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Observing american politics from outside it (I'm Canadian), I have to say, honestly, that the whole country seems to have gone a bit ... insane. I'm sure as hell no political scientist or expert, but...

I've never been, and can't ever see myself being, a religious person, I'll just say that up front. That said though, I admit I've been deeply impressed by this new pope. He actually sounds like...

I think you've got it right, for the most part, in that the internet has changed the way people look at things. Not just BDSM, but nearly all aspects of life. Doctors these days often complain about...

So a question for the Dom/mes out there: How do you feel about subbies who're a bit on the challenging side?

To clarify, I don't mean bad behaved, or bratty, or anything like that. I mean...

Waxing is no doubt more effective, but personally ... I kind of like shaving. There's a nice little ritualistic feeling to it when I'm doing it under instructions form my Domme. It's an additional...

If you're up and online this evening, you could pop into chat and join in the discussion group. The information is in this thread:...

One useful thing I'd recommend is that you take time to learn the difference between fantasy and reality when it comes to BDSM, because there's a lot of the former in the media, and very little of...

My absolute favourite ... is too personal to talk about, so instead I'll say my second favourite toy!

I have a small vibe egg that I just adore. It's perfect for moving about just where you need...

I'm with fireykitty myself. First rule should be ... Know Yourself. Know why you want to be submissive and why it means something to you. Not just that it's exciting and sexy, but what it really...

What would it be? What would you say, as a sub or Dom/me, to someone who was completely new to the lifestyle?

Just something a little light and humorous about a very serious subject. These Youtube skits are a few years old, but still hilarious and make me laugh every time!

So whichever side of the issue...

Suggestion for another topic next week:

The differences in emotional intention and physical implementation between Humiliation and Degradation. Two terms that are often used interchangeably or as...

Could be worse. Australia outlawed small breasts!

(in advertising and adult entertainment I think).

That guy is crazy! Clearly, that was a job for a spork.

Ooh, sounds right some bit of wicked! I'd love to join in on it ... if I can manage to get my stupid arse sleeping schedule pushed back around to something a normal human being would recognize. It's...

I was in a relationship with a woman a few years ago, and while we meshed quite well on many levels, religion wasn't one of them. I absolutely respect anyone's right to believe in anything they want,...

I'm glad to have helped, if anything I said was ... you know ... actually helpful. I've often thought that some of the stereotype conventions of BDSM make things a bit confusing. Like, punishments...

I'm with jules on this one :)

I hope it's ok for a non-dom/me to answer here, but speaking as a subby I can say that the absolute best way to punish me would be to just flat out ignore me. That hurts a lot more than any kind of...

Rock on! I completely agree with you on all points.

A lot of people sneer at OL relationships, which is fair enough I suppose, but there's a value and closeness that's possible in a good one that...

OK ... so I have a bit of problem. It's a little hard to explain, and probably a great deal daft, but dammit we need content so here goes!

I love being submissive to the right person, but I often...

Might sound strange, but I'm not a big fan of strap-ons. I'm not much for the .. um.. you know .. thrusting type sex. I prefer fingers and a talented tongue everytime!

I know what you mean, and it used to freak me out a bit. Mainly because in real life, if a guy I barely knew (or really anyone for that matter) just came up touched me, I'd lose seven kinds of my...

I learned the hard way where my preferences lay. I love gentle and 'teasing' type humiliation. Things like pet names and embarrassing instructions like going without undies or the like. However, I...

See, I was completely the opposite. When I was a kid, I was as far from submissive as you can get. I was a total tomboy, and fought like a wild thing against anyone who tried to tell me what to do. I...