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Adam & Eve or the Stockroom might have things that would be useful. I know that the Stockroom has a "trainer" set with varying sizes. I've thought about looking for one for extended wear as well. ...

Agreed, the Loving Dominant is a great book. And if you can't find them @ Borders or BN, Amazon may have some answers. The Bottoming Book is great for absolute beginners.

I also have a collar from wyred slave. I get a range of comments from "why are you wearing a bike chain / dog collar?" to "oooh! pretty necklace!" so it's a crapshoot.

I have a beaded hematite...

Exactly how I feel about it. And I think happty could totally be a word. Let's make it one. ;)

Lovely post, gog. :)

I had some of the same issues, mostly revolving around making my feminist leanings fit with this new need to submit to a man. I should be self-sufficient, shouldn't I? I...