Sir_Russell, and anyone else who's reading,
I've filled in my set of questions. I did find the instructions on the one for doms a bit confusing since they're written as if a sub was filling it out. I've answered in such a fashion that I would be giving where it makes sense to for a Dom to give and receiving where it makes sense of a Dom to receive as I understand it. As noted in other posts I am quite inexperienced as a Dom, so there are a lot of No's in the have you tried this column. I've answered on instinct for a lot of these. I expect this list to change quite a lot as I try some of these activities. In particular I think many of the 4's might become 5's once I've tried them. Equally a lot of the 1's could become 0's but I don't believe I should rule out anything I haven't tried unless I'm sure it's an absolute certain NO.
I'm open to any feedback people want to give. There is no partner to fill in the sub questions yet, hopefully that will change. But I'm quite comfortable with laying my cards on the table, so to speak. If any of my answers don't make sense I'm happy to clarify (I've probably just misunderstood the question). Enough rambling, here are my answers
Code:
Abrasion: NO 3
Age play: NO 2
Anal sex: YES 5
Anal plugs (small): NO 4
Anal plugs (large): NO 4
Anal plug (public, under clothes): NO 4 only with the explicit consent of the submissive and dependent on specifically where 'public' is
Animal roles: NO 1 only if this was a strong turn on for the sub
Arm & leg sleeves (armbinders): NO 3
Asphyxiation: NO 1 not at this time, at my level of experience it would be unsafe
Auctioned for charity: NO 1
Bathroom use control: NO 1
Bestiality: NO NO hard limit.
Beating (soft): NO 3/4
Beating (hard): NO 1 only if it was something the sub specifically wanted and then only with thorough planning and a _lot_ of precautions
Blindfolds: YES 5
Being serviced (sexual): YES 5
Being bitten: NO 3
Breast/chest bondage: NO 4
Breath control: NO 5
Branding: NO NO
Boot worship: NO 2/3
Bondage (light): YES 5
Bondage (heavy): NO 5
Bondage (multi-day): NO 3
Bondage (public, under clothing): YES 4 wherever 'public' is involved, only where the sub is also interested
Breast whipping: YES 4
Brown showers (scat): NO NO
Cages (locked inside of): NO 2/3
Caning: NO 4
Catheterization: NO 1
Cells/Closets (locked inside of): NO 2/3
Chastity belts: NO 2
Chauffeuring: NO 1
Choking: NO 1
Clothespins: NO 4
Cock worship: NO 4
Collars (worn in private): NO 5
Collars (worn in public): NO 4 again 'public' so only with explicit consent
Competitions (with other Subs): NO 2
Corsets (wearing): NO 3
Cuffs: NO 4
Cuffs (metal): NO 4
Cutting: NO NO I would not feel safe doing this at this time
Dilation: NO 3
Double penetration: NO 4
Electricity: NO 1
Enemas: NO 2
Enforced chastity: NO 3
Examinations (physical): NO 4
Exercise (forced/required): NO 3
Exhibitionism (friends): NO 4
Exhibitionism (strangers): NO 1
Eye contact restrictions: NO 1
Face slapping: NO 2
Fantasy abandonment: NO 1
Fantasy rape: NO NO
Fantasy gang-rape: NO NO
Fisting (anal): NO 3
Fisting (vaginal): NO 3
Following orders: NO 4
Foot worship: NO 2
Forced dressing: NO 4
Forced homosexuality: NO 2
Forced masturbation: NO 4
Forced nudity (private): NO 5
Forced nudity (around others): NO 2 only if the others were people we both knew well
Forced servitude: NO 3
Full head hoods: NO 2
Gags (cloth): YES 4
Gags (rubber): NO 4
Gags (tape): NO 4
Gates of Hell (male) N/A
Genital sex: YES 5
Given away to another Dom (temp): NO 1
Given away to another Dom (perm): NO NO
Golden showers: NO NO
Hairbrush spankings: YES 5
Hair pulling: NO 3
Hand jobs (giving): YES 4
Hand jobs (receiving): YES 4
Harems (serving w/other subs): NO 4
Harnessing (leather): NO 3/4
Harnessing (rope): NO 3/4
Having food chosen for you: NO 4
Having clothing chosen for you: NO 4
Head (giving fellatio): N/A
Head (receiving fellatio)for males only YES 5
High heel worship: N/A
Homage with tongue (non-sexual): NO 4
Hot oils (on genitals): NO 3/4
Hot waxing: NO 3
Housework (doing): NO 2
Human puppy dog: NO NO
Humiliation (private): NO 4
Humiliation (public): NO 2/3
Hypnotism: NO 1
Ice cubes: NO 4
Infantilism: NO 1
Initiation rites: NO 3
Injections: NO 1
Intricate (Japanese) rope bondage: NO 3/4
Interrogations: NO 2
Kidnapping: NO 1
Kneeling: NO 5
Leather clothing: NO 3
restraints: NO 4
Lectures for misbehavior: NO 3
Licking (non-sexual): NO 3
Manacles & Irons: NO 4
Manicures (giving): NO 1
Massage (giving): YES 4
Massage (receiving): YES 3
Medical scenes: NO 1
Modeling for erotic photos: NO 4
Mouth bits: NO 1
Mummification: NO 1
Nipple clamps: NO 5
Nipple weights: NO 4
Oral/anal play (rimming): NO 3/4
Over-the-knee spanking: YES 5
Orgasm denial: NO 4/5
Orgasm control: NO 4/5
Outdoor scenes: NO 4 only in a carefully chosen location
Outdoor sex: NO 4/5 as above
Phone sex (serving Dom): NO 3/4 recieving from a sub obviously
Phone sex (serving Dom's friends): NO 3/4 as above
Piercing (temporary, play-pierce): NO 1
Piercing (permanent): NO 1
Prison scenes NO 1
Pony slave: NO NO
Public exposure: NO 2/3
Pussy/cock whipping: NO 3/4
Pussy worship:
Riding crops: NO 4/5
Riding the "horse" (crotch tort.): NO 3
Rituals: NO 4
Religious scenes: NO 1
Restrictive rules on behavior: NO 4
Rubber/latex clothing: NO 3
Rope body harness: NO 3/4
Saran wrapping: NO 3
Scratching – getting: NO 2
Scratching – giving: NO 2
Sensory deprivation: NO 3
Serving: NO 4 recieving service from a sub for all of these
Serving as art: NO 4
Serving as ashtray: NO NO
Serving as furniture: NO 2/3
Serving as a maid: NO 4
Serving as toilet: NO NO
Serving as waitress/waiter: NO 4
Serving orally (sexual): YES 5
Serving other Doms (supervised): NO 2/3
Serving other Doms (unsupervised): NO 1
Sexual deprivation (short term): NO 3/4
Sexual deprivation (long term): NO 2
Shaving (body hair): NO 4
Shaving (head hair): NO 1
Sleep deprivation: NO 1
Sleepsacks: NO 1
Slutty clothing (private): NO 4/5
Slutty clothing (public): NO 3
Spanking: YES 5 giving obviously
Spandex clothing: NO 2
Speech restrictions (when, what): NO 3
Speculums (Anal): NO 3
Speculums (vaginal): NO 3
Spreader bars: NO 4
Standing in corner: NO 4
Stocks (adjustable): NO 4
Straight jackets: NO 2
Strap-on-dildos (sucking on): N/A
Strap-on-dildos (penetrated by): NO NO
Strap-on-dildos (wearing): NO 0
Strapping (full body beating): NO 1
Suspension (upright); NO 3
Suspension (inverted): NO 3
Suspension (horizontal): NO 3
Supplying new partners for Dom: N/A
Swallowing semen: NO 4
Swallowing urine: NO NO
Swapping (with one other couple): NO 1
Swinging (multiple couples): NO 1
Tattooing: NO NO too permanent at this time
Teasing: NO 4
Tickling: NO 4
Triple penetration: NO 4
Uniforms: NO 3
Including others: NO 2
Vaginal dildo: N/A
Verbal humiliation: NO 3
Vibrator on genitals: NO 4 administering
Voyeurism (watching others): NO 2
Voyeurism (your slave w/others): NO 2 depends on who the others are
Video (watching others): NO 3
Video (recordings of you): NO 3
Water torture: NO 2
Wearing symbolic jewelry: NO 4
Whipping NO 4
Wooden paddles: NO 4/5
Wrestling: NO 2