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  1. Thread: bisexual

    by Solis
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    Re: bisexual

    Welcome, then, bibrian!

    I'm not sure if bi-subs have the easiest time, the hardest, or both. The journey toward discovery should be rich.

    Solis
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    Re: Female circumcision

    It is stupid beyond all imagining, as is any other form of mutilation.

    For details, check the World Health Organization's page on female genital mutilation. Regardless of whether the goal is...
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    Re: my dom is not showing his face to me

    I concur with misty and MistyBlue both. For people older than about 19, being on camera feels momentous and risky. I can understand why a dom might not want to take that risk (doms - mostly - are...
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    Re: Orgasm Denial... Why?

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    Regrets for the long silence. Life keeps insists on becoming a distraction.

    In general, I don't think "fostering insecurity" is a healthy training regimen and extended periods of...
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    Re: Orgasm Denial... Why?

    Good question.

    Sexuality is a particularly fraught topic, so it might be easier to think about the underlying issue if we recast it in another realm.

    Doms routinely control their subs' feeding...
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    Re: Seeking advice on Anger and Subdrop please?

    Good morning, Phenyx. Regrets for the long-delayed response, but life kept intervening to thwart my good intentions.

    The short answer is: no, this person's behavior is not acceptable, not...
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    Re: Financial Domination Newbie

    Hello, pip.

    Help me understand what you mean by "financial domination" and by the phrase "where to start building my own, beside the obvious." Mayhap I could help if I understood more clearly.
    ...
  8. Re: May I ask what Your personal preference is when reading what others write?

    No problem.

    Technically we operating in a "reduced cues environment." All communication is ambiguous, and we resolve the ambiguity in the words by interpreting the other cues people give us: are...
  9. Thread: New To Bdsm

    by Solis
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    Re: New To Bdsm

    Hello, rjt.

    And welcome.

    There's an element of trust required in any serious relationship. The world is filled with trolls and poseurs and folks who I wouldn't trust to butter bread without...
  10. Re: May I ask what Your personal preference is when reading what others write?

    Regrets for the long-delayed response, child. I was not intended as a snub.

    The answer depends, in part, on the exchange is synchronous (something like chat) or asynchronous (for example, a...
  11. Thread: Ideas?

    by Solis
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    Re: Ideas?

    This might be a good time to reflect on your Mistress's goals for you and how she has been shaping you. The answer to, what should i do?, starts with, "what developments in me would most fit Her...
  12. Re: Recommended reading for techniques of whipping guys

    Hi, plzhaves.

    You'll find some interesting infographics about the mechanics of spankings here.

    "Whipping" is a very specific, serious activity. It's striking with a narrow, flexible...
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    Re: Ideas for a month in chastity

    Hello, Nonstop.

    Being a dom (or domme) is about purposeful imposition of your will on another. In doing so, you force them to take the actions you dictate and to release that they're taking those...
  14. Thread: hot waxing

    by Solis
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    Re: hot waxing

    Sugar wax? (Googling...) Oh, that has potential: painful and messy!
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    Re: An age gap in D/s...

    Hmmm ... let's see. "Dim dom" is also not just an urban legend. A number of my confreres strike me as delightful people who frequently lose the TV remote and are a, uhhh, a couple beers short of a...
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    Re: Exploring my desire for humiliation

    Greetings.

    I suppose two possibilities suggest themselves. (1) Try it. Google "BDSM munch Barcelona" and you'll find leads to social gatherings near your home. Go to one. Meet people. Play with a...
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    Re: Playing around with being dominant, need ideas

    So sorry to hear that you're feeling shaky about it. It's manageable.

    Being a dom means (a) understanding your sub, (b) setting goals for, in this case, him, (c) creating rules which will move...
  18. Re: How to encourage his dominance to match my natural submission

    People repeat those actions for which they are rewarded.

    Doms are people.

    Combining two naked bodies, your tongue, his leather belt and the two insights above with a burning (at times, it will...
  19. Re: How to encourage his dominance to match my natural submission

    (see below - system-generated duplicate post)
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    Re: New BDSM test quiz

    == Results from BDSM test: What kind of sexual deviant are you? ==
    100% Dominant
    97% Owner
    96% Bondage giver
    94% Master/Mistress
    82% Degradation giver
    78% Sadist
    76% Brat tamer
    71%...
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