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Some of the ideas in this thread may help: http://www.bdsmlibrary.com/forums/showthread.php/26546-How-did-you-decide-on-the-title-you-use-with-your-Dom

*laughs* True - and when you apply for a job, for example, often you are told to "submit an application". Maybe the Master plan that's drawn up is actually a Dom; and skills must be submissive as...

There are a significant number of people who can switch between being dominant and being submissive depending on the partner. For example I always thought I was simply Dominant until a special Domme...

Assuming he's just left for the evening and there will be other times you feel the same, there are quite a few threads about similar issues and I will attempt to briefly summarise what I remember...

That's playing with dynamite.

I tried to post a link to the wikipedia article twice - but both times got some message about moderating - I've given up! But agree 100% with ksst that if you look at what it is and read how it works...

I hope this doesn't post twice - I got an error message!

There are a large number of potential ways to use the "magic wand". Maybe this article could help:...

Please do not be embarrassed to ask a question Nightscript. We are all willing and pleased to help you if we can.

The number of ways a wand could be used I would think is only limited to your...

Goodness Vicky that is a hell of a question! There are probably as many different types of sub as there are people on the planet - just reading through profiles (and there are thousands and thousands...

@Austerus: you and I obviously have a similar taste for lively discussions, which hopefully people can read and learn from.

Each of the points I made and you replied to are a condensed summary of...

In my opinion anyone involved online should behave as closely as possible to the way they would behave were it face-to-face. Certainly the emotional and mental aspects of our lifestyle apply equally...

I have noticed that there is often something missing in the description of slave positions, which is how to assume the position in the first place.

I am sure that most Dom[me]s are like me and...

A lot of Brits do yoga as well Austerus - it is very popular here as far as I know (I wouldn't know about Pilates though *laughs*). If I asked a random sample of 100 men to write down 5 different...

It is good practice to question who you can trust to give accurate and truthful answers, but I contend that it is far better to put the same question to more than one person and/or to discuss any...

Ah - what about the clever males who can eat AND watch football at the same time?

The vast majority of males (which include masters, of course) would not consider yoga to be an exercise. I know this is an incorrect viewpoint but it is true nevertheless.

According to my sisters that is where a male keeps his brain.

Hi BlasphemousRumours.

The main reason that people have for suggesting that discussions are held in the open such as in a forum is that when someone speaks rubbish they can be exposed as frauds...

If you are not used to exercise the recommendation is to start with a relatively short session maybe 10 minutes at a time (once or twice a day), then work up from there until you are doing 1/2 hour...

I would qualify the advice that the wonderful denu gave to fit your situation!

It is wise to check and investigate any advice you get before acting, but everyone I know who has a mentor has only...

In answer to your first question, my advice based on what you have told us is to continue to serve her: serve her liberal portions of spanking and having your way with her when she is tied up. You...

1) You can't create extra time, so one option is to be stringent about when "playtime" is (with kids in the house you've obviously already got experience with these restrictions). I don't have to...

Hi Burddom

I'm not 100% clear on what question you are actually asking, but will do my best.

Domming can be hard work as you are discovering - definitely enjoyable especially when you achieve...

Oooohhh the type of comment that make me go "Grrrr"!!!!!!

Some subs may be "weak" just as some Doms may be "weak" and some prime ministers or presidents may be "weak". But to generalise is plain...

Here is the link to an article on that specific subject in what I refer to as my bdsm bible: http://www.seekers.org.uk/Meeting%20Safely%20in%20Real%20Life.htm

There are many other articles on that...