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Sir_Russell Hard limit questionaire for... 04-01-2007, 10:11 AM
Sir_Russell The one for sub/slaves ... 04-01-2007, 10:17 AM
kisskinky well here goes...im a little... 04-29-2007, 04:40 AM
boytoy2mistress Abrasion: no no Age play: no... 04-29-2007, 09:52 AM
Daes Felt like filling it out,... 05-11-2007, 12:27 PM
zasvig Abrasion:no no ... 08-13-2007, 09:43 AM
cadence I thought I would give this a... 12-07-2007, 11:33 PM
icey havnt taken this for a while... 03-16-2008, 01:21 PM
MissLindyLoo no 0 07-12-2008, 10:30 PM
Ceight Sir_Russell, The first... 04-24-2012, 07:13 AM
little_lost_devil Re: Hard limit questionaire... 03-31-2014, 05:23 AM
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Sir_Russell The one for Dom/Masters ... 04-01-2007, 10:19 AM
sardis Sir Russell I've completed... 07-05-2008, 03:11 PM
MissLindyLoo Sir Russell My sub has... 07-09-2008, 07:04 PM
Sir_Russell For an example MINE and I... 04-01-2007, 10:21 AM
tessa This is why this place is so... 04-01-2007, 10:36 AM
DrGeordie thanks for posting these... 04-01-2007, 10:40 AM
Sir_Russell Thank you both. Remember you... 04-01-2007, 10:46 AM
DrGeordie Sir_Russell, and anyone else... 04-02-2007, 04:02 PM
Rhabbi Thanks for the post Sir... 04-02-2007, 04:12 PM
Sir_Russell Thank you Doc First you... 04-02-2007, 06:47 PM
DrGeordie Thank you for the feedback.... 04-03-2007, 11:34 AM
Guest Well that looks a pretty good... 04-03-2007, 12:53 PM
BorderCollie I am happily married sub to... 04-04-2007, 01:53 AM
jeanne These clarified my thinking 04-04-2007, 05:21 AM
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Sir_Russell sub to Border Collie.... 04-04-2007, 01:27 PM
Sir_Russell his_j take the questionaire... 04-04-2007, 01:34 PM
blossom Abrasion: no 0 Age play: no... 04-11-2007, 02:33 PM
Sir_Russell blossom you certainly have a... 04-11-2007, 03:26 PM
jeanne Sir Russell, Thanks for... 04-19-2007, 05:21 AM
tessa ~hugs and grins~ I'll hope... 04-19-2007, 06:10 AM
wingsofanangel 0 (zero) indicates you have... 04-30-2007, 05:58 PM
cazee Abrasion: no - 0 Age play:... 05-01-2007, 08:48 AM
Sir_Russell My goodness I go off-line and... 05-10-2007, 02:26 PM
Sir_Russell kisskinky Just my opinion... 05-10-2007, 02:33 PM
kisskinky thanks russell, im inclined... 05-12-2007, 02:10 PM
Sir_Russell boytoy2mistress Your new... 05-10-2007, 02:44 PM
Sir_Russell Anya All in all I would... 05-10-2007, 03:02 PM
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Sir_Russell cazee You have a lot of... 05-10-2007, 04:40 PM
TeddyBearGaySlave Abrasion: don't know what... 06-21-2007, 12:48 AM
Beatrice Abrasion: Age play: Anal... 12-08-2007, 04:32 AM
gettinghorny thats a hell of a list 01-30-2008, 10:58 AM
MG_cleo For those who are "in... 01-04-2008, 08:58 AM
Cool Luke\'s Hand Disclaimer: I have not... 03-12-2008, 01:49 PM
bellaslut Abrasion: yes 5 Age play:no... 09-15-2008, 12:31 PM
Sir_Russell Daes Very interesting... 05-13-2007, 11:50 AM
Sir_Russell Anya When I can I will... 05-13-2007, 11:55 AM
Sir_Russell To all who are interested ... 05-13-2007, 11:58 AM
virginSub This is very new to me. I... 06-20-2007, 01:05 PM
Rhabbi Depends on what you wanted to... 06-20-2007, 01:13 PM
Sir_Russell Greetings to all I made it to... 06-21-2007, 09:03 AM
Sir_Russell TeddyBearGaySlave Lol, a... 06-21-2007, 07:35 PM
Soomey Very interesting... 07-03-2007, 06:43 PM
Sir_Russell My response is in a return pm 07-04-2007, 08:23 AM
Sir_Russell If anyone is interested I... 07-28-2007, 06:00 PM
cream _(DNW) ok well I took it and I had... 08-02-2007, 09:19 AM
Logic1 funny how things change. I... 08-03-2007, 07:10 AM
Sir_Russell BrookLynn I see you are a... 08-03-2007, 06:59 PM
cream _(DNW) yes the subs I have are very... 08-03-2007, 07:27 PM
Sir_Russell Logic1 Went back and reread... 08-03-2007, 07:07 PM
Logic1 yes that is how I interpreted... 08-04-2007, 03:23 AM
gagged_Louise I guess the sleeping bag is... 08-04-2007, 03:37 AM
Sir_Russell Oh my a sleep sack is a latex... 08-04-2007, 06:43 PM
mysc Here is mine... ... 08-05-2007, 03:08 PM
Sir_Russell Where were you when I was... 08-06-2007, 09:35 AM
mysc Thanks Sir Russel :) I have... 08-06-2007, 11:16 AM
Xanthos asterisks apply everywhere,... 08-06-2007, 02:02 PM
wingsofanangel I've been away.. but coming... 08-07-2007, 06:19 PM
Sir_Russell Xanthos Your kinks differ... 08-07-2007, 06:35 PM
Xanthos Sir Russel, the compliment... 08-08-2007, 05:53 AM
zasvig this is a good stuff ill be... 08-13-2007, 07:16 AM
Sir_Russell zasvig Try to get her to... 08-13-2007, 08:20 PM
Sir_Russell Xanthos remember they are... 08-13-2007, 08:36 PM
TomOfSweden It's not a very... 08-15-2007, 02:13 AM
Sir_Russell it was never intended to be... 08-19-2007, 01:10 PM
Guest Might want to consider adding... 09-07-2007, 06:48 AM
ladysinaz lady sinaz questionairre take... 09-29-2007, 12:37 PM
Sir_Russell ladysinaz Fairly unusual... 09-30-2007, 12:26 PM
Gr1m\'sGirl Abrasion: yes 3 Age play:... 09-30-2007, 05:02 PM
Sir_Russell and you should make him very... 09-30-2007, 07:16 PM
ladysinaz yes Sir Russel, i am new to... 10-01-2007, 01:49 AM
sub-butterfly Submissive BDSM Play Partner... 10-01-2007, 12:06 PM
sub-butterfly i am quite new to this and so... 10-01-2007, 12:13 PM
Sir_Russell sub-butterfly You will do... 10-02-2007, 08:53 PM
annie The one for sub/slaves ... 10-16-2007, 12:35 PM
Sir_Russell annie, You have one lucky... 10-16-2007, 07:44 PM
annie *blushes* thank you Sir... 10-16-2007, 08:15 PM
Arria For each item, you need to... 10-17-2007, 01:33 PM
Stone Abrasion: yes 3 Age play: no... 10-17-2007, 03:24 PM
Sir_Russell not sure what to say seems... 10-17-2007, 04:51 PM
Arria Aww, I worked very hard to... 10-18-2007, 09:19 AM
Sir_Russell arria, first sorry to have... 10-18-2007, 07:34 PM
Sir_Russell Ladies I just discovered your... 12-08-2007, 09:28 AM
Wedjat That reminds me, I should... 12-08-2007, 12:16 PM
Beatrice I'm not really looking for... 12-08-2007, 01:00 PM
Sir_Russell cadence, For a lady that I... 12-11-2007, 10:30 AM
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Sir_Russell Beatrice, I know very... 12-11-2007, 10:43 AM
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rivka Thank you, Sir Russell. 03-12-2008, 04:17 PM
Wedjat I cut and pasted this because... 12-11-2007, 09:49 PM
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J-Go Abrasion: no 1 Age play: no... 12-17-2007, 10:21 AM
Sir_Russell good J-Go, I think the two... 12-17-2007, 08:21 PM
BrownGrizzly Hi Sir Russell.. just... 12-28-2007, 01:54 PM
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Sir_Russell your welcome BrownGrizzly. I... 12-28-2007, 08:12 PM
jan This seemed like a good way... 01-01-2008, 03:25 PM
Sir_Russell Jan, I would say at this... 01-04-2008, 09:36 PM
wingsofanangel I thought it was time I... 01-20-2008, 11:24 PM
Warbaby1943 You're so exciting I wish I... 01-30-2008, 11:02 AM
Sir_Russell wingsofanangel Very nice,... 01-28-2008, 06:44 PM
wingsofanangel Thank you. I don't have a "... 01-30-2008, 07:14 PM
Warbaby1943 How could I ever forget you? ... 01-30-2008, 07:35 PM
wingsofanangel Damn straight... Sir. ... 02-13-2008, 04:45 PM
at_your_whim Thought I would give it a... 02-13-2008, 05:26 PM
Sir_Russell I have seen other lists like... 02-14-2008, 06:47 AM
at_your_whim Not sure if I am insulted, or... 02-14-2008, 06:15 PM
delish I thought that since I wasn't... 02-14-2008, 06:31 PM
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SeaDogret Sir Russell, first thank you... 02-19-2008, 09:21 PM
rivka When I was previously owned I... 03-12-2008, 01:06 PM
Sir_Russell rivka, My you would make... 03-12-2008, 03:28 PM
Sir_Russell Cool Luke's Hand, First I... 03-12-2008, 03:40 PM
aerodomain Here are my answers Sir... 03-14-2008, 06:19 PM
Sir_Russell Doing this again wrote a... 03-16-2008, 10:47 AM
Sir_Russell icey Hard to see where any... 03-16-2008, 03:08 PM
sub84 Im new to this so I thought I... 03-26-2008, 09:46 PM
silver9 Ohhh... thought I'd fill it... 03-27-2008, 04:54 AM
Sir_Russell sub84 and silver9 silver9... 03-27-2008, 12:56 PM
sub84 thank you for your input you... 03-27-2008, 04:39 PM
Lingeriebitchboy Abrasion: yes 3 Age play: no... 04-07-2008, 04:45 AM
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Sir_Russell SubbieTiedUp, I get a... 04-07-2008, 01:31 PM
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tora Abrasion: Yes 1 Age play:... 04-08-2008, 07:48 AM
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boundbyu Thank You Sir Russell ... 04-08-2008, 08:13 AM
paola Abrasion: no 0 Age play: no... 04-12-2008, 07:22 PM
nighttimestar Abrasion: no 1 Age play: no... 04-12-2008, 09:01 PM
claire Submissive BDSM Play Partner... 04-12-2008, 11:18 PM
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Dominique I'm so hot now... 07-23-2008, 02:46 PM
hopperboo I totally have to re-do this... 07-23-2008, 06:29 PM
hopperboo Here we go... ... 07-23-2008, 10:45 PM
hopperboo Here we go...again. I've... 10-13-2008, 07:17 AM
MissConfused What thorough lists! I'm... 10-13-2008, 08:20 AM
moonlight Abrasion: no 0 Age play: no... 07-24-2008, 08:09 PM
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  1. #9
    Sub to dorsch ONLY.
    Join Date
    Jul 2007
    Location
    Germany
    Posts
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    Post Thanks / Like
    For each item, you need to provide two answers:
    First write YES or NO next to each item to indicate if you have ever DONE that activity.
    Mark N/A if it does not apply to your gender.
    Next, indicate for each item how you FEEL about that activity by rating it on a scale of NO or 0 to 5.

    NO means you will NOT do that item under any circumstances (a hard limit).

    0 (zero) indicates you have utterly no desire to do that activity and don't like doing it (in fact, may loath it) and would ordinarily object to doing it, but you would be willing to do it to please the Dominant if it they really wanted it. (sometimes called a "soft limit").

    1 means you don't want to do or like to do this activity, but wouldn't object if it were asked of you by your Dominant.

    2 means you are willing to do this activity, but it has no special appeal for you.

    3 means you usually like doing this activity, at least on an irregular/ occasional basis.

    4 means you like doing this activity, and would like to experience it on a regular basis.

    5 means the activity is a wild turn-on for you, and you would like it as often as possible.

    Mark with an asterisk (*) those items which you are willing to do only with you current sex partner(s), but not with casual play-partners.

    Note any additional information, which might be important for your Dom to know.

    There is intentionally some overlap between categories. Unless otherwise stated, the Sub is the recipient of the activity.

    Experience, Willingness Question or Comments
    yes/no NO or 0-5 written in by sub


    Abrasion: no - hard limit
    Age play: no - hard limit
    Anal sex: yes - 5
    Anal plugs (small): no - 2
    Anal plugs (large): no - 2
    Anal plug (public, under clothes): no - 2
    Animal roles: no - hard limit
    Arm & leg sleeves (armbinders): no - 1
    Asphyxiation: yes - 5
    Auctioned for charity: no - one of my favourite fantasies, but doubt I would want it r/l.
    Bathroom use control: no - hard limit
    Bestiality: no - hard limit
    Beating (soft): yes - 2
    Beating (hard): yes - 5
    Blindfolds: yes - 3 to 4
    Being serviced (sexual): yes - 1 (if it is not done in a submissive way...)
    Being bitten: yes - 5
    Breast/chest bondage: no - too small I think, lol
    Breath control: yes - 5
    Branding: no - idea fascinates me, but I am scared.
    Boot worship: no - would love to try, though (me doing the worship, lol);
    yes - had it done once (got worshipped). Liked it a lot but need not have it again (I could not feel submissive during it...).
    Bondage (light): yes - 1 (love to have my hands tied and fixed above me)
    Bondage (heavy): no - I doubt I would like it.
    Bondage (multi-day): no - hard limit
    Bondage (public, under clothing): no - I doubt I would like it, I hate to feel hindered in any way publicly.
    Bondage and Sex: no - the one guy who bound me naked had no better use for me than TICKLE me - idiot...
    Breast whipping: yes - 3 to 4 (love to have my back whipped most of all!)
    Brown showers (scat): no - hard limit
    Cages (locked inside of): no - unsure about this one. Dom would not be allowed to leave me alone during it!
    Caning: yes - 4
    Catheterization: NO HELL - hard limit
    Cells/Closets (locked inside of): no - locked up alone is a hard limit
    Chastity belts: no - no interest at all.
    Chauffeuring: no - eye sight too bad to drive (lack of depth perception)
    Choking: yes - 5
    Clothespins breast/nipples: yes - 1 (prefer clamps, dislike the dull pain of clothes pins)
    Clothespins labia lips/clit: yes - see above
    Clothespins body: yes - see above
    Cock worship: I worship my Dom´s cock pretty much, lol
    Collars (worn in private): yes - 5
    Collars (worn in public): yes - I wear mine always, it is unobtrusive, so 5.
    Competitions (with other Subs): no - hard limit
    Corsets (wearing): yes - 3
    Cuffs: yes - 5 (get that too rarely)
    Cuffs (metal): yes - 5 (see immediate above, lol)
    Cutting: yes - 5 (wish I did not scar so easily)
    Dilation: not sure?
    Double penetration: no - favourite fantasy of mine, but I doubt I would like it r/l, and I want no other man in my bed. If hubby could clone himself, I would be willing!
    Electricity: yes - nice, but don´t need it all the time
    Enemas: no - would die if someone watched me
    Enforced chastity: no - dislike that idea; I am good when my Dom is not around, but chastity while he IS around? Hell no.
    Examinations (physical): no - does not attract me
    Exercise (forced/required): no - does not attract me
    Exhibitionism (friends): yes - depends on the situation
    Exhibitionism (strangers): no - unless you count that one time I walked stark naked through a 80-bed dormitory in Amsterdam when I was 20 *cough*, but I did that for fun, it was not ordered by anyone, I was single then.
    Eye contact restrictions: no - the idea attracts me hugely, though (though I like to look at my Dom very much, drools)
    Face slapping: yes - 5
    Fantasy abandonment: no - hard limit, being abandoned alone
    Fantasy rape: no - 4
    Fantasy forced deep throat: no - 4
    Fantasy forced cunt licking: no - hard limit
    Fantasy forced rape anal: no - 4
    Fantasy gang-rape: no - again, favourite fantasy, but think I would not like it r/l.
    Fisting (anal): no - hell ouch - haven´t made my mind up about that one.
    Fisting (vaginal): yes - loved it during it - hated it the 3 days afterwards. Did it only once.
    Flogging: yes - 5
    Following hand signals: no - have not made my mind up regarding it, but would be willing to try.
    Following orders: yes - (sexual context) - 5
    Foot worship: noyesnoidea, I like to lick his feet when I am in the mood, does that count?
    Forced dressing: no - hard limit
    Forced homosexuality: no - hard limit (forced, that is)
    Forced masturbation: no - have been too much of a chicken for that so far.
    Forced nudity (private): I prefer to be naked, so it does not count.
    Forced nudity (around others): forced, no. volunteering: depends on the situation.
    Forced servitude: no - would be willing to try, though
    Full head hoods: no - hard limit
    Gags (cloth): yes - 3
    Gags (penis shaped): no - I think not.
    Gags (rubber): no - I think not.
    Gags (tape): no - would be willing to try.
    Gates of Hell: n/a
    Genital sex: yes (rolls my eyes) - 5
    Given away to another Dom (temp): yes, but only for a few beatings, and my Dom MUST stay present during it! depends on the situation/person, really.
    Given away to another Domme (temp): no - never had a r/l Domme - find the idea very exciting online, though.
    Given away to another Dom (perm): no - hard limit
    Given away to another Domme (perm): no - hard limit
    Golden showers: *BLUSH* rarely, liked it.
    Greetings rituals: no - depends on the ritual, I guess.
    Hairbrush spankings: no - hard limit (I don´t like to be ridiculed)
    Hair pulling: yes - 5
    Hand jobs (giving): yes - not really exciting if it is only hands...
    Hand jobs (receiving): yes - quite exciting, but want something else after a while.
    Harems (serving w/other subs): no - hard limit - *bites other bitches away* lol!
    Harnessing (leather): no - 1
    Harnessing (rope): no - 2
    Having food chosen for you: no - hard limit
    Having clothing chosen for you: yes - for parties; we try to find a compromise, though (if I stand before him in high heels and collar, I only get a "why would you want to wear anything more?" anyway, rolls my eyes)
    Head (giving cunnilingus): yes - only like it if I like the woman allover
    Head (giving fellatio): yes - 5
    Head (receiving cunnilingus female only): yes - liked it a lot
    Head (receiving fellatio male only): n/a
    High heel worship: see boot-worship, those were high-heeled boots. lol
    Homage with tongue (non-sexual): no - does not attract me, or rather it always gets sexual with me rather quick. lol
    Hot oils (on genitals): no - 0
    Hot waxing: yes - 2-3
    Housework (doing): boring. except having him watch when I scrub the floor on my knees half-naked, then I could almost like it.
    Human puppy dog: no - not attractive to me
    Humiliation (private): yes - I am exploring into that direction at present - lol!
    Humiliation (public): no - might be interesting with BDSM friends around, not in general public or with vanillas around, though.
    Hypnotism: no - scary, but attractive fantasy
    Ice cubes: yes - with a lady once - loved that... would not want it often with a man, though, but would be willing to try.
    Infantilism: no - hard limit
    Initiation rites: no - (I am not sure what kind of rites in a BDSM context?)
    Injections: no - I do enjoy donating blood very much, though.
    Intricate (Japanese) rope bondage: yes - once - that was the guy who tickled me. I found the whole experience somewhat pointless. God damn, if I allow a man to tie me naked, he should realize I want him to touch me! shakes my head...
    Interrogations: no - I feel attracted to the idea/situation, but have no idea what I would be interrogated about.
    Kidnapping: no - favourite fantasy, but somewhat difficult to realize in a fun way, I guess.
    Kneeling: yes - depends on the situation if I like it. I love to kneel when giving a blowjob, though.
    Leather clothing: yes - yes - yes - or did I already say yes? LOL
    restraints chains: yes - 3
    restraints leather: yes - 3
    restraints rope: yes - 3
    Lectures for misbehavior: Hm. verbal lectures - NO, hard limit. Physical punishment - yes, gladly, often, 5!
    Licking (non-sexual): As I said, licking always gets sexual with me.
    Manacles & Irons: yes - liked it a lot - but it is uncomfortable! lol
    Manicures (giving): no - does not sound exciting
    Massage (giving): yes - 3
    Massage (receiving): yes - 4 :-)
    Medical scenes: no - no turn-on at all.

    Modeling for erotic photos: would not excite me.
    Modeling for erotic videos: no - hard limit
    Mouth bits: no - not interesting, I guess
    Mummification: no - hard limit or rather total bore
    Nipple clamps: yes - 3, depends on my mood; I prefer clit clamps
    Nipple cloths pins: yes - do not like clothes pins
    Nipple weights: yes - did not like it very much
    Oral/anal play (rimming): yes - it took me 9 years to learn to like it. *BLUSH* *BLUSH* *BLUSH*
    Over-the-knee spanking: yes - it would have to be painful for me to like it. If it is only humiliating, I hate it.
    Orgasm denial: no - not attractive
    Orgasm control: no - I think; does "control" only stand for "not being allowed to"?
    Outdoor scenes: no - would love to be in the woods once
    Outdoor sex: yes - in a barley field - loved it, but need not have it again
    Phone sex (serving Dom): no - doubt I could do it, I have a problem with speaking things, I rather write, and even for that I often refrain to English, which is not my mother tongue.
    Phone sex (serving Dom's friends): no way! the lazy assholes should get their own bitches! lol
    Piercing (temporary, play-pierce): yes - loved it - would be willing.
    Piercing (permanent): yes - had too many of them as a teenager, now I only have the tongue one left (and that is mainly to please hubby *smiles*)
    Prison scenes: no - does not attract me.
    Pony slave: no - hard limit
    Public exposure: no - might be fun in a BDSM setting, but not in general public.
    Public tasks: no - hard limit
    Pussy whipping: yes - 5
    Pussy worship: not sure about the meaning here
    Riding crops: yes - not bad, but I SO prefer whips.
    Riding the "horse" (crotch tort.): noyesno - have seen one, but not tried it - the idea is appealing, though.
    Rituals: no - depends on the rituals, I guess
    Religious scenes: no, I attended a Catholic Girls School, HARD LIMIT!!!
    Restrictive rules on behavior: no - depends - I would be willing to try.
    Rubber/latex clothing: yes - I hate the feeling/smell/texture of rubber, but it shapes the body so prettily. lol
    Rope body harness: no - would give it a try if asked.
    Saran wrapping: yes - once, overnight. It only annoyed me to be restrained. Would not want it again.
    Scratching – getting: yes - 5
    Scratching – giving: yes - sometimes
    Sensory deprivation: yes - a bit - I loved it
    Serving: no - would give it a try, I guess
    Serving as art: no - sounds boring to me
    Serving as ashtray: no - hard limit
    Serving as furniture: no - sounds boring to me
    Serving as a maid: no - I want my own maid, French costume and all! lol
    Serving as toilet: no - hard limit
    Serving as waitress/waiter: no - sounds boring to me
    Serving orally (sexual): yes - 5
    Serving other Doms (supervised): no - I would not serve anyone but my husband, as I am not a very servile/docile person. One would have to earn that. Hubby did not ask for it yet.
    Serving other Doms (unsupervised): no - hard limit
    Sexual deprivation (short term): yes, I guess? It made the following act very rewarding.
    Sexual deprivation (long term): no - hard limit
    Shaving (body hair): I dislike body hair on women - I remove mine - it does not stimulate me to do so, though, it is only aesthetic to me.
    Shaving (head hair): The idea has a huge fascination, but I would not like the time it would take to grow back.
    Shaving (pubic hair): see body hair
    Sleep deprivation: no - hard limit
    Sleep-sacks: no - hard limit
    Slutty clothing (private): yes - can be fun
    Slutty clothing (public): yes in a BDSM setting, but not in general public, unless I feel the urge to shock people.
    Spanking in private: yes - liked it, as long as it is painful
    Spanking in public: yes, in a BDSM setting, but not in general public
    Spanking in bdsm parties: Oh, reading through first would be such a good idea... yes - 4
    Spanking pleasure: I do not understand that question?
    Spandex clothing: no - hard limit - absolutely not my thing, neither on me nor others.
    Speech restrictions (when, what): no - hubby says if I die they will have to kill my mouth extra - might be interesting to try, though. Would most certainly be a cruel punishment for me! lol
    Speculums (Anal): no - hard limit
    Speculums (vaginal): no - hard limit
    Spreader bars: yes - can be ok
    Standing in corner: no - hard limit
    Stocks (adjustable): no - not attractive
    Stocks (fixed): yes - very attractive, I have some Medieval fancies. lol
    Straight jackets: no - hard limit
    Strap-on-dildos (sucking on): no - not attractive (seems pointless to me)
    Strap-on-dildos (penetrated by): no - I don´t know - the idea of getting that from a woman excites and scares me equally - I would have to like the woman a lot, mind.
    Strap-on-dildos (wearing): no - seems pointless to me
    Strapping (full body beating): yes - liked it - with a whip, that is. Want more of it!!!
    Suspension (upright); no - 0
    Suspension (inverted): no - 0
    Suspension (horizontal): no - 0
    Supplying new partners for Dom: ??? If he gets tired of me, I would expect him to find his own new partners. no - hard limit, that is.
    Swallowing semen: yes - 5
    Swallowing urine: no - have been fantasizing about that - might be willing if in the proper mood (*!).
    Swapping (with one other couple): no - hard limit
    Swinging (multiple couples): no - hard limit (yes, I am a jealous bitch, got a problem with that? lol)
    Tattooing: yes - I have mine for un-sexual reasons, though
    Teasing: no - hard limit
    Tickling: NO - ABSOLUTE AND VERY HARD LIMIT, DO NOT TRY IT IF YOU DO NOT WANT YOUR NOSE BROKEN.
    Triple penetration: no omg
    Triple penetration by 3 males: no omg
    (the latter two are favourite fantasies, but I doubt I would like it r/l)
    No man but my husband has touched me sexually during the last 9 years. I need to feel owned. If someone else touched me that way, I would lose the feeling of belonging, and that would do fatal damage to our relationship, I think.
    Or if not that, things would not be the same for me afterwards.
    If I ever got bored with him, I might consider the idea, but I am not anywhere near that point yet.
    (To be really honest: I would make an exception from that rule for Vin Diesel. In return, I would not expect my hubby to be good if his favourite movie star offered herself to him. Both are unlikely to happen, though. *lol*)
    Uniforms: no - the only time I fancied that was a very hot lesbian friend of mine in a police uniform - drools.
    Including others: to watch - yes; to participate - only another Dom for me, and only for beatings. No touching of my privates wanted by me.
    Vaginal dildo: yes - loved/hated it
    Verbal humiliation: works only along with sexual/physical one, and I have to be in the mood, but then I can like it a lot;
    Vibrator on genitals: no - (HONESTLY, I have close to no experience with toys of that sort)
    Voyeurism (watching others): I like to watch other people play, but not have sex
    Voyeurism (your Dom w/others): Men watch all the time anyway *shrugs* lol.
    Or does it mean: Me watching my Dom playing with others? That happens over my rotten corpse. Jealous bitch, as I said.
    Video (watching others): All amateur films I saw were horribly bad with ugly people - so no thanks, I´ll pass.
    Video (recordings of you): no - hard limits, mainly because you never know where those might end up!
    Water torture: no - being pushed underwater is a hard limit.
    Wearing symbolic jewelry: I wear my collar and an ankle chain all the time, I am not fond of other jewellery (yes, I know, unusual for a woman)
    Whipping: yes - 5
    Wooden paddles: no - not attractive to me
    Wrestling: I like to be overwhelmed, and get not anywhere enough of that. But given hubby´s size, the fight would not last longer than a minute, anyway. lol
    Last edited by Arria; 10-18-2007 at 10:26 AM. Reason: Clarification. Thanks to Sir Russell and Master Stone for answering my questions.

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