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  1. Welcome to the Library. I hope you have luck...

    Welcome to the Library. I hope you have luck finding what you're looking for.
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    @VV: I agree with you that those are all probably...

    @VV: I agree with you that those are all probably good signs in a dominant, but I would stop short of calling a lot of them "responsibilities." I think of responsibilities as the things which, if a...
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    I would stay away from "try to keep safe" because...

    I would stay away from "try to keep safe" because its very vague and will mean very different things to different people.

    I think there's a responsibility to make a sincere effort to do no har...
  4. Thread: excercise

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    VeniVidi: That isn't true here in California. A...

    VeniVidi: That isn't true here in California. A lot of men do yoga. Hell, around here a lot of men do Pilates.
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    At the very least if you _have_ to speak with...

    At the very least if you _have_ to speak with someone privately then ask around to regulars for references on the person before trusting too much in what they have to say. People who don't know...
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    LOL I love the bathroom example. I use similar...

    LOL I love the bathroom example. I use similar promise/reward of violence when I'm happy. Of course I also use violence when I'm not happy. But it has a different character. :P
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    Awww shucks. :)

    Awww shucks. :)
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    If you're looking for gentle but fun tricks to...

    If you're looking for gentle but fun tricks to re-engage the dynamic, something that's subtle but possessive and feels very nice is to hold her wrist instead of her hand. If you're sitting or lying...
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    I don't think there's any such thing as topping...

    I don't think there's any such thing as topping from the bottom. There's dominating and there's not dominating. Submission is a choice that your wife may make, but it doesn't mean she's going to be...
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    I don't think that codependency, by itself, is a...

    I don't think that codependency, by itself, is a negative thing in an M/s relationship. Assuming everyone is happy with the situation as-is and is getting their needs met then more power to them....
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    I'm a big fan of humiliation. I know it's not for...

    I'm a big fan of humiliation. I know it's not for everyone. I consider humiliation the emotional equivalent of a beating. It can be hard or soft, long or short, with any number of implements. Much...
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    You don't want an online mentor, at least not a...

    You don't want an online mentor, at least not a single one or anyone through a private channel. Post questions in open forum (keep them as redacted as you want/need to protect your and your wife's...
  13. It's quite the all star list of advice here, so...

    It's quite the all star list of advice here, so I'll be a greedy monster and hope I can look good just by standing near the smart people. :)

    I would agree with denu and ksst that in the moment...
  14. Wow, what timing to drop back in. Thank you all...

    Wow, what timing to drop back in. Thank you all for the kind words, I'm glad it is useful and/or interesting :)
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    No, you're not off base. Though I will say...

    No, you're not off base.

    Though I will say that if by "sub" the asker meant "submarine" and if by "bratty" the questioner meant "malfunctioning" then I'd say two great ways to break it would be a...
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    Hi! No you're nOt completely crazy, and I'm sure...

    Hi! No you're nOt completely crazy, and I'm sure you'll find people to help with your quest. I'd be happy to help with answers to questions or resources if you are lookin for anything specific.
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  17. Thread: Am I kinky?

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    A young lady is out drinking, and meets a man....

    A young lady is out drinking, and meets a man. They hit it off and it becomes clear that they're into one another. As the night progresses and they have some drinks she opens up a little. In a...
  18. You might have some luck reading the information...

    You might have some luck reading the information over at the Taken In Hand site http://www.takeninhand.com/

    Not sure if it would be your cup of tea, but it does have a lot of articles from a "less...
  19. Thread: Iran BDSM

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    Google says that it translates to:

    Google says that it translates to:
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    ted, Facebook ad Twitter are only more important...

    ted,
    Facebook ad Twitter are only more important than traditional media in areas where traditional media has less reach than the internet (i.e. 2nd and 3rd world countries). In fact in many of those...
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    The entire reason that money is power in politics...

    The entire reason that money is power in politics is that it buys votes. Money allows a candidate to get more airtime on TV and radio, travel to more towns to meet people and give speeches, spend...
  22. Thread: Curious

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    Hi Darryl, Some of these questions are kind of...

    Hi Darryl,
    Some of these questions are kind of hard to answer, because BDSM isn't any one thing. It's more of an umbrella term that encompasses a wide variety of kinks and lifestyles that tend to...
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    Hey thalia, Sorry you had such a hard time in...

    Hey thalia,
    Sorry you had such a hard time in Vanillaville, and welcome home.

    I think a lot of people know exactly how you feel and have been through similar relationships and situations. It...
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    Hell, now _I'm_ imagining you heading into a...

    Hell, now _I'm_ imagining you heading into a phone booth and coming out naked/chained ;P
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    A ha! Lucy left me an opening to offer info on a...

    A ha! Lucy left me an opening to offer info on a subject I otherwise know very little about. Human hair, dry, has tensile strength that approaches that of copper wire. Once it has been wet for three...
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