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  1. Thread: Do You orgasm....?

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    Re: Do You orgasm....?

    The question is have you ever tried a Doxy? Most powerful wand in the world!! It's amazing, it appears to get me what I'd call "close" (in a matter of minutes too!) but either gets too intense that I...
  2. Thread: Do You orgasm....?

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    Re: Do You orgasm....?

    I've never been able to orgasm even in real life encounters or solo. Guess my chemistry is really off!
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    Re: BDSM outside of marriage

    Oh my assumption was not based on the story, but on the fact that she goes off and features in porn shoots without him... :-P
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    Re: BDSM outside of marriage

    You are more than welcome LO1121. I always gain a lot from the insights of others in this unpredictable world, it's nice to be able to share stories and feelings.
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    Re: BDSM outside of marriage

    I read something earlier this evening that really got me thinking about trust vs. jealousy in relationships. In a nutshell, it went like this:

    Couple 1 went to a party one night and had an amazing...
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    Threesomes and sexual health (oral only)

    Hi all!

    My Dom is very much into MFF threesomes, and until W/we got together He always had multiple slaves around Him, interacting with Him privately and on a group basis.

    W/we now don't have a...
  7. Thread: have a right

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    Forcing means against the woman's consent, and...

    Forcing means against the woman's consent, and nobody ever has the right to do anything to anyone unless it is consensual. Basically just repeating what the above post says! No, no, no, no and no.
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    For a long time I always had fantasies of...

    For a long time I always had fantasies of dominating others and using them for my pleasure. I loved reading erotic stories with a strong, dominant female character I could relate to, and playing out...
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    OK so it's not really bad for you or anything if...

    OK so it's not really bad for you or anything if you have a butt plug in for a considerable amount of time? At least, by that I'm talking probably 8 hours max, nothing like 24/7, but even so it's...
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    Karley's reply was spot on in so many ways. I'd...

    Karley's reply was spot on in so many ways. I'd just like to emphasise how important the needs and wants of the submissive are in a D/s relationship - I see them as so much more important than the...
  11. If you've only tried using nipple clamps on...

    If you've only tried using nipple clamps on yourself solo, then you may well find that it's a completely different story if a partner uses them on you. Or then again, maybe you won't, maybe your...
  12. Thread: Becoming scarlet

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    Maybe it could help to associate a piece of...

    Maybe it could help to associate a piece of clothing or an item of jewellery, or even a certain perfume (or all of these together!) with being scarlet. Every time you want to become the slave, wear a...
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    Thanks for being so honest in your previous post,...

    Thanks for being so honest in your previous post, Scarlet. Really brave of you, but I'm glad you're finally on the right road now and are happy about that :-)



    I'll second your opinion on open...
  14. Thread: How to be safe?

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    Best answer there is. I guess when it comes down...

    Best answer there is. I guess when it comes down to it, if I'm "too" open and communicative, and end up saying things that he might not want to hear (like I can't just see someone for sex, it has to...
  15. Thread: How to be safe?

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    Now now, don't reduce yourself to subtle...

    Now now, don't reduce yourself to subtle techniques such as this in an attempt to make me divulge all! ;-)



    Hmm, it does, but this the first time I've ever done anything 'casual' with someone...
  16. Thread: How to be safe?

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    We met for a few drinks and were getting along...

    We met for a few drinks and were getting along well, and decided to go to another "cosier" bar after a few hours and got a little cosier with each other too :-) I ended up back at his and we explored...
  17. Thread: How to be safe?

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    :-D That enough for you?

    :-D

    That enough for you?
  18. Thread: How to be safe?

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    Meeting a different someone for the first time...

    Meeting a different someone for the first time tomorrow night, and am pretty excited about it :-) We've been talking for a few days online (not long at all, I know) and we've been getting on really...
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    Good on you both, really. :-)

    Good on you both, really. :-)
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    That's really interesting. So I'm assuming it's...

    That's really interesting. So I'm assuming it's just you conducting BDSM outside of your relationship and not your partner too (who presumably isn't into it hence why you are playing elsewhere?)?...
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    BDSM outside of marriage

    I'm going to make no judgements here whatsoever, I've just become really curious to know if many people are married but practice BDSM outside of their marriage rather than inside (having failed to...
  22. Thread: Titles

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    Are you only referring to titles that may be used...

    Are you only referring to titles that may be used verbally by a sub to their Dom(me) and vice versa, or also more defining titles like Dom(me)/sub/top/bottom which tend to help in generalisation but...
  23. Oh definitely! As a BDSM forum you'd probably be...

    Oh definitely! As a BDSM forum you'd probably be hard-pushed to find a S&M film that wouldn't appeal to lots, but I really want to emphasise how thought-provoking this film is rather than being a...
  24. Just watched this film (subtitled) and would...

    Just watched this film (subtitled) and would definitely reccommend it. It was an interesting story, and whilst not gripping as a movie I think that's because the director has tried to stay true to...
  25. Thread: hobbies?

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    I quite enjoy reading when time allows for it -...

    I quite enjoy reading when time allows for it - that's to say when I have free time that isn't spent on the internet browsing the forum or watching films or TV! What a couch potato... No, I also...
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