I have started exploring this with my sub. Thanks for the warnings, denuseri....I find it to be incredibly hot. It's an excellent way to remind her of her position.
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I have started exploring this with my sub. Thanks for the warnings, denuseri....I find it to be incredibly hot. It's an excellent way to remind her of her position.
Thank you, scarlet. Like anything else, bloodplay can, I'd imagine (no experience or real interest here), be fun and part of a healthy d/s relationship, if done correctly, although the risks are...
In my book, anything between two consenting adults is "permitted"....do or imagine whatever you want!
I'm certainly not an expert in these matters, but, my two cents:
-This has probably turned into an issue of pride for him, more than anything having to do with you. There's a natural tendency in...
This is a great thread and it's given me a lot to think about. Thanks for your responses, everyone!
It really depends on your sub....if she enjoys spankings/canings/etc., then make it more psychological. I like the idea of intermingling humiliation with adoration while using her body.
I am interested, dear. PM me.
Anal is a lot of fun, but, as many others have said, it's not something to rush into. My first girlfriend was experienced and knew what she was doing, so it wasn't a problem for me....but definitely...
I am currently looking for a sub who wants her limits to be respected, but eventually pushed and broken. I am a demanding dom and expect willing compliance, and a readiness to submit to punishment...
Excellent document, I hope that it gets wide circulation on the net since it distills an introduction to the life to the essentials. I'd read a part two with interest.
Thank you for this suggestion, it's a very good idea.
IT really depends on the dom. I don't think brattiness is an essential part of being a sub, and you're not "broken" because you're not bratty-you just are comfortable in a certain mode of behavior,...
I really appreciated this comment-I know that lots of people prefer real life but, perhaps because most of my education on BDSM has come from online, I feel more comfortable, at least initially, with...
I mis-spoke; I didn't mean "impossible," but rather difficult. I considered myself a dom when I was 18, but not in the sense of knowing the lifestyle and having experience in actually having subs....
Thank you! I'm new to the life, and starting to explore being a dom....so far, many of the subs I've talked to have encountered "doms" displaying several of the traits red flagged, so I think it's...
That was a good read, thank you. As a 26 y.o. man just starting to explore "the life," I particularly appreciated the part about it being basically impossible for 18-year olds to be doms.
I would insist on the 2nd person formal if the sub was a speaker of any language with this locution. I speak Italian, and with an Italian sub, she would unquestionably address me as "Voi."
This is a beautiful story, thank you for sharing.