Hey everyone,

I'm serviam and new to the site. I'm a sub and I would say moderately experienced. A good friend, a submissive female, introduced me to the lifestyle a few years ago.

Since becoming involved I’ve read a lot and had a little actual play experience, online and off. In hindsight, I understand now that being a submissive has always been a part of who I am but of course wasn't able to really understand that or put a name to it until my friend helped me get my mind around it.

There isn’t a vibrant BDSM community where I live and so I have been looking around the web for awhile before finding this site. It seems to be a great place to get acquainted with and to network with other like minded people. I know I have lots more to learn and experience so hopefully joining here will help in that regard.

serviam