust me, I see things the way you do. It just aggravates me when people say something is done wrong within this lifestyle.
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    If anyone tells you that your version of...

    If anyone tells you that your version of submission is wrong, you know they haven't a clue.

    Submission, and all it entails is exactly what the two people involved say it is. So if one person views...
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