Shocker...lol...another thread that boils down to "people are individuals and we like what we like, dislike what we dislike." I think too many people take others preferences as a sign of acceptance...
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Shocker...lol...another thread that boils down to "people are individuals and we like what we like, dislike what we dislike." I think too many people take others preferences as a sign of acceptance...
Someday, someone will walk into your life and make you realize why it never worked out with anyone else. That's the beauty of Lifestyle AND vanilla couplings - it only really has to work once. ...
Even if the woman lied regarding contraceptives, the guy is consenting to have sex. Sex carries with it the risk of pregnancy. If you're not prepared for that, again, don't have sex. Yeah, it...
This scenario is probably why people should seriously consider, "hey, if something happens here and a kid is conceived as a result, am I prepared to deal with it??" before they have sex.
People...
Nope.
Ask and it shall be given ye, seek and ye shall find. ;)
I suspect I'm on the same train of thought as Delish: is this really an issue or even a common misconception? Of course some sites are...
"Testing" occurs naturally within all relationships. It's the exploration of boundaries, the feeling out of positive and negative preferences. It's typically not a malice laced set-up, in fact it's...
I'm a firm believer in love, m'self. A little waiting for such a lofty thing never killed anyone. So long as there's a clear plan to be together as opposed to a handful of hope and a sprinkle of...
Religion certainly can delude and blind people, like anything else used to avoid life (and there are a LOT of things in the world that will accomplish that in a handy fashion). However, for everyone...
Can't just about anything be chalked up to a coping mechanism?
We eat because we're coping with being hungry, we have friends to cope with being lonely, we have hobbies to cope with being bored...
Some families are just nosier than others...lol My family would probably be the opposite, raising an eyebrow if I were hauling a casual date home or on a double with my brother and his wife. Just...
There's a reason why religion and politics are considered crass topics to bring up in polite conversation.
The folks that are trying to "save" you, well, if they truly do believe that their...
What benefit would explaining BDSM to your family bring to you? My parents and I are close, though I can't really see how my sharing my intimate activities with them would be a real bonding...
This thread got me to wondering so I pulled up my archive of saved Word documents. I narrowed what I looked at down to files saved at the start of the year up through the present date: ...
Hmm. I don't find the message(s) ambiguous unless you take 1,400 pages of fiction and metaphor and attempt to take it much more literally than is intended. As, I find, is often the case with...
I don't come from an abusive background either, but the link between abuse and BDSM tendencies absolutely exists. It would be irresponsible at best to say all of those in the Lifestyle are there...
I wouldn't be inclined to disagree, and that's what made the article interesting to me. BDSM as "therapy?" Good idea, or perhaps a little dangerous? Also, is it disappointing to think of our BDSM...
http://www.good.is/post/how-violent-sex-helped-ease-my-ptsd/
Thoughts?
What are this woman's thoughts on watching your Master Dom you after her session with you?
Both Faerie and Oz have interesting opinions as to your Master's motivations in regard to his request,...
I'd say we're right back to the "to each his own" point with this. Value is determined by the consumer, in this case the Dom. Perhaps the Dom doesn't really care how or why tasks are accomplished...
Never said it was, just that it's a lot less likely. Given the rough demographics of the site, our OP is on the very young side of the spectrum. Most of the ladies here are simply older than him,...
Since this thread is back, and I'm in the mood to derail and/or twist a kink into discussions today, let me go ahead and throw in my two cents:
Personally, I suspect this topic is being over...
If I were trying to tempt you I'd come up with something much more alluring than that. C'mon man, give me some credit. *hehehe*
Something like that...lol Perhaps to put it even more simply, relationships are just different. People are different. Not all subs are precious little buds just waiting to bloom, and sometimes all...
I don't know that I'd agree with the fact that she "should be" anything to him. In a perfect world full of perfect relationships, sure. But, as I mentioned in my reply to Oz, in this case he...