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That you like it is a given or you wouldn't be here, the question is whether you like it enough to play, even if it's only virtual, with someone other than your wife and to what extent. There are...

I second what Malich said about being wary of anyone who pushes for more than you are comfortable offering, especially when you first meet. I, Myself, like to approach subs as potential friends...

it's been My own observation that if their is no kink interest nothing is going to change that, if you want to explore it and r/l isn't an option many people use o/l play as an outlet, done properly...

of course giving over control is empowering, it allows you to be who you are without apology or excuses and to explore your own nature and sexuality free of vanilla social judgement. What could...

There is no worm in Tequila, those are found in certain inferior brands of mezcal, usually from the Oaxaca region of Mexico, and indicate that the plants were suffering from an infestation of the...

as someone who's been a switch for over 30 years I would have to say I'm not at all confused, I know what I want and enjoy and I decided quite definitely not to forego half of it. It has always...

the erotic use of nettles is called urtication (circa 1655) and was a common sexual practice in the Victorian era

a good FAQ is included here
http://www.mordor.u-net.com/smbd/nettles.html#bdsm

This is really good to see, how can anyone expect respect for the law from the people if those charged with enforcing show none themselves?

I've been switching for over 30 years now and I've only found two with whom I could easily and fluidly slide back and forth, usually I will have a sub or two plus one Dom/me with whom to let that My...

it depends on whether you're looking for o/l or r/l play, if it's r/l then you'd be better off going to a munch and getting connected to the scene in your area. If it's o/l there's a personal's...

Always bear in mind that there are way more subs than Dom/mes, this means you have to present yourself in a way that makes you stand out from the crowd. As has been mentioned you have to be clear in...

As most experienced players will tell you there is no single "correct" way to do BDSM, what is right is what's right for the specific individuals involved. There are plenty of very knowledgeable...

It was based on a popular novel by Anne Rice which, while I've never read it, has been well reviewed by a number of scene people. However the movie chose to add a totally original plot line...

to "objective" something is to treat it like an object rather than as a person, in the scene you see that in many ways. One, o course, is the "human furniture" scenario where the sub takes the role...

What has to be remembered is that we live in an age of instant gratification, the idea of long term effort to achieve a goal, especially a romantic/sexual one, is so far outside most people's box...

I used to argue with feminists all the time that if women didn't acquiesce to a subordinate role they wouldn't consistently end up in one. The same is true of men, if a man wants to be the more...

not that I've seen, no

Tasking, like any form of training, has to be adapted to the needs of the student/sub and to the goals desired. The best person to assign them would be your Dom/me, in lieu of that you'd need to say...

Safety First, Kink Second

Submission is a gift in the sense that while a sub is being true to themselves by being submissive they have no obligation whatever to be submissive to everyone who wants to call themselves dominant....

Something I see a lot is the attitude that switching can't be a lifestyle in itself but has to be a transitional period. We see a lot of people demanding that we "make up our minds" just as bisexual...

it's been My experience that different sites have different behavioral norms and that if one doesn't care for the ones at a particular site one simply looks elsewhere. It's My own practice to act in...

It's been My observation over the years that many sadists are in no way dominant and that many masochists are far from submissive, given the fact that many people equate the words sadism and...

First, got to get one thing off My chest, it should be "polyerotic" or "multiamorous", mixing Greek and Latin roots is just wrong.
that said,
it is important to distinguish between "polyamory",...

First, got to get one thing off My chest, it should be "polyerotic" or "multiamorous", mixing Greek and Latin roots is just wrong.
that said,
it is important to distinguish between "polyamory",...