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perfection is not necessary....this reminded me of a quote that i find to be very appropriate. the fact that it is football season just makes the quote even more appropriate, lmao!!

"Perfection is...

beg, you make a very fine point...very well stated.

Welcome to the library! If you are looking to learn and explore, you are most definitely in a good place for it. There are always helpful voices around here.

It would seem to me that, ultimately,...

That one would be very easy to answer...anything that my Owner were to dish out as punishment.

Whisperz

Welcome!

very simply put...you are who and what you are, nothing more and nothing less...as are the rest of us. we are all different and each of us has our own little niche in BDSM, everyone's...

Welcome to the library! *hugs*

hmmm...i've been sitting here and absorbing this for a bit, and i think i would have to say that i don't completely understand why one would test their dominant to start with. it would seem to me...

i would have to agree with denu on this one. what is considered acceptable by some is not-so-much with others. the meaning and level of importance behind each and every bdsm title is different for...

just a thought, but, given that it seems to be waning in importance to him...i think i would start to wonder if he ISN'T vanilla, as ntripper85 has suggested. it seems odd to me, even considering the...

lmfao!!! uhhh...*blushing*...yes, i would say that, um, i've actual proof that it can be, uh,....effective, lol!

haha....that's what i do, i hang a plant from it, lol! good luck...

revisiting...this is my favorite thread on the forums.. *sigh*

online requires a lot of imagination, and an extreme amount of honesty and open-mindedness...but, really, it is what you make of it. does it replace face-to-face? no. the two are not, and never will...

i whole-heartedly agree, hence the use of the word "most"...

honestly, i don't know...i might. but the fact remains that i don't.

while my insides kind of bristle at my lifestyle being referred to as a moral defect (lol), i think it is also important to remember that philosophers ARE philosophers simply because they have a...

Definition of DEFECT (according to Merriam-Webster)



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a: an imperfection that impairs worth or utility : shortcoming <the grave defects in our foreign policy> b: an imperfection (as a...

what have you had him try? while he is trying these "things", does he know what you are expecting? maybe this lifestyle is just not his cup of tea...it's my opinion that all you can really do is try...

hmmm...well, i think it can be easily said that long distance relationships may tend to be a bit more difficult, due to the lack of physical contact...but they can still be very satisfying. i believe...

owwww!! *squeezes her knees together...firmly*

whole-heartedly agree with, both, Oz and Snark...there really is no need to feel guilt over what you feel, it is who and what you are...savor and enjoy it!

Whisperz

hmmm, as much as i would typically bristle at being spoken to or treated like a child....i must confess that "good girl" are two of my favorite words...

Whisperz

distressed,

you have every right to be upset...but, very respectfully, the others are right. there are cheaters in the vanilla world as well...many of them. i truly do hope that you find what you...

when i was a little girl, it was always referred to as a "kitty", so this is what i usually still call it....which is kinda odd actually, cause my RL nick is Kitty as well (and has been since i was 2...

satisfied,

this was beautiful to read and made my heart sing for you...and at the same time, i think i am now going to need to go find a cold shower, lol!!

many thanks for sharing,

Whisperz